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Just caught my girl cheating, any advice?
01-30-2012, 12:41 AM
Long story short she's been bugging me for a promise ring and I gave her one. Don't worry I didn't spend more than $100.
So today she goes out with her co-worker, boss, and boss's friends.
She has her ring on her left hand ring finger all time, and she came rushing home( I don't live with her) saying her phone died and she wanted to let me that she was okay and has to leave to go out with dinner with them.
I noticed that the ring was now on the opposite hand. I pointed this out to her and she left to go to dinner with her co-worker and those guys.
She comes back and I ask her if she takes the ring off at work? No.
I ask if she switches the ring onto another hand while at work? No.
Then I asked her why today she moved the ring if her co-worker and boss know she's with me and her boss and co-workers saw me before.
She said no reason. Then she got quiet and said nothing.
There is obviously a reason and I'm pretty sure that it has to do with the boss's friends.
Now here is my explanation why I haven't walked off. I just finished school and two weeks ago I took my last test for my license certification, so I will be certified to make some real money by this summer. But now I'm broke and no job. So no cash. I took Alihbaba's advice and shacked up with a 7 for the time being since I'm strapped for cash.
What would you do in my situation?
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01-30-2012, 12:57 AM
It seems like you have evidence of her actively searching for a new mate, as opposed to actually cheating. Not saying that the former is much better, or that she has not already cheated on you, but the distinction is interesting.
You mentioned being with her because you are strapped for cash. What is she giving you (besides pussy) if you aren't living with her? Is she financially supporting you in some way? If not, then staying with her is just playing the role of cuckold because you don't think you can do better given your financial circumstances.
If I am using a chick just for her cash and she wants to get some strange on the side, I don't give a shit as long as the dollars keep flowing into my pocket. However, if I was with a 7 because that is the best I think I can do given my financial situation, no way would I stay if I thought she was fucking around. I would rather consistently bang a string of random 5's and 6's than commit to a 7 who I suspect is cheating on me.
Also, notice the obvious hypergamy here. Assuming her boss's friends are at the same socioeconomic level as him, she is actively searching for a more financially successful mate. It may seem depressing, but I do find it somewhat comforting that women are this fucking predictable.
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Just caught my girl cheating, any advice?
01-30-2012, 01:29 AM
do what they (women) do. milk her for every fucking dollar you can, clean out the accounts, and get the fuck out.
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01-30-2012, 01:30 AM
So she took off her ring at some point.
Please explain how this proves that she is cheating.
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01-30-2012, 02:07 AM
Ive done the "Milking" as Brian referenced, but from my experience, unless your getting serious cash out of it its not worth it.
1) You have clothes at her place, having an inconvenient deadline to move clothes suxs! Believe me I know. Better you move out on your terms than hers.
2) Your time is valuable. Believe me you wont be able to milk much, unless your literally robbing her its not really worth it knowing shes cheating and your cuckholded.
I was with a chick and luckily she didnt destroy any of my stuff even though I was forced to leave it there for a week after we broke up. Also I had delusions of milking her since she was cheating and lying about it, didnt get much other than a few tshirts, a $30 ring, lots of degrading but unfulfilling sex and a couple fancy dinners.
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01-30-2012, 04:08 AM
Okay, enough theorizing. We've established that this girl is completely disposable, so let's get practical.
1. Do nothing with your girl. She might be cheating (probably is), or she's actively gaming new men. Whatever. Continue to keep her around so you have some pussy on your dick.
2. Game new prospects. Fuck new girls behind your gf's back.
3. Hold out till you make some money, when you'll be able to game even more prospects.
4. If your relationship with this whore isn't done yet by the time you reach point #3, dump her.
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01-30-2012, 05:54 AM
You already moved in a with new girl? What's the problem? Sounds like you already solved it.
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01-30-2012, 11:50 AM
I say dump her and get a new one...
I never understood why guys keep girls around to "keep a steady supply of pussy" if you MUST rely on ONE (1) female to get your dick wet on a daily basis, that just means you do not have enough options!! go get some options!!
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01-30-2012, 11:56 AM
"Long story short she's been bugging me for a promise ring and I gave her one."
Don't ever do that again. Go find her and rip that thing off her finger then throw it into traffic or whatever then walk away.
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01-30-2012, 12:03 PM
The fact that you bought her a promise ring means this girl is bad news to begin with. Get out.
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01-30-2012, 12:42 PM
What Mixx said. I rather not get laid than be cheated on or disrespected.
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01-30-2012, 12:47 PM
Quote: (01-30-2012 01:35 AM)wolf Wrote:
She never takes the ring off, even when showering. It's funny how quick the ring came off in the company of guys who make $100k+
Id take my ring off quikly around guys who make $100k+
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