We're getting to the heart of an interesting meta-debate that has being going on in the PUA community, traditionalist/ conservative communities, and civilization for thousands of years. There is likely no easy answer, and the debate will continue.
The Maddona/Whore complex affects too many man-- many men that are otherwise highly rational thinkers who instead of resorting to cultural programming use solid evidence and observation to form their opinions. Why doesn’t it happen with this issue? Probably because men are resorting to their feelings and biases instead of evidence and knowledge of human nature.
Without going too deeply there are several characteristics of men and women that are obvious and can be backed up by solid evidence: a) women have less sexual drive then men, b) infidelity has always been an issue even in conservative societies, the reason you don't hear about it is because it was taboo to talk about. It still happened. c) instant gratification has permeated the lifestyles/ value systems of both men and women… Ask yourself how ok you are with pumping and dumping. Why is that? Do you bear some responsibility for your behavior? Of course you do, but in many ways you are only as good as your programming. If your programming is bad, you should get better programming. You should make yourself a stand up man, rather than following a corrupted crowd.
While more women in the past were indeed virgins, we had more community-oriented societies, both men and women were married younger, there was less tolerance of degeneracy, and people didn’t live as long. This was a time before women were in the workforce, and it was a time when many men died in wars or in hard industrial jobs.
If a woman is not in Utah, an Amish farm, or Saudi Arabia, there is really little hope of her engaging in a non-promiscuous lifestyle at some point, virgin (currently) or not. Society will tempt women, and that’s something we’re going to have to live with. There is little difference from a virgin who has not yet been exposed to corruption, but who will be, and a woman who participated ever so slightly in modern society butt then turned away from its less desirable parts. The virgin, and the low notch count conservative girl will be in the same place at some point in their lives.
Most men can’t handle a virgin because they have weak frames and probably have poor moral character that prevents them from seeing the long-term picture. Men want it both ways, but life is full of tradeoffs—any non-delusional self-aware person will tell you that.
Ultimately I prefer dealing with known variables rather than taking a gamble on a virgin who’s future is very uncertain given the direction society is heading, and also because anything can happen. I still hold up the virgin as an ideal, but we live in the real world, and I can’t control to a high degree the conditions around me. Short of having a compound in Utah and converting to Mormonism, there is little I can do.
With globalization however, men have more choices than ever, and probably more choices than women. This is simply because men take more risks than women. It’s in our DNA, and if you are unsatisfied with quality of women you’re dealing with, notch counts, you can make changes. Some of which are easy, some of which are hard.
What if men overcame their thirst, and instead of banging sloots, strengthened society with their achievements and character and THOT patrolled all the hoes, creating their own families rather than turning to base urges? Sure maybe it’s utopian thinking, but I have hope.
I leave you with something you should probably reflect on, before considering a unicorn virgin that won't divorce you and pop out at least 3 kids, satisfy your sex needs, cook and clean, and not spout feminist nonsense: