Quote: (10-03-2013 02:22 PM)presidentcarter Wrote:
Quote: (10-01-2013 01:18 PM)cbstogner Wrote:
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Quote: (10-01-2013 01:07 AM)presidentcarter Wrote:
You're an idiot. Trust me I have a PhD in cam girl science.
What the fuck... don't reply to me again.
That was a brotherly love comment and not intended to be offensive to you. All I'm saying is that if you met a girl actually ON a camsite, 99.999999% chance you're already eliminated from ever convincing her to meet you and that your time is much better spent pursuing elsewhere. But hey, I'd love to see you make it happen so more power to you.
Untrue, if you're loaded, and you're one of their best clients, they will definitely meet up with you. I've heard a couple stories for other men and some from the cam girls themselves (obviously talking about "another" cam girl.)
"Bro," I have no idea who you are and of course I would take you calling me an idiot offensive. Ironically, you are the one that is misinformed here, "bro."
So you're implying that you're going to have to drop big $$$ to prove you're "loaded" for price of admission, thus resulting in "best client" status.
My 'idiot' comment was taken the wrong way, so I understand your defense there, but otherwise we're just all interested in your thoughts/motivations for this.
I have dozens of cam girls phones numbers, skypes, emails. Many have offered to meet up with me. One Romanian girl seemed genuine when she offered to let me stay at her flat in Bucharest if I ever came to visit. Another girl in Ekaterinburg said she would hang out if I was there or she could come up to Moscow and visit me. Several others I've skyped with that didn't ask for money. Yet another one, Russian but living in Virginia now, wanted to fly to Atlanta on her own dime when I lived there to meet me and hang out. She calls me to chat on the phone and texts me pics regularly.
There are nice normal girls on these sites for sure. And I've spent an absolutely absurd amount of $ entertaining myself on these sites. That part I'm not necessarily proud of, but I was a top member on one of the sites for almost a year, that's how much I spend. And that's what translated into all these contacts I have.
I wasn't saying don't do it, I was saying that it takes lots of time and money (most girls are very reluctant to have a personal chat in 'free' chat to a member and thus you have to pay them to talk or exchange info. Besides, they'll want to see you as well which requires paying them to have cam2cam.
The thing is though is that in my opinion it's not a good "investment" to put any time or money into. It may take thousands or tens of thousands (some of these girls make mad cash) to accomplish the 'prove your loaded' part, then it'll take having the right girl is even open to that, then she'll have to like you, then it'll have to work out with you being in her city at the right time, and on and on. I'd much prefer to go out and meet girls in my current city, for free.
Again, I my opinion if you want to fuck around on the site for fun, go for it. I personally got pretty addicted to it and had to call it quits. But I wouldn't go in with expectations or hopes to spend a little big and meet these girls.
Also while I apologize for the "you're an idiot" comment, it still seems that you may have a problem with being defensive. Even further down this thread someone ask you about paying them and you responded defensively with "what are you getting at here?".
And what's with the "bros"...I didn't even say that. I said "brotherly love". Anyway.
You guys do know that most of these girls are prostitutes? IN real meaning of the word. Of course they will meet up with you. My very close friend worked as a cam girl, here is what she told me:
There are three outcomes for those girls, two of them are hopeful. Worst case scenario they get busted (pornography is illegal in ukraine) and go to prison. The other two are finding a relatively rich foreigner man that will fall in love with them and will be willing to play captain-save-a-hoe role. (in case you wanted to know: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.ph...%20a%20hoe)
or the third outcome she consistently has a client list for her pussy. A lot of legitimate prostitutes start out with things like those.
You guys are forgetting that pornography and prostitution (bordellos) business in Ukraine is ran by corrupt police or gangsters. Majority of girls you see on Ukie cam sites are prostitutes in real life. They might tell you otherwise and how she's making money for college, she is and she's not.
This is directly from the girl who was in this industry for a short period of time and luckily got caught before turning into a prostitute. Also those are unlikely their real names (and if you think they will come up with stripper names you're greatly mistaking - they pick normal sounding name to sound legitimate).
Being Ukrainian myself, I understand the importance of showing your wealth and financial stability in front of women, it's just cultural thing. However, paying for sex (or near sex = for you to jerk off on web cam with her) is down right weak ass game.
I could not believe this was actually a serious conversation. I really thought you guys were trolling the forum. Apparently not!!! O.o
I still cannot believe the seriousness to the absurdity of this topic. I am not saying you are not going to get laid this way, but why even bother, just get a regular prostitute, pay her 400 UAH ~ 50 bucks and go home happy. WTF!?
Am right?
I'm in Kharkiv, UA through summer 2014. If you want to wing, PM me. I speak fluent English and Russian.