Quote: (07-05-2014 12:46 PM)arribaperro Wrote:
They were married nearly 4 years without her getting pregnant. She was probably on birth control due to her wanting to continue her modeling work, thus delaying having a child until the last possible moment with beta chump. But with her work involving famous actors, she felt there was a chance to hypergamy, and with her marriage contract in place, she had for no penalty riding the hollywood cock carousel.
I can imagine a selfish woman like that not wanting the burden of a beta chump's child when she's trying to land hollywood dick.
Bingo. This is something I forgot to mention in my previous post. I noted the two types of physically elite woman in my last post.
The first is the physically elite woman who is not an aggressive attention-seeker and will reciprocate emotional investment.
The second is the physically elite woman who aggressively seeks attention and needs constant male validation.
I mentioned that one can identify the first by their willingness to do certain things: make public appearances almost exclusively with their significant others (the only other men they're seen with being clearly platonic and/or gay), engage in a lot of PDA with their significant others and avoid putting themselves in the kind of position Cleary was photographed in.
There's one more way to spot these women: children. More specifically, these women are generally more willing to have children with these men early, even if said men are not particularly famous or high status (and, thus, can't do all that much for her attention seeking). Their desire to begin a life with the men they care about outweighs their desire to continue seeking attention and comes even ahead of their career (which is usually based on their physical appearance and generally isn't aided by pregnancy).
Some of the Victoria's Secret Models are a great example of this. Exhibit A: Doutzen Kroes.
She's a VS Angel, one of the most highly desired and highly compensated women on Earth. At 24, still in her physical prime, she meets a man and starts a relationship. He's a DJ, and not a particularly well known one: she makes more than he does and is certainly more famous. She marries him at age 25, gives birth to his child at age 26. She's 29 now and about ready to give birth to her second.
She could have spent that time in her mid-twenties soliciting the attention of famous men and getting around with them. As a physically elite woman, she had more than enough leverage to do so. In fact, she still does, even at nearly 30.
Instead, she gave up that opportunity to start a relationship with a relatively unknown guy she just happened to like. She married this man (taking herself right off the market in her physical prime and undermining her ability to receive direct solicitations from the many famous men she could encounter during her work), and then quickly had a child for him (despite the fact that it would impact her greatest moneymaking asset - her body). Now she's having another one for him. Why?
Her love and desire for this man outshines her love and desire for the validation of many other men. She enjoys the full atttention and adoration of this single man more than she enjoys receiving the attention of dozens of other men (even famous ones).
There are other women like Doutzen, though they're in the minority. Her co-worker Alessandra Ambrosio is another good example, as is Candice Swanepoel (who, though childless, has been very clearly committed to the same no-name dude since age 18). This is the kind of physically elite woman who won't punish you for emotionally investing in her because her need for male validation isn't too high. You will be enough for her, and she'll give you back as much love as you give her. Healthy relationships can be built on this foundation.
A woman like Katie Cleary is another story entirely. She will avoid reciprocation for as long as she can because she depends on the attention of many other men. Their validation (and its ability to satisfy her insecurities) will always matter more than your affection.
This undermines the growth of a healthy relationship. You either invest in her and never get much back (while suffering as she solicits more from other men), or you don't invest at all. Neither scenario lends itself to the growth of a long, healthy union.