Quote: (09-09-2016 11:44 AM)Fathom Wrote:  

Quote: (09-08-2016 11:09 AM)Svoboda Wrote:  

OP, are you on your way to that job in Asia?

Yep. I am.

Congratulations!

Quote: (09-09-2016 11:44 AM)Fathom Wrote:  

Quote: (09-08-2016 11:09 AM)Svoboda Wrote:  

OP, are you on your way to that job in Asia?

Yep. I am.

Quote: (09-09-2016 11:44 AM)Fathom Wrote:  

Quote: (09-08-2016 11:09 AM)Svoboda Wrote:  

OP, are you on your way to that job in Asia?

Yep. I am.

And you weren't going to tell us? He's probably taking the fatty fiance with him.

Quote: (09-13-2016 03:52 PM)Chowder Head Wrote:  

Quote: (09-09-2016 11:44 AM)Fathom Wrote:  

Quote: (09-08-2016 11:09 AM)Svoboda Wrote:  

OP, are you on your way to that job in Asia?

Yep. I am.

And you weren't going to tell us? He's probably taking the fatty fiance with him.

I wouldn't worry about her. She would be triggered to death from all those cute Asian chicks.

Quote: (09-09-2016 04:05 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

Did the RVF just talk someone out of getting married?

This community truly is great.

Bro I spend my life convincing guys not to marry terrible girls. I'm like a fucking missionary.

I just regret those men I couldn't get through to....

Quote: (09-19-2016 06:47 AM)rawbeefcake Wrote:  

Quote: (09-09-2016 04:05 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

Did the RVF just talk someone out of getting married?

This community truly is great.

Bro I spend my life convincing guys not to marry terrible girls. I'm like a fucking missionary.

I just regret those men I couldn't get through to....

You did what you could.

An that is only what matters.

When I discovered the Manosphere, I also tried to save as many male friends from bad relationships etc. . In vain, and I was getting desperate. Thank God, people from this forum convinced me that I should focus all my energy into becoming the best person as I can be. If I become the best of the best, people will ask...how can they become like me?

And I will be more than willing to answer.

How is Asia?

Missed this thread... but well done RVF

Quote: (08-30-2016 01:34 AM)Fathom Wrote:  

Gonna keep it as short as possible.

Met overweight chick last winter. Divorced, has little kids. .

I stopped reading after the overweight comment.

Is you NUTS!

Would love to get an update on this!

This thread is nothing short of an education, especially for the newb-folk like myself. It slowly dawned on me that the advice here is not specific to Fathom's particular situation; it can be equally applicable to LTR, employment or really any time a man seeks assurance outside of himself by going against his instincts.

Thanks to all contributors here

The other day I checked this thread because I was curious too. I also checked if OP had posted anywhere else and it said OP hadn't been on here for months (if I remember correct OP has mentioned he was more of a lurker and doesn't post much).

Quote: (08-30-2016 02:03 AM)Fathom Wrote:  

Let me expand on that above.

I guess I have a belief that, to find a chick who is both young, hot, and has all the qualities a wife

She can't be hot if she is fat.

Quote: (03-22-2017 06:50 AM)Svoboda Wrote:  

The other day I checked this thread because I was curious too. I also checked if OP had posted anywhere else and it said OP hadn't been on here for months (if I remember correct OP has mentioned he was more of a lurker and doesn't post much).

This is just another poster that came on got what he needed and left. But it aligns with the kind of guy that thinks this fat chick with kids was the best he was ever going to get.

Prolly ended up marrying her...

he's probably gay and dosent know it yet

Quote: (03-22-2017 07:08 AM)samsamsam Wrote:  

Quote: (08-30-2016 02:03 AM)Fathom Wrote:  

Let me expand on that above.

I guess I have a belief that, to find a chick who is both young, hot, and has all the qualities a wife

She can't be hot if she is fat.

Quote: (03-22-2017 06:50 AM)Svoboda Wrote:  

The other day I checked this thread because I was curious too. I also checked if OP had posted anywhere else and it said OP hadn't been on here for months (if I remember correct OP has mentioned he was more of a lurker and doesn't post much).

This is just another poster that came on got what he needed and left. But it aligns with the kind of guy that thinks this fat chick with kids was the best he was ever going to get.

more likely he married her anyway

Thanks for the great wedding party Fathom and introducing me to her equally fat sister, we're about to get married soon also.

Ohh what a trip down memory lane this thread is.

If this dude was a troll then he's top tier.

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[...]and did I hear mention of a prenup on her end? That is a dead giveaway that she sees this marriage as a temporary situation.

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Sorry, it's difficult to give every detail. The pre-nup will provide her zero protection. It's to protect the kids' finances from me. I find that sensible.

Nothing in that statement is sensible, that's one of the reasons you're having a hard time articulating it. "It's to protect the kids' finances from me." The kids finances from you? They're kids, they don't have finances. Sounds like she was trying to sucker you into an arrangement where she was free to loot you after the divorce, but you had no claim on anything of hers. The kids don't have jobs, their "finances" are her. You get nothing, she gets everything. "For the children!"

OP how is life post-this-chick

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