017 Game Goals
11-27-2016, 01:43 PM
Gentlemen, for the third year in a row I am going to open up a "Game Goals" thread before we ring-in the New Year.
The 2015 thread can be found here: thread-42800.html
And the 2016 thread can be found here: thread-52440...Game+Goals
As per my goals in previous years, there is a trend I'm seeing. I can obliterate my notch count goals, but I have yet to truly reach my girls of maintaining the elusive harem or a solid, faithful LTR with a girl of top-shelf quality (a 9 or 10).
For 2015, my notch count goal was to hit 50 lays by the end of the year. For 2016, my notch count goal was to hit 100 lays by the end of the year. Both goals were surpassed and once I passed 100, I no longer updated my "bang list" anymore as my ego tells me that 100 is sufficient enough to stop worrying about my notch count and allowing it to further validate me. I will wholly admit right now my goal of hitting 100 notches was purely to validate myself and be able to tell myself that I'm not a loser at this and I do posses some sort of seductive prowess. This is probably not healthy, I know, but I am being honest.
My other goal, concerning retention was not met at the standard I'd like to meet it at. I have had a few girlfriends, some of them very gorgeous (I made a post earlier this year back in Feb/March about my main girl getting an abortion, if anyone remembers). But they were not truly "9's" yet in my opinion. Of the girls that I had sex with that were "9's" to me, I simply could not manage to retain them as a girlfriend or even a fuckbuddy for a length of time longer than a few weeks. I'm certainly making improvements in this regard since 2015, but I still have a long way to go.
Anyways, my 2017 game goals are as follows:
- Be more comfortable doing solo daygame. Stop feeling like I'm "bothering" girls if I am approaching them in the daytime by myself.
- Stop relying so much about my reputation / image in university (I'm back completing an after-degree in Economics). I was the cool and "not creepy" dude and it hasn't really gotten me laid. It has given me some female friendships but the value of such friendships are very shallow and superficial. I'd much rather be a creepy loser that at least got laid then be mr cool and safe.
- Maintain a solid LTR with a girl that has these three qualities: GORGEOUS, COOL, and LOYAL. All three is a must.
- Try and build / maintain a harem of attractive girls (7 and up) to regularly hang out with and fuck.
As you can see, notch count is no longer a goal. I think I've earned my stripes and proved my salt. It truly is not something I worry about and its somewhat liberating as I have a zero-tolerance attitude these days with a girls bullshit when it comes to getting a SNL.
What are your goals for the new year gentlemen?
The 2015 thread can be found here: thread-42800.html
And the 2016 thread can be found here: thread-52440...Game+Goals
As per my goals in previous years, there is a trend I'm seeing. I can obliterate my notch count goals, but I have yet to truly reach my girls of maintaining the elusive harem or a solid, faithful LTR with a girl of top-shelf quality (a 9 or 10).
For 2015, my notch count goal was to hit 50 lays by the end of the year. For 2016, my notch count goal was to hit 100 lays by the end of the year. Both goals were surpassed and once I passed 100, I no longer updated my "bang list" anymore as my ego tells me that 100 is sufficient enough to stop worrying about my notch count and allowing it to further validate me. I will wholly admit right now my goal of hitting 100 notches was purely to validate myself and be able to tell myself that I'm not a loser at this and I do posses some sort of seductive prowess. This is probably not healthy, I know, but I am being honest.
My other goal, concerning retention was not met at the standard I'd like to meet it at. I have had a few girlfriends, some of them very gorgeous (I made a post earlier this year back in Feb/March about my main girl getting an abortion, if anyone remembers). But they were not truly "9's" yet in my opinion. Of the girls that I had sex with that were "9's" to me, I simply could not manage to retain them as a girlfriend or even a fuckbuddy for a length of time longer than a few weeks. I'm certainly making improvements in this regard since 2015, but I still have a long way to go.
Anyways, my 2017 game goals are as follows:
- Be more comfortable doing solo daygame. Stop feeling like I'm "bothering" girls if I am approaching them in the daytime by myself.
- Stop relying so much about my reputation / image in university (I'm back completing an after-degree in Economics). I was the cool and "not creepy" dude and it hasn't really gotten me laid. It has given me some female friendships but the value of such friendships are very shallow and superficial. I'd much rather be a creepy loser that at least got laid then be mr cool and safe.
- Maintain a solid LTR with a girl that has these three qualities: GORGEOUS, COOL, and LOYAL. All three is a must.
- Try and build / maintain a harem of attractive girls (7 and up) to regularly hang out with and fuck.
As you can see, notch count is no longer a goal. I think I've earned my stripes and proved my salt. It truly is not something I worry about and its somewhat liberating as I have a zero-tolerance attitude these days with a girls bullshit when it comes to getting a SNL.
What are your goals for the new year gentlemen?
Grant me serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference