[wolf]

(01-30-2012 12:53 PM)MSW2007 Wrote:  

(01-30-2012 12:48 PM)wolf Wrote:  

As far as the ring, I didn't get it to please her, I got it on a buddy's advice that I would look more serious than just banging her.

I've been told that I give the impression that I'm not in love, and that I just meet them to f*ck. So I want to make it look more serious, and I do enjoy spending time with them, but we having sex every time I see them.

In the modern sexual market, this isn't much of a problem.

Women by and large these days don't want to commit until they're past their prime and have played the field. While this makes it hard to milk them long-term, it does make it easier to shrug off commitment.

No promise rings, none of that shit. Just fuck.

I find women who are ready to commit. When they see that after a couple of months I'm not doing else besides f*cking them then they leave.

Even the women that are ready to commit are garbage. So no commitment takes place.

[SimonRierdon]

I agree with all these guys, and I have one rule that I live by:

"Women are a dime a dozen, I don't need any particular one."

[Blunt]

I would say the opposite of the guys who say if she's your only piece you should keep her around.

The only way you should keep her around is if you have other options. If you are actively banging other girls then this one girls actions are going to mean a lot less, this girl won't damage your self-esteem. But if you aren't banging other girls and you stick around this shit could do long term damage to your confidence and mojo.

If you've ever been cheated on, you know you feel 100x time better about it if you were getting some on the side too, preferably more and from someone she's friends with. Its an insurance policy for your manhood.

Unless you have some quick plays, better start rebuilding now.

[MikeCF]

Meh. Don't be emotional.

Ever had a job that sucked but paid the bills? I have. You use that job until you find something better.

Same thing here.

Use her until you're really to move on.

No reason to be sentimental. Dating is just another job.

Make that money.

Gigolo game.

[bmn200]

Do people really look at rings and what hand/finger they are on to derive opinions about someone? I don't think I've done that once in my entire life. Seems ridiculous.

[Tuthmosis]

Simple:

1. Ask for your "promise ring" back (which you shouldn't have given her in the goddamn first place).

2. When says, "why?!" say because "it's obvious this isn't a two-way promise."

3. She'll try to explain herself and lie, but don't buy any of her shit. Tell her (even though you won't mean it) that she'll get it back "when she demonstrates that she's actually checked-in." Don't budge.

4. One of two things will happen: (1) she'll try to break it off (be like, "cool" and move on); or, more likely, (2) she'll grovel a bit and you will have won back control in the relationship. Get some promises from her and enjoy your fake make-up sex.

5. Keep her in the rotation but demote her big time.

6. Make cheating on her your number-one priority. Holler at bitches with impunity, night and day. Fuck one or more of them.

7. Dump original-girl nasty, even letting her catch you if you so choose.

8. Grow some nuts and don't go on handing out "promise rings" anymore--especially when you're broke as shit.

[Duke Castile]

Wolf,

I don't like this situation....

Don't do anything to try and "hurt" her, calling her names, fucking women to rub in her face etc. If you have any feelings for her at all, this will only blow up in your face because she will win by doing the same thing. Plus if she gets upset she can kick you out before you're ready to leave.

Now that she's been caught she's going to be irrational, this could very quickly blow up when she realizes it's over, and that means she could cause things to get physical. She probably thinks you OWE her and that she can control you. If you suspect she feels this way, I think there's a good chance she will lose it. You do not want a domestic violence charge. Things can get nasty so quick, your head will spin. For example; she gets into a yelling match with you, you try to leave, she blocks your path or wraps her arms around you, you are forced to move her or peel her off, she dramatically falls to the ground and calls the cops. Your ass is arrested. In California any visible marks constitutes domestic violence, that means a red mark from a fall or where you grabbed her arm to get by her could land you in jail.

Formulate an escape plan. She should think that everything is at least ok for the time being. Make other living arrangements. Get your ring back if you want it. And then just disappear. Let her find out by all your stuff being gone.

Do not buy into her lies or coverups, this will only make things worse because she will continue to do this and eventually you'll confront her and a situation like I described above could happen.

[thegmanifesto]

(01-30-2012 02:36 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Simple:

1. Ask for your "promise ring" back (which you shouldn't have given her in the goddamn first place).

2. When says, "why?!" say because "it's obvious this isn't a two-way promise."

3. She'll try to explain herself and lie, but don't buy any of her shit. Tell her (even though you won't mean it) that she'll get it back "when she demonstrates that she's actually checked-in." Don't budge.

4. One of two things will happen: (1) she'll try to break it off (be like, "cool" and move on); or, more likely, (2) she'll grovel a bit and you will have won back control in the relationship. Get some promises from her and enjoy your fake make-up sex.

5. Keep her in the rotation but demote her big time.

6. Make cheating on her your number-one priority. Holler at bitches with impunity, night and day. Fuck one or more of them.

7. Dump original-girl nasty, even letting her catch you if you so choose.

8. Grow some nuts and don't go on handing out "promise rings" anymore--especially when you're broke as shit.

What the f*ck is a "promise ring" anyways?

[Luckystar]

(01-30-2012 12:41 AM)wolf Wrote:  

Long story short she's been bugging me for a promise ring and I gave her one. Don't worry I didn't spend more than $100.

So today she goes out with her co-worker, boss, and boss's friends.

She has her ring on her left hand ring finger all time, and she came rushing home( I don't live with her) saying her phone died and she wanted to let me that she was okay and has to leave to go out with dinner with them.

I noticed that the ring was now on the opposite hand. I pointed this out to her and she left to go to dinner with her co-worker and those guys.

She comes back and I ask her if she takes the ring off at work? No.

I ask if she switches the ring onto another hand while at work? No.

Then I asked her why today she moved the ring if her co-worker and boss know she's with me and her boss and co-workers saw me before.

She said no reason. Then she got quiet and said nothing.

There is obviously a reason and I'm pretty sure that it has to do with the boss's friends.


Now here is my explanation why I haven't walked off. I just finished school and two weeks ago I took my last test for my license certification, so I will be certified to make some real money by this summer. But now I'm broke and no job. So no cash. I took Alihbaba's advice and shacked up with a 7 for the time being since I'm strapped for cash.

What would you do in my situation?

Listen carefully, Joe...

[TheAntiWhiteKnight138]

Please for the love of god Wolf, drop her like a bad habit. No amount of pussy is worth your dignity. Do not hesitate on this, you will regret it. You have enough proof that she's a piece of shit.

[txbeachbum]

(01-30-2012 12:41 AM)wolf Wrote:  

Long story short she's been bugging me for a promise ring and I gave her one. Don't worry I didn't spend more than $100.

So today she goes out with her co-worker, boss, and boss's friends.

She has her ring on her left hand ring finger all time, and she came rushing home( I don't live with her) saying her phone died and she wanted to let me that she was okay and has to leave to go out with dinner with them.

I noticed that the ring was now on the opposite hand. I pointed this out to her and she left to go to dinner with her co-worker and those guys.

She comes back and I ask her if she takes the ring off at work? No.

I ask if she switches the ring onto another hand while at work? No.

Then I asked her why today she moved the ring if her co-worker and boss know she's with me and her boss and co-workers saw me before.

She said no reason. Then she got quiet and said nothing.

There is obviously a reason and I'm pretty sure that it has to do with the boss's friends.


Now here is my explanation why I haven't walked off. I just finished school and two weeks ago I took my last test for my license certification, so I will be certified to make some real money by this summer. But now I'm broke and no job. So no cash. I took Alihbaba's advice and shacked up with a 7 for the time being since I'm strapped for cash.

What would you do in my situation?

[Tuthmosis]

(01-30-2012 04:53 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

What the f*ck is a "promise ring" anyways?

Here you go, G-Money. Careful, it may make you throw up your lunch:

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=promise+ring

-W

[dulst]

Dump her. The ring switch proves one of two things.

Either:

1. She cheated/is looking to cheat.

Yeah hypergamy's a bitch.

or:

2. She innocently switched it for no reason, but your relationship is so weak that you suspect cheating.

In either situation dumping is the only worthwhile thing.

[Alpha]

(01-30-2012 04:53 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(01-30-2012 02:36 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Simple:

1. Ask for your "promise ring" back (which you shouldn't have given her in the goddamn first place).

2. When says, "why?!" say because "it's obvious this isn't a two-way promise."

3. She'll try to explain herself and lie, but don't buy any of her shit. Tell her (even though you won't mean it) that she'll get it back "when she demonstrates that she's actually checked-in." Don't budge.

4. One of two things will happen: (1) she'll try to break it off (be like, "cool" and move on); or, more likely, (2) she'll grovel a bit and you will have won back control in the relationship. Get some promises from her and enjoy your fake make-up sex.

5. Keep her in the rotation but demote her big time.

6. Make cheating on her your number-one priority. Holler at bitches with impunity, night and day. Fuck one or more of them.

7. Dump original-girl nasty, even letting her catch you if you so choose.

8. Grow some nuts and don't go on handing out "promise rings" anymore--especially when you're broke as shit.

What the f*ck is a "promise ring" anyways?

A surcharge from DeBears that you have to pay before you can get engaged, nowadays. It helps make the divorce more painful.

[germanico]

(01-30-2012 04:53 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

What the f*ck is a "promise ring" anyways?

I asked that same question once. Apparently, its one step short of an engagement ring. A gift as a token that you plan on proposing to her in the future.

I know, stupid shit.

[Blaze Frazier]

Advice? Run.

[timmy21]

(01-30-2012 11:50 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

I say dump her and get a new one...

I never understood why guys keep girls around to "keep a steady supply of pussy" if you MUST rely on ONE (1) female to get your dick wet on a daily basis, that just means you do not have enough options!! go get some options!!


Mixx

absolutely this, ^^ fuck the ring, let her keep it, it was only a $100, it's time to move on, dont ever lose any self respect over a piece of ass.

[snoop]

maybe she is just embarassed to wear a cheap ring on her "commitment finger" around successful and well off people? That would also explain the behavior and unwillingness to explain it.

[Raoul]

I don't know how cheap the ring look like, but if it looks like a cheap imitation, I would think it's fair for her to be embarrassed.

If you really want to give a ring to a woman, make sure it's a good one. You don't have to get it from Tiffany's or any high end jewelry stores because you'd be paying their rent and brand expenses. Get from reputable online jewelry stores like BlueNile.

@wolf

Bro, it doesn't look like you're ballin'. Women are hypergamous. When a woman is around powerful/rich men, there's no doubt that she would throw herself in the market especially if her current partner is not ballin'.

And you don't have any evidence yet that she is cheating on you. I'd suggest you keep quiet and bang her while you build your wealth. A woman will think 1000x before leaving a rich man.

(02-01-2012 08:31 PM)snoop Wrote:  

maybe she is just embarassed to wear a cheap ring on her "commitment finger" around successful and well off people? That would also explain the behavior and unwillingness to explain it.

[snoop]

(01-30-2012 11:55 AM)Kona Wrote:  

Straight out borrowing cash and dipping out on her is just mean, but sticking her with a $300 payment on a personal loan isn't so bad. Once for a month for a few years she'll be reminded why you shouldn't screw with people's heads.

This sounds like an pretty risky idea.

Money comes and goes, but taking a chance like this with your reputation could be pretty damaging and much harder to correct.

[Raoul]

Why would you want to do that? You'll look like a loser by doing so. A real man doesn't do petty shit like that.

(01-30-2012 11:55 AM)Kona Wrote:  

Straight out borrowing cash and dipping out on her is just mean, but sticking her with a $300 payment on a personal loan isn't so bad. Once for a month for a few years she'll be reminded why you shouldn't screw with people's heads.

[MiXX]

(01-31-2012 03:24 AM)germanico Wrote:  

(01-30-2012 04:53 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

What the f*ck is a "promise ring" anyways?

I asked that same question once. Apparently, its one step short of an engagement ring. A gift as a token that you plan on proposing to her in the future.

I know, stupid shit.

A gift for promising to be engaged to her in the near future? Is it my imagination, or are younger generations of men become absolute pussies?

I already think giving a woman an expensive engagement ring is the stupidest thing a man can do, but a promise ring?

Seriously, give her a clitoris ring instead, something you'll both enjoy!

Mixx

[Deluge]

(02-01-2012 11:31 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

A gift for promising to be engaged to her in the near future? Is it my imagination, or are younger generations of men become absolute pussies?

Mixx

I think Vicious was onto something when asked if the powers at be are putting estrogen into our drinking water.

[TheAntiWhiteKnight138]

(02-01-2012 11:31 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

(01-31-2012 03:24 AM)germanico Wrote:  

(01-30-2012 04:53 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

What the f*ck is a "promise ring" anyways?

I asked that same question once. Apparently, its one step short of an engagement ring. A gift as a token that you plan on proposing to her in the future.

I know, stupid shit.

A gift for promising to be engaged to her in the near future? Is it my imagination, or are younger generations of men become absolute pussies?

I already think giving a woman an expensive engagement ring is the stupidest thing a man can do, but a promise ring?

Seriously, give her a clitoris ring instead, something you'll both enjoy!

Mixx

I work with this guy, real burly "man's man" that wears one of those irish relationship rings on his ring finger. We shit on him all the time for being such a pussy. Apparently if it's facing down it means you're taken??? Anyone know what I'm talking about?? I've seen chicks wearing these for years, but men wearing them is just out of line

[joehoya]

(02-02-2012 01:37 AM)TheAntiWhiteKnight138 Wrote:  

I work with this guy, real burly "man's man" that wears one of those irish relationship rings on his ring finger. We shit on him all the time for being such a pussy. Apparently if it's facing down it means you're taken??? Anyone know what I'm talking about?? I've seen chicks wearing these for years, but men wearing them is just out of line

Yeah, all of the Irish-American girls in my high school and college wore those rings. It was called a Claddagh ring. My favorite memory about those rings is a chick I was gaming who, in the middle of our makeout session told me to stop for a moment, literally turned the ring around to the "single" direction and then continued with the makeout and subsequent fucking. After fucking her, she got dressed turned the ring back around to the "in a relationship" direction, and left. I guess that made cheating on her boyfriend OK.