Hey guys,
There's a lot of story here, so I"ll put in in point form
Month 1 : new gf, suddenly stops sleeping with me. flat out refuses. As a former bachelor of many years, I just called an ex fwb and smashed a couple times. thats it. sex comes back, I no longer release outside of new gf
Month 2-5 : very great times, sweet woman. Has her problems though, temper tamtrums, never seeks forgiveness or compromise, just revenge.
Month 6: Crazy starting to show, starts reading all my emails, starts reading all my facebook conversations. three weeks earliermy old friend and I were discussing past conquests. GF tries to find them all on social media and messages all of them asking how they knew me, when they knew, if and when we ever hooked up. One of them was the girl I smashed during month 1, which I had already forgotten about.
She breaks up with me, I'm like fine whatever. Can't be bothered with breakups, I have a lot going on. She seems really upset that I don't break down emotionally, and asks to get back together. "only if you friggin relax, alright? forgive and gorget or move on". We have passionate make up sex. (UNPROTECTED)
She breaks up with me again. Again I don't care. Three days later she comes back. I give her the same terms "you can come back if you friggin relax. Forgive and forget or just move on". She says she's ok.
She breaks up with me again a couple days latrer. I tell her to bugger off and never contact me again.
She contacts me again, shes got 4 positive pregnancy tests and a doctor confirming that she's pregnant.
I never want to see her again, she literally just wants to destroy me emotionally. She's not cleaning or caring. Always just trying to get revenge, trying to make me weak. Trying to leach.
She wants me to put her on my healthcare so her doctor visits are covered. I can't do that without making her my common law wife first, and if I do that, she can common law divorce me for half my income and pension until my dying day.
I don't know what to do. We've agreed to not see anyone else while we take some time to figure this out. I can't give this girl common law status, she would ruin me 99% chance. I never want to see her again. It's a shame about what happened, but the past is the past, and after I settled into the relationship I was nothing but faithful and good to her. I would have continued like this, but she dug into all my personal stuff and hit a mine.
DO I: Tell her never to contact me again and that it's over, and if she keeps the child it's up to her to raise it, and give her child support?
DO I: Man up and marry the girl?
DO I: Suggest terminating the pregnancy and going our separate ways?
I still have a soft spot for her, and she's trying to find it and stab it.
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There's a lot of story here, so I"ll put in in point form
Month 1 : new gf, suddenly stops sleeping with me. flat out refuses. As a former bachelor of many years, I just called an ex fwb and smashed a couple times. thats it. sex comes back, I no longer release outside of new gf
Month 2-5 : very great times, sweet woman. Has her problems though, temper tamtrums, never seeks forgiveness or compromise, just revenge.
Month 6: Crazy starting to show, starts reading all my emails, starts reading all my facebook conversations. three weeks earliermy old friend and I were discussing past conquests. GF tries to find them all on social media and messages all of them asking how they knew me, when they knew, if and when we ever hooked up. One of them was the girl I smashed during month 1, which I had already forgotten about.
She breaks up with me, I'm like fine whatever. Can't be bothered with breakups, I have a lot going on. She seems really upset that I don't break down emotionally, and asks to get back together. "only if you friggin relax, alright? forgive and gorget or move on". We have passionate make up sex. (UNPROTECTED)
She breaks up with me again. Again I don't care. Three days later she comes back. I give her the same terms "you can come back if you friggin relax. Forgive and forget or just move on". She says she's ok.
She breaks up with me again a couple days latrer. I tell her to bugger off and never contact me again.
She contacts me again, shes got 4 positive pregnancy tests and a doctor confirming that she's pregnant.
I never want to see her again, she literally just wants to destroy me emotionally. She's not cleaning or caring. Always just trying to get revenge, trying to make me weak. Trying to leach.
She wants me to put her on my healthcare so her doctor visits are covered. I can't do that without making her my common law wife first, and if I do that, she can common law divorce me for half my income and pension until my dying day.
I don't know what to do. We've agreed to not see anyone else while we take some time to figure this out. I can't give this girl common law status, she would ruin me 99% chance. I never want to see her again. It's a shame about what happened, but the past is the past, and after I settled into the relationship I was nothing but faithful and good to her. I would have continued like this, but she dug into all my personal stuff and hit a mine.
DO I: Tell her never to contact me again and that it's over, and if she keeps the child it's up to her to raise it, and give her child support?
DO I: Man up and marry the girl?
DO I: Suggest terminating the pregnancy and going our separate ways?
I still have a soft spot for her, and she's trying to find it and stab it.
Please send help
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Increase pressure to wear her down. Hard to keep distant and impartial, and I think it'll create a stain on your soul regardless. But I see it as keeping a child from an already dysfunctional relationship. 
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