[killjoy]

I posted a story not long ago about getting with a 9 but having wood problems the one time we had sex. Well she hasn't responded to my texts since then so I guess I fucked that one up.

Anything similar ever happen to anyone on here?

[Oz.]

I only get erectile dysfunction when trying to fuck anything less than a 10. Maybe you got the same problem, don't fuck these petty hoes. They don't deserve your massive cock bro

[killjoy]

(03-19-2017 10:13 PM)Oz. Wrote:  

I only get erectile dysfunction when trying to fuck anything less than a 10. Maybe you got the same problem, don't fuck these petty hoes. They don't deserve your massive cock bro

I think you're trying to be funny here (gotta get those likes I guess) but my post wasn't meant to imply I can only get it up for 10s. It was just this particular girl that threw me off my game.

[StackGsMan]

I've gotten ED with girls that I've both kept and lost afterward. The girls I lost I didn't lose because of ED, it was because the nature of the interaction was geared toward one sexual encounter. I've had an issue with ED a lot in the past few years and more often than not I've kept the girl after.

I think your experience was just with a chick that you didn't thoroughly game to the point where she wanted to see you again, regardless of the ED.

Oddly enough a lot of times when I have ED or perform terribly in bed the girls want to be in my life even more than when I try to put on a pornstar show for them.

[Mufasa]

newbs aren't even trying anymore...

[kinjutsu]

Cut out porn and fapping completely
Most guys think porn doesn't effect their ability to get hard but it absolutely does.
I think "ED" is for when the body doesn't work due to old age etc not when the guy has consumed 3x times i lifespan of porn videos by the age of 21 and has mental issues about touching a real girl.

You don't have ED you have a porn addiction problem.

[Phoenix]

Never. Only time it felt a bit soft once was when I injured it banging a girl the previous day, and had to bang a girl the following day because she was hot and I couldn't stomach leaving that notch on the table. I'll run out of busts or energy well before I run out of wood.

[Chris Brown]

When I smoked a lot of cigarettes I had trouble getting hard. Otherwise I never had ED.

[brick tamland]

Yeah not getting wood as expected caused an issue but unexpectedly both chicks stuck around for the second chance (subsequent dates) where I did perform well. One chick who received and gave near porn level performance, did not stick around for fuck number 2.

[astro]

OP: were you sober?

[Repo]

No, when it has happened to me they were nervous it was them, not me. All in how you play it.

[PapayaTapper]

I read somewhere that engaging in excessive mental masturbation such as starting a LOT of low value and dupe threads can possibly lead to ED

[Mufasa]

(03-20-2017 05:35 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

I read somewhere that engaging in excessive mental masturbation such as starting a LOT of low value and dupe threads can possibly lead to ED

[Steelex]

It's happened. Usually she will try like a motherfucker to get me hard, and end up in a defeated state. Usually a day later she will try again and pull out all the stops. Im talking lingerie, toys, another girl, you name it.

ED Game is real.

[Cyr]

(03-20-2017 10:19 PM)Steelex Wrote:  

It's happened. Usually she will try like a motherfucker to get me hard, and end up in a defeated state. Usually a day later she will try again and pull out all the stops. Im talking lingerie, toys, another girl, you name it.

ED Game is real.

How do you play that?

I've had some problems with ED, but when I cant get it up, we end up at the first stage you described, with her really trying to get me hard and then being disappointed. After that, things fizzle out and there normally isn't another date. How do you play it off/ make sure it doesn't get awkward?

[Steelex]

I just make it seem like it's their fault. Fuck with their self esteem a bit.

Truthfully I have mental control over the whole dick aspect, I just get my jollies from watching a bitch get pouty when she realizes she's not the greatest thing to fall from the sky. Make a few suggestions "well if you rub it against your butthole like this it really gets me going".

Chess not checkers.

[BrewDog]

(03-19-2017 09:41 PM)killjoy Wrote:  

I posted a story not long ago about getting with a 9 but having wood problems the one time we had sex. Well she hasn't responded to my texts since then so I guess I fucked that one up.

Anything similar ever happen to anyone on here?

I would need several extra hands to count on my fingers the number of times I've been too drunk to have sex.

But that's ok. Beer is delicious.

[debeguiled]

Oh come on, don't even use their term for it.

"Erectile dysfunction."

It plays into the female emotional dysfunction that any time she doesn't get what she wants that there must be something wrong with a man.

Your dick , as Roosh has mentioned before, and its' hardness is not a reflection on you, but on her bone-ability.

Don't worry about this girl not getting back to you, because the most probable reason is that she took the softness of your unit as a direct criticism of her attractiveness. It would be like an ice skater doing the routine of her life, knowing it, and then looking up in horror when the judges held up a row of ones.

How can you possibly believe that you fucked up on this? Are you a yogi? Have you been meditating in a cave for fifty years and have perfect control of all your bodily functions?

Women are awesome at guilt and emotional blackmail in every other area of life, so why let them extend their influence to your boner?

Your dick is the one part of yourself that is gloriously selfish and without conscience and just wants what it wants, and you are going to start doubting yourself because it didn't stand at attention one time?


It exists purely for its own pleasure, and if the girl can't make it happen it is on her. Never forget that. It is her only job.

Admittedly, there are times like when you get whiskey dick, that you could have had fewer drinks and would have been fine, and there are a few people who truly have something medically wrong with them and need to get checked out, or fap too much, porn too much,and well, that's it.

Aside from these cases, there is no such thing as "erectile dysfunction," or "performance problems," or for that matter, "midlife crisis," or the "Peter Pan Syndrome," these are only radical, societally accepted hamsterisms meant to get women off the hook when they fail.

There are very few men out there, I would wager, who can produce a boner on demand, and the best we can do is learn how to make it last a little longer to satisfy her, something that she will in general completely take for granted and expect instead of being grateful for.

One of the few ways you can gain control over your dick is to actually make it less likely to get hard by overthinking it and putting stress on yourself, blaming yourself, and then you get a mental block and the whole thing becomes pressure instead of enjoyment. That sort of self hypnotic mindfuck is very possible, and completely unnecessary, but women like it because it makes them feel in control and gives them something to complain about.

There are a lot of women out there who would rather have you limply self castigating, and have something to complain about than have a good experience in bed. Don't let them, or your own fears get in your head.

It happens, it's no big deal, and if that girl had been a champ, she would have taken matters into her own hands, so to speak, with confidence and competence. Or she would have not made a big deal about it and kept texting with you, since women should know it happens from time to time, and not get all butthurt about it.

Erectile Dysfunction!

Honestly.

[Vill@in]

(03-21-2017 01:32 PM)debeguiled Wrote:  

It plays into the female emotional dysfunction that any time she doesn't get what she wants that there must be something wrong with a man.

Good point. Do you see women blaming themselves for having dry pussies? No. And why not? It's the female equivalent of being sexually aroused.

If men are accountable for making the pussy wet, then why aren't women accountable for making our dicks hard?

And the double standard beat goes on...

[Naughty By Nature]

(03-20-2017 12:08 AM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

Cut out porn and fapping completely
Most guys think porn doesn't effect their ability to get hard but it absolutely does.
I think "ED" is for when the body doesn't work due to old age etc not when the guy has consumed 3x times i lifespan of porn videos by the age of 21 and has mental issues about touching a real girl.

You don't have ED you have a porn addiction problem.

You're dead on.

LOL at the porn addicts who think porn is good for you (no different from an alcoholic in denial). It's been shown in scientific study after scientific study to have the exact same effect on your dopamine receptors as cocaine. When your dopamine receptors are weakened, a very common result is ED.

http://addicta.com.tr/wp-content/uploads...6-0107.pdf
https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-P...099316160X

[Prof. Ligate]

Happens with some dudes.

Keep a bit of viagra/ levitra/ cialis around, drink less, cut out the porn and eat a good diet and you should be sweet.

Maca powder and zinc also work well, but there's plenty of precautions you can take if you're worried about it. Not the end of the world

[Mikestar]

Question here, I have a lead which I haven't yet banged. She is one of my 2 leads and I have already been on dates with her and also fingered her. The truth is she doesn't get me hard when dancing with her at the club or even that excited when I see her. Compare that to a couple of days ago when I also fingered a French girl but didn't bang her, I got hard automatically just by touching her and looking at her. If a girl doesn't get me hard but I think she's still good looking should I cut her off and pursue women who I really crave instead? When I was with this chick I thought I had an ED problem but now I realise it's not me, it's her.

[Beirut]

Its happed to me a few times when i drink a lot. Which i tend to do often. I think 3 times that i remember.

The last 2 i was cool about it and saw the girls again and everything went fine.

The first time was with the hottest girl ive ever been with. I wasnt drunk but maybe subconsciously nervous. I did bang her later but i think the first time kind of ruined my frame or vibe with her and the attraction she had for me faded away and i never managed ro recover.

She still pops in my mind sometimes as shes the closest ive been to a oneitis and i still cringe at myself when i remember it.

[bruce_almighty]

I just take viagra or an equivalent every first time. Problem solved.
I don't use it with later fucks because the pornstar frame has already been established.

[MongolianAbroad]

I'm in my mid 30's, have never lost a bang due to this.

I'm sure there will come a day, but that day is not today.

For what it's worth, I eat mostly paleo and I'm pretty healthy.