Quote: (07-27-2015 12:49 AM)NikuNashi Wrote:
Quote: (07-24-2015 09:49 AM)Rocha Wrote:
Quote: (07-24-2015 01:27 AM)NikuNashi Wrote:
So many fuckups, but I guess as long as I don't repeat any of them then they have all been contributing factors to success.
One of my biggest mistakes was going to the toilet at the wrong time, it destroyed a very good situation I had created.
(Tokyo 2013)
I had met this chick (Japanese) a couple of times, kissing but didnt bang her yet, she was keen messaging me but she was about a 6-7 and I was looking for better. Anyway I'm at my usual club scouting (alone) when she comes over a spots me. Shes with her friend, so we all drink together the three of us. I tell my chick lets get out of here and go to my place I'm tired and wanna relax and have a drink back at home. She says she can't, she has to stay with her friend. So I tell her to bring her friend too, my place is big and she can sleep on a futon I've got while we take the bed. About 10 minutes of persuading and I have them both in a taxi coming to my place. I don't have a spare futon and my place is a tiny one room apartment in shinjuku so when we go inside they are surprised but it's too late, I said lets just crash on the bed. So the friend gets on the bed and immediately turns and faces the wall and pretends to be sleeping, I turn the lights off and get in the middle facing my chick and kissing and grabbing her, playing around for about 30 mins. I'm thinking how can I bring the friend into this without my chick getting pissed. Anyway I'm bursting for the toilet, so I leave the bed and go to the toilet.
When I return, her friend is standing up putting her jacket on and getting ready to leave with my chick saying shes gonna walk her to the station to get the first train. In that 2 minutes in the toilet a golden chance was ruined, I gave them the chance alone to talk and back out of the situation.
I often think about how I should have handled that situation better.
Your mistake was lying about the size of your apartment. And the worst thing is that some lies can be uncovered after many weeks, months or years. Yours was about to be uncovered in 10 minutes. No one likes to be fooled and it shows desperation.
You maybe lost the girl interest completely after that.
No WC break is a game fuck up, a guy needs to go there more than he needs sex.
I didn't lose the interest of the main chick, I banged her a couple of times afterwards, shes was very keen. Once shed walked her friend to the train station she came back to my place. But the threesome opportunity was certainly lost.
If I had been honest and said that I have a small apartment with one bed then the girls friend would never have come back in the first place.
If you have threesome experience it would be good to hear your advice on persuading two chicks to come back to your place, or how you would have handled this situation.
Sure.
I have had two threesomes and two 2guys x 2 girls situations.
I will detail the last threesome wich is the one I am.most proud of, it was against all odds, and I was playing alone in the minefield of Lisbon/Portugal, wich is the worst place for men in the western part of the world. It started with me picking up an Irish girl in the club, she was a 6, she was also in the company of another 2 girlfriends also Irish and all in the 6 range. Well at the end of the venue, the two others where hooking with a trio of younger and good looking Portuguese guys, so the guys conviced the girls to do an after party in the girls apartment, it was a 3 on 3 situation, but I pulled mine and put her inside my nice car wich was strategically located in tbe parking lot outside of the club, all that people would not fit in a single taxi, so I offered ride to the girls also. Only mine, wich I did not yet even kissed, came. Once in the car I took her to nice part of town with a magnificent view to the city as it was already coming the morning and the amazing sunrise of Lisbon, started making out heavily with her, and then her friends started to call every 5 minutes asking where she was, if she would take long time etc...she gained time as she was feeling good with me. After this minutes of heavy make out and sensing she was crazy, I told her I would leave her home and then will bail out, because the guys who where there where a bunch of typical stupid Lisbon kids, and did not had age and patience to hang out with those kind of guys, she insisted that I came and we started making out again, with all this more than an hour had passed. After some more while, her friend called and said had already left and where a bunch of assholes, mine saying she was so lucky to have met the best men in the world...I agreed to come to their apartment.
On arrival at the entrance of the apartment...there was mess, full of white powder from the fire extinguisher, and the house was a mess, full of glasses still with red wine and dirty floor, girls saw the mess outside and started cleaning it all, I gave them a little hand, all 3 of them seemed in love with me and praising mine for having found such a wonder...guys where assholes, after seeing things would not be easier as it seemed earlier started to make a mess and exposing their frustration (typical Lisbon young men behaviour...these guys have zero game). So after cleaning, two girls go to sleep each one in a different room, and I stayed with mine in the living room drinking wine and then making good sex. After some cuddle she invites to go to bed with her, where one of her friends was also sleeping, I agreed. In bed we started again, and her friend woke up and joined without saying a word and without previous discussion. I felt like a king.
Another threesome was with two sluts in Kharkov that I invited for wine at my apartment, and the 2x2 was many years ago with some Portuguese older sluts and with heavy drinking involved.
Regarding your post, or it was explained well, or it was incomplete, because I did not get everything of the situation.