Quote: (02-09-2017 04:27 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:
Look, I've known a lot of tomboys over the years. I've known a few hardcore dykes. None of them were giving off the kind of dysfunctional body language she is in that picture.
That's the pose of a teenage country boy in from the farm.
Or see here, where she's posing like she's on the cover of some Wigger Rap Wannabe CD in the mid-90's.
https://www.instagram.com/p/BNSFXBqlaLh/
Or here, where she's got Alpha Dude body language: crossed arms to show the size of her biceps, wide foot stance taking up physical space and giving the balls room to breathe. (Quintus: contrast this with the picture of me in a singlet at the movie opening from last year, and note the similarity, which accentuates how 'off' she is for a woman).
https://www.instagram.com/p/BOx40vVFvPE/
Or here, where she even sits like a dude.
https://www.instagram.com/p/BMA21e-FmWM/...tt.the.red
She's obviously-well known in the Crossfit Circuit: so she's surrounded by jacked men who share her same interest in fitness and should appreciate her body and discipline. Yet she's turning to Tinder for her dating options, not understanding that heterosexual men aren't sexually-attracted to signifiers of masculinity, which, unfortunately, seems to be a large percentage of modern, educated women.
So, basically, she has no idea who she is and is just trying on poses and postures she has appropriated from other people who bear no relation to her.
She has a very weak character, and has no concept that other people have the body language that they do because it is a genuine expression of who they are.
It has become second nature for her to pose and preen, to hide her inner weakness, and when she sees other people who appeal to her, she has the false belief that they are just like her, only they have found the right body language hack, and that if she just adopted the right pose, she would be as successful as they are.
I have known people like this, and they even talk differently than a normal person, seeing life as a series of different roles, as in, when I was in college, I had a lot of arguments with the teacher,
so I got to be the rebel, and then moving on to talking about other roles in their lives, dutiful son, success story, loving uncle, all just roles put on and taken off when appropriate, or even when inappropriate, with no real center holding it all together.
In hypnotism there is a term called abreaction which means a sudden freakout during a trance state, where the person starts dealing with something much deeper than the setting and suggestions would call for. In a way, not that much different than being triggered, only more intense.
I would imagine a person like this woman could have these sorts of freakouts when people don't buy the current role she is playing, and it doesn't surprise me that she has covered her body with the armor of muscle in order to intimidate any skeptical onlookers from saying anything or even smirking at her.
Also, the current self branding culture of Facebook and Instagram isn't helping any, because it actively encourages a careful designing and curation of personal image, not only making it seem like a sane thing to do, but actively rewarding people with money and fame and even the PortaPotty Lifestyle when they create an aspirational fake self.
The problem with the human ego is that you don't need that much reality to hang a crazy dream on, only a few likes can keep you going, living the dream, and believing in your false self.
In a way you cannot blame these people, if they can create a false self that is more compelling and exciting than their real self could ever be.
A few years back, a girl from my hometown was in the running for being the first tranny on the cover of Men's Health. It took me a while to track down a
before picture of her, but as you can see, she was just the most basic SJW chick you could imagine.
Pretending to be a man brought her more fame and love than she ever could have gotten just being herself.
So in a way it is hard to blame these fakers.
They remind me of the old Woody Allen line:
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My one regret in life is that I am not someone else.
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