Prehaps this is been covered: Its constantly preached in game to have the frame of her trying to prove herself to you so a main stay in my game is shit testing her in a jokingly harsh way.
Are you an axe murderer?
Why aren't you wearing heels? Are you afraid to be tall? (Im tall & this is spoken to a tall girl)
*When she asks whats in my drink, in the drink I got her, if she offers her drink, or buys you a drink*
me: *something about date rape drugs in the drink long other PED's and hormones*
She says something that out of context is rapey, sexual assault like, etc
--Call her out on it
Accuse her of trying to be your girlfriend for tonite
If she tries to hug you or use some form of kino act like she's made of kryptonite--exaggerate your reaction with body language and facial expressions
Tell her you hate her
@Hazaer heres my breakdown:
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She does give IOIs but but I don't know if its really IOIs or attention whoring, I stick to pleasantries but was waiting for a good opportunity to escalate.
Doesnt matter. A man takes what he wants. If they seem like IOIs they probably are. As a man that knows game you should realize that if they are not interested they will make sure you don't have any shot. If she's pleasant around you then you are at the very least "in play". When you make a move she will either reciprocate or not then you will know for sure if its game on.
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So one day, i met her when she was by herself. We got talking about the upcoming holidays and random stuff. Then she mentioned that all her neighbors at her residence have left and she is the only one in her corridor. She also said that this guy has also left and its good that now he won't be following her around everywhere.
All you needed to hear man lol. Thats a goddamn green light if I ever saw one, prolly could have asked her to drinks or hang out right then and there.
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Knowing this guy myself, I thought that this comment was a shit test and so I said that the guy was cool. And then added 'His laughter is cute too.' Now, that I think about it, could the second comment have been an overkill, making it seem homo?
Definitely a shit test and for me this is where I would use some of the shit I was talking about above. Flip it to her stalking him or better yet her stalking you and that you're probably in danger without a witness (the dude).
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She replied to that saying that the guy does seem to spread good vibes. Also, I don't know if her comment about the guy was a shit test or was it to dispel my suspicions that they were a couple.
You eliminated yourself and even put this guy on the board to play. not a good look. Never give a complement to the competition unless you really don't care. If anything you need to get her to disqualify him...which she did..
When Im hitting on a women I'm not really interpreting what they are saying. Im more so scanning their conversation for something that I can use on them to tease them, make the conversation about me (be narcissistic), or make them seem "creepy".
Doing so makes her into the chasee--which shifts the frame into your dmv being higher than hers, makes her qualify herself ("I am not a stalker!!"), makes her disqualify him ("psh I would never stalk him!"), makes her laugh, and opens the conversation up to sexual escalation.
--Trying to follow me home...creepy
--Trying to chloroform me...good thing i brought my taser
--trying to be my secret admirer
--waited till he wasn't her to hit on me
For me I try and turn the frame to where I am the hot chick calling him (her) out on trying to be slick in flirting with me and of course it's all said with a joking tone.
her: yea everyone has left for the break and that one guy won't be following me around anymore haha
me: HA! yea right you were definitely stalking him, and now you're stalking me! Shit I'm probably in danger now since he won't be here to see you try to chloroform me...
her: haha no I promise its not like that! (sometimes they will banter back confirming they are lol. don't stumble, call them kinky of something)
me: ha sureeeeeee I bet you're into that kinky shit!
her: no no! I'm not haha
me: ok I'm going to trust you then, I don't date axe murderers. What are you up to today?
All in all its fun, its sexual, and its her trying to prove that she is datable. At the end I take over the direction of the conversation and get the information I want to progress towards a date and eventually sex.