**From my fighter's corner***
Here comes the towel!
Here comes the towel!
Quote: (03-31-2018 05:36 AM)Hazaer Wrote:
...Or maybe it was some advanced form of attention seeking behavior I dont know about that 1st years engage in. Wasnt really attracted to her so well, its her loss I guess...
Quote: (04-02-2018 10:33 PM)Hazaer Wrote:
...She is kind of average interms of attractiveness to me but when I list her attributes, like hanging out with guys most of the time, being in the military etc., I find that her attractiveness going below the average level even for a ONS let alone a longer term relationship so i don't know if I am still interested in her enough...
Quote: (04-05-2018 07:10 AM)Hazaer Wrote:
...I would think that after a first reject to a date, her re-starting convo would not be considered chasing. She has got to do something more but at what point can the guy know that he is not going to be rejected again by asking her to hangout again?...
Quote: (04-14-2018 12:18 PM)BootNootly Wrote:
Her: "I put up with you spinning plates, but if you found out about me with another guy you'd next me immediately."
By the way, this girl grew up poor and understands RP dynamics better than 99%...no idea how to handle this shit test.
Quote: (04-14-2018 12:18 PM)BootNootly Wrote:what are rp dynamics? rp stand for roleplay? wouldn't make sense but it is my only guess.
Her: "I put up with you spinning plates, but if you found out about me with another guy you'd next me immediately."
By the way, this girl grew up poor and understands RP dynamics better than 99%...no idea how to handle this shit test.
Quote: (04-20-2014 02:07 AM)thisisastage Wrote:
Haven't thought of a good response to these recent text shit tests.
Met a girl at a club, made out with her and got her number. After a few texts I asked her to hang out..she says
"Why should you deserve that privilege? (hair flip emoji)"
couple texts later...
"I don't even know your last name, how can I trust you?"
Gave her my last name in a moment of stupidity. Fell into her frame. Game Over.
Quote: (07-10-2018 11:06 AM)Jack Gignac Wrote:
ex girlfriend from like 10 years ago. suggested to me on insta so for shits and gigs I added her. she asks me 'if i'm still trying to pickup girls on the street' and then I just blocked her cuz I found the question annoying.
is it beta/weak frame to block someone when they act a way you don't like? lol I don't really like pretending something is a joke when I don't find it funny.
Quote: (12-09-2014 10:33 AM)Agreddor Wrote:
Not sure how to respond to this. Any inputs would be greatly appreciated.
Me: "if you wanna ask me out, you could just say so, there's no need to beat around the bush"
Her " oh please if you put it that way, don't be cray"
Me "is this your way of playing hard to get?"
Her " dude one things for sure I don't play hard to get haha"
Quote: (10-26-2018 08:12 AM)griffinmill Wrote:
You're talking to a prospect over text. She's sending you big walls of text and the vibe is great. You go for the date request. She responds to that text with a novel but, crucially, ignores the date request. She then, at the end of her text, asks some random question.
Here's how I handled it: "I'll answer your question when you've answered mine, thx"
Her response: "Oh? The date? Sunday's fine. How about the afternoon sometime?"
Is this a shit-test? Why not just answer the fuckin' question first time around?
So, you have the date, she texts you unprompted later that night. Communication continues, she sends you huge walls of text, investment is off the charts, very flirty, telling you she had a great time. I ignored one of her texts and she double-texts.
You ask her out again a few days later - and she does the same thing again! Responds, but does not answer the date request.
How did I handle it? Well, because she's a soft 6 at best I deleted her number. She must have noticed this on Whatsapp because an hour later she sends me a picture of her in the bath, which I presume is bait to reel me in when she knows she's losing me. I've been radio silent since.
Anyone with experience on this? Have I handled it well?
Quote: (10-31-2018 08:28 AM)redbeard Wrote:
A shit test I consistently run into over the past few years is girls telling me I "look like a fuckboy."
To be honest, I have no clue what a fuckboy is, and I refuse to Google it, so I either:
-Turn it around on them: "what does that even mean?"
-Agree & amplify: "of course I am"
-Play with it: "what makes you think that"
I've yet to determine whats the best solution but either way...girls calling me a "fuckboy" probably means that they're expecting me to pump and dump them. Good positioning
Quote: (10-31-2018 08:28 AM)redbeard Wrote:
A shit test I consistently run into over the past few years is girls telling me I "look like a fuckboy."
To be honest, I have no clue what a fuckboy is, and I refuse to Google it, so I either:
-Turn it around on them: "what does that even mean?"
-Agree & amplify: "of course I am"
-Play with it: "what makes you think that"
I've yet to determine whats the best solution but either way...girls calling me a "fuckboy" probably means that they're expecting me to pump and dump them. Good positioning