The article Is Bedding And Keeping Virgins The Key To Successful Relationships With Women? got me think about a past experience of mine that might be a source of feminine attractive virgins that men could look to date. This source is Ballet Dancers.
I have a little experience with Ballet Dancers. During my senior of high school I dated a girl who was a ballet dancer. To day this day she was the classiest, most feminine and sweetest girl I ever knew. Not only that during the year of dating her I got to meet her friends and break into the inner circle of ballet dancers so to speak and learned a few interesting lessons.
Demographics:
Ballet is a very secretive, closed off and tight knit sub culture. Majority of girls who dance ballet when they are younger quit while they are in middle school and never dance again. However, the small minority that do become a very close knit group.
Ballet dancers in a way are kind of like boxers, those who want to turn pro make ballet their lives. Teenagers and college students attend school but while they are not school they are at the studio practicing. (Kind of like between school, work and a part time job boxers are at the gym). The only major difference I see with ballet dancers is out of the circle I knew, through my ex ages 14-23 only 2 had part time jobs. Worked at a clothing store 5 hours a week.
These girls were overwhelming Upper Middle Class usually of the white collar variety. Most are the daughters of doctors, lawyers, financial planners, project managers, sales managers, bankers, journalists and there was even a reporters daughter.
My ex's father was a sales manager. Most of their parents seemed to fit the upper middle class liberal stereotype of driving BMWs, Infinitis, Lexus, lower tier Mercedes, Higher Tier Kia's and Nissan's, shopping at whole foods and living in a gated subdivision . (Disclaimer: My information is from 2009 and 2010 before any of the SJW went mainstream, so I don't recall and SJW type views. Simply just leftest views of bailouts and Obamacare). Left of center views that aren't SJW seem to be the norm in office environments.
For some odd reason or another a lot of them were only children or simply had a sister. Rarely ever did they have a brother (one did) or come from a larger family (one had 2 sisters).
Tight Knit Group
As I mentioned earlier Ballet Dancers are a tight close knit group. The ones that want to continue dancing after the age of 14 make ballet their life. These means the practice early in the morning before school, go to school, go straight to the studio after school and then practice, come home, do homework, eat dinner, go to bed, get up the next morning and repeat. On weekends they get off time. The ones in college did the same thing.
Now why is this important you may ask? Well my ex and her friends would hangout together on weekends. There was a group of about 20 of them in the 14-23 age range. Usually 4 or 5 of them would hang out on weekends, but once a month at one of their houses they would have a weekend pot luck where all of the dancers and their family would hangout.
The girls have basically spent their entire lives away from boys and men. The wealthy ones attend private schools, a few were home schooled and even though my ex attended public school she didn't always have a lot of free time. All of the girls were in the 7-10 range. Two of the girls were 18 and 19. Both never had boyfriends. One was home schooled and the other went to private school. Same with the girl who was 21, another one 20, another 16, another 17. All them had next to no interaction with boys or men (save for their own fathers) and were fascinated by masculinity. The only who had a boyfriend was the 23 year old who was her first boyfriend. (They were dating for 3 years at the time and he basically day gamed her on college campus by the sounds of the story). But overwhelming their was a group of 18-22 year old girls that have no dating experience are in the 7-10 in looks, feminine and are virgins.
During these "get togethers" the girls that came over for a few hours on the Saturday (or Sunday) would sit around in the bonus of my ex's house, drink tea and talk about dancing/life. When I was there they were always so fascinated with me and the life of guys in general. They were fascinated with little things such as my BMX racing, roller hockey, my obsession with muscle cars, etc. They honestly had next to no interactions with men and found them fascinating.
Femininity and Classiness
The one thing all of these girls were very feminine like a Grace Kelly sort of feminine. They had excellent posture, their backs were always straight, they almost always sat with their legs crossed. Even on weekends when my girlfriend would just wear a sweatshirt and jeans, she still looked way more feminine than any of the other girls at school Probably because even when she simply wore a hoodie and jeans or a hoodie and sweat pants they were never faded, the jeans were never ripped and they always had a more feminine look to them. At school she always dressed very feminine lots of skirts, long hair, blouses, rather than sneakers and vans she mostly wore flats. She made guys turn heads and made the other girls jealous and catty.
She had excellent manors, her parents were strict but she was sweet, well spoken, helpful and nurturing. All of her friends seemed to be the same way.
Drawbacks to dating a Ballet Dancer
The first major drawback is actually finding one to date. Girls who continue to dance after the age of 14 are a minority. They are rare and few and far between. I meet my girlfriend during the summer of 2009 in between my junior and senior year. I was working during a community clean up for volunteer hours and so was she. We were partnered that day and got to talking and hit it off. I later found out she would be attending the same high school as me. I broke up with her when I graduated.
Since then I have not met a girl who has even danced ballet. It's kind of an upper middle class/upper class activity so I guess a college campus in or near wealthy neighborhoods would be the best bet to look for one.
The other disadvantage is she will be incredibly busy all the time. If she's serious about ballet she it will come first. However, if you can keep her and make her yours maybe that can change. I think that 23 year old is married to the guy she was dating and works part time as an instructor now.
Perhaps Ballet dancers are a source of Virgins? Anyone else have any experience.
I have a little experience with Ballet Dancers. During my senior of high school I dated a girl who was a ballet dancer. To day this day she was the classiest, most feminine and sweetest girl I ever knew. Not only that during the year of dating her I got to meet her friends and break into the inner circle of ballet dancers so to speak and learned a few interesting lessons.
Demographics:
Ballet is a very secretive, closed off and tight knit sub culture. Majority of girls who dance ballet when they are younger quit while they are in middle school and never dance again. However, the small minority that do become a very close knit group.
Ballet dancers in a way are kind of like boxers, those who want to turn pro make ballet their lives. Teenagers and college students attend school but while they are not school they are at the studio practicing. (Kind of like between school, work and a part time job boxers are at the gym). The only major difference I see with ballet dancers is out of the circle I knew, through my ex ages 14-23 only 2 had part time jobs. Worked at a clothing store 5 hours a week.
These girls were overwhelming Upper Middle Class usually of the white collar variety. Most are the daughters of doctors, lawyers, financial planners, project managers, sales managers, bankers, journalists and there was even a reporters daughter.
My ex's father was a sales manager. Most of their parents seemed to fit the upper middle class liberal stereotype of driving BMWs, Infinitis, Lexus, lower tier Mercedes, Higher Tier Kia's and Nissan's, shopping at whole foods and living in a gated subdivision . (Disclaimer: My information is from 2009 and 2010 before any of the SJW went mainstream, so I don't recall and SJW type views. Simply just leftest views of bailouts and Obamacare). Left of center views that aren't SJW seem to be the norm in office environments.
For some odd reason or another a lot of them were only children or simply had a sister. Rarely ever did they have a brother (one did) or come from a larger family (one had 2 sisters).
Tight Knit Group
As I mentioned earlier Ballet Dancers are a tight close knit group. The ones that want to continue dancing after the age of 14 make ballet their life. These means the practice early in the morning before school, go to school, go straight to the studio after school and then practice, come home, do homework, eat dinner, go to bed, get up the next morning and repeat. On weekends they get off time. The ones in college did the same thing.
Now why is this important you may ask? Well my ex and her friends would hangout together on weekends. There was a group of about 20 of them in the 14-23 age range. Usually 4 or 5 of them would hang out on weekends, but once a month at one of their houses they would have a weekend pot luck where all of the dancers and their family would hangout.
The girls have basically spent their entire lives away from boys and men. The wealthy ones attend private schools, a few were home schooled and even though my ex attended public school she didn't always have a lot of free time. All of the girls were in the 7-10 range. Two of the girls were 18 and 19. Both never had boyfriends. One was home schooled and the other went to private school. Same with the girl who was 21, another one 20, another 16, another 17. All them had next to no interaction with boys or men (save for their own fathers) and were fascinated by masculinity. The only who had a boyfriend was the 23 year old who was her first boyfriend. (They were dating for 3 years at the time and he basically day gamed her on college campus by the sounds of the story). But overwhelming their was a group of 18-22 year old girls that have no dating experience are in the 7-10 in looks, feminine and are virgins.
During these "get togethers" the girls that came over for a few hours on the Saturday (or Sunday) would sit around in the bonus of my ex's house, drink tea and talk about dancing/life. When I was there they were always so fascinated with me and the life of guys in general. They were fascinated with little things such as my BMX racing, roller hockey, my obsession with muscle cars, etc. They honestly had next to no interactions with men and found them fascinating.
Femininity and Classiness
The one thing all of these girls were very feminine like a Grace Kelly sort of feminine. They had excellent posture, their backs were always straight, they almost always sat with their legs crossed. Even on weekends when my girlfriend would just wear a sweatshirt and jeans, she still looked way more feminine than any of the other girls at school Probably because even when she simply wore a hoodie and jeans or a hoodie and sweat pants they were never faded, the jeans were never ripped and they always had a more feminine look to them. At school she always dressed very feminine lots of skirts, long hair, blouses, rather than sneakers and vans she mostly wore flats. She made guys turn heads and made the other girls jealous and catty.
She had excellent manors, her parents were strict but she was sweet, well spoken, helpful and nurturing. All of her friends seemed to be the same way.
Drawbacks to dating a Ballet Dancer
The first major drawback is actually finding one to date. Girls who continue to dance after the age of 14 are a minority. They are rare and few and far between. I meet my girlfriend during the summer of 2009 in between my junior and senior year. I was working during a community clean up for volunteer hours and so was she. We were partnered that day and got to talking and hit it off. I later found out she would be attending the same high school as me. I broke up with her when I graduated.
Since then I have not met a girl who has even danced ballet. It's kind of an upper middle class/upper class activity so I guess a college campus in or near wealthy neighborhoods would be the best bet to look for one.
The other disadvantage is she will be incredibly busy all the time. If she's serious about ballet she it will come first. However, if you can keep her and make her yours maybe that can change. I think that 23 year old is married to the guy she was dating and works part time as an instructor now.
Perhaps Ballet dancers are a source of Virgins? Anyone else have any experience.