This is a pointless argument, because saying that men shouldn't marry any girl who isn't a virgin these days is basically consigning 99% of unmarried men over the age of 25 to lifelong bachelorhood. The supply of virgins is too small to go around. If you don't find one and lock her down when you're in high school/college, it's almost assuredly not going to happen. That being said, we simply have to accept the fact that our culture is in a very bad spot regarding marriage. It's fruitless to argue about the ideal marriage situation, because that ideal is far beyond reality for most men given our current socio-cultural environment.
At the end of the day, the only reason to get married is to have children and provide them a stable home environment. So if that's something you're willing to sign up for at this point in the West, you simply have to accept the fact that there's a very high probability that it could blow up in your face. You can try to minimize that risk all you want, but everything is working against you legally, socially and culturally. We're in a culture war, and we can expect there will be plenty of casualties. If you want to raise a family in this degenerate age, you very well might be one of them. But it can't be helped. This is the cross we are forced to bear. We weren't asked by fate to storm the beaches at Normandy, or to fight to the death with the 300 at Thermopylae. Our battlefield is different from the men who came before. Less overtly violent and gruesome, to be sure, but perhaps more dangerous and demoralizing all things considered. Because we aren't fighting some foreign invader, but a cultural virus that has infected half of our countrymen and which seeks to destroy our children and families from within. The courage required in our age is not physical bravery, it is the willingness to take a moral stand for what is right, to live by those principles, and to risk all of your personal wealth and happiness making the gamble that your family will come out ok in the end.
I do not exaggerate when I say that the decision for a red-pilled man to undertake raising a family in the modern West is nothing less than heroic. It is an incredible act of Christ-like self-sacrifice, knowing that it could very well cost him everything. But he commits himself anyway in the hope that his children will grow up relatively unsullied by the cultural rot that surrounds him. That is all he can do. Everything he does, he does for them. It is a war that feels hopeless at times. But it's important to remember we didn't pick this war. We were simply fated to fight it. So we accept the risk, because the only alternative is surrender and acquiescence to the Satanic agenda of our enemies, who would see us completely wiped out. The future belongs to those who show up. If we're tasked with jumping on a grenade to ensure the next generation has a chance at a normal life, then so be it. Our fathers would have done the same for us.
At the end of the day, the only reason to get married is to have children and provide them a stable home environment. So if that's something you're willing to sign up for at this point in the West, you simply have to accept the fact that there's a very high probability that it could blow up in your face. You can try to minimize that risk all you want, but everything is working against you legally, socially and culturally. We're in a culture war, and we can expect there will be plenty of casualties. If you want to raise a family in this degenerate age, you very well might be one of them. But it can't be helped. This is the cross we are forced to bear. We weren't asked by fate to storm the beaches at Normandy, or to fight to the death with the 300 at Thermopylae. Our battlefield is different from the men who came before. Less overtly violent and gruesome, to be sure, but perhaps more dangerous and demoralizing all things considered. Because we aren't fighting some foreign invader, but a cultural virus that has infected half of our countrymen and which seeks to destroy our children and families from within. The courage required in our age is not physical bravery, it is the willingness to take a moral stand for what is right, to live by those principles, and to risk all of your personal wealth and happiness making the gamble that your family will come out ok in the end.
I do not exaggerate when I say that the decision for a red-pilled man to undertake raising a family in the modern West is nothing less than heroic. It is an incredible act of Christ-like self-sacrifice, knowing that it could very well cost him everything. But he commits himself anyway in the hope that his children will grow up relatively unsullied by the cultural rot that surrounds him. That is all he can do. Everything he does, he does for them. It is a war that feels hopeless at times. But it's important to remember we didn't pick this war. We were simply fated to fight it. So we accept the risk, because the only alternative is surrender and acquiescence to the Satanic agenda of our enemies, who would see us completely wiped out. The future belongs to those who show up. If we're tasked with jumping on a grenade to ensure the next generation has a chance at a normal life, then so be it. Our fathers would have done the same for us.
[size=8pt]"For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.”[/size] [size=7pt] - Romans 8:18[/size]
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