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01-19-2019, 05:34 PM
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Do it! You have nothing to lose. Even if it only got you a few more bangs. We are not going to live forever.
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01-19-2019, 07:07 PM
I'm 42, never lied about my age, neither in person nor on dating profiles (and the latter choice certainly seems to be costing me some options lately, after coming out of a relationship), and I really hope I'll never feel the urge to do so.
I've certainly held back on information about myself countless times - including my age - but downright lying, and not telling the truth if asked directly and seriously (or saying no if it's something I don't want to talk about, and then facing whatever the consequences if any), feels like I'm telling myself I'm not satisfied being who I am. And I am.
Also, so many people - not just here, but in general - claiming they look 10 or 15 years younger than they are? I'm rarely buying that one, although there are rare exceptions of course. Some people - frequently including myself, particularly when it comes to men - are just a bit bad at guessing age, sometimes just because we don't get close enough to look at the fine facial details, and others will just lie or go along with your lie to flatter you. With my face covered I'm sure my body could probably pass for significantly younger - men's bodies can usually keep the tell tale signs of age away much longer than women's - but on the other hand it could also fit on a 50 or 60 year old in equally good shape. But the faces of both men and women usually tell the story, certainly at close range.
I still remember a YouTube video a few years ago where some exceptionally fit 70 year old guy kept asking the interviewer whether he didn't think he looked 20 years younger. No, he just looked like a 70 year old with a healthy but certainly not youthful face, and a body in better shape than most men will ever be at any point in their life.
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01-19-2019, 07:15 PM
On LinkedIn, there is age discrimination as well, so it's best not to shut it down but to remove the first few years of work experience and also remove all graduation dates. Whoever wants to discriminate against me, fuck em, I'll lie to them.
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01-20-2019, 06:28 AM
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How are these tourist girls finding your Linkedin and Facebook pages? Why are you giving them your real full name if they are just looking for Miami vacation sex?
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01-20-2019, 02:32 PM
Quote: (01-20-2019 06:28 AM)azulsombra Wrote:
@ Atlanta Man
How are these tourist girls finding your Linkedin and Facebook pages? Why are you giving them your real full name if they are just looking for Miami vacation sex?
I am a very large black man, I am intimidating, and these foreign chicks do not discriminate based on how educated I sound. Once I get them to the lobby of my place all is good, but I buy drinks-they see the name on the ID. Women pay close attention to everything, you think you are slick or moving fast, but they are paying close attention.
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01-20-2019, 08:41 PM
If a girl can control your pussy for you because of a shallow logical detail like age the attraction wasn't high enough for anything substantial anyways.
Usually girls make bullshit excuses when attraction isn't high enough. 'I don't give out my number.' 'You're too old for me'. 'I'm not that kind of girl'. Be we all know that if you do it for a girl, she's not gunna give you these lines.
Yeah you could lose a few lays here and there but sweet spot is girls who a re cooperative and submit to your frame easily. You don't want to be her 5th string anyways.
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01-21-2019, 04:45 PM
50+ here. I've tried lying about my age and did not enjoy the experience. In contrast, no woman that I've met actually cared.
The good news is that there are plenty of younger women out there that are into older men.
Currently have a 30yo fb. 2018 gave me three closes under 29.
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01-21-2019, 06:40 PM
In my 40s and say I'm 34 on my dating profile. I usually do the "guess" thing in person, when they ask.
The girls never question it.
Banged everything from 18 - 30 year olds last year, in 3 continents. Mostly girls less than 25.
If they'd have known my real age, I'm sure I'd have scarified a good chunk of those bangs.
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01-21-2019, 07:44 PM
Being in my late 30s, I am of two minds about this:
Lying about age: Will need to keep my years (HS Grad, College Grad, popular culture trends) accurate. If its one night thing, then it's easier to do. However for repeat bangs, that gets tiresome if I slip up or she sees the ID or whatever. A lot of females are more in the camp of "you lied to me about your age, I wouldn't have cared about being XX years old but the fact that you lied.."
Not lying about age: It's obvious, losing bangs due to the narrow-minded younger females.
I guess my strategy will be splitting between the two. I'm planning on being on SA in a few months, and will be honest about my age there. While I am on campus or in a short term situation, I'll lie about the age.
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01-23-2019, 01:43 AM
I watched my younger cousin in the same city swipe on his tinder account and he would have multiple hot women I have never come across in their early 20s. I figured I'm getting filtered out due to my age, early 30s. Women guess 24/25 all the time, though. Is there any way to change my age with my existing account
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01-23-2019, 02:49 AM
Hey Guys
I am pushing 62 and never had to lie about my age, but in saying that when I was 34 I had a girfriends father say I was tol old for her
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01-23-2019, 06:10 AM
We all know the peak for men is 35 if you want the young twenty-somethings (in the US it might even be 30 based on the age range they filter for in dating apps). With that said, I always ask girls to guess my age. Use that as your guide for how old you look. If the age they guess makes sense in their mind after seeing and talking to you for a while, go with that on your dating profiles. After you've had sex with a girl a few times, you can actually bring it up for fun -- or just never talk about it if you're going to cut her loose anyway -- and say: "Did I ever tell you how old I really am?" (with a big smile on your face).
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01-23-2019, 08:33 AM
I work with a bunch of men in their 40's and they mostly look like shit. When you tell a 22 or 23 year old girl in their head they are thinking of "40=Family, Mortgage, Minivan and OLD"-Same girl hears 34 and thinks "young ,successful, athletic, professional and cool". When I deal with a younger woman, lying is just the best path for me currently.
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01-23-2019, 10:01 AM
The takeaway here: you should play the 35 and under card for as long as you can get away with it, if your target girls are young twenty-somethings. Most girls guess I'm 35 or 38. At some point I'm going to have to bump my age up a couple years. To a young thirty-something, 35 - 38 is fresh meat. At some point we will all have to graduate to thirty-somethings, with the occasional twenty-something, if our game is still strong.
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01-23-2019, 10:41 PM
Quote: (01-23-2019 06:50 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:
You never have to graduate to 30 somethings if you don't look 'old.'
At some point X age won't line up with what you state on your dating profile. You have to adjust accordingly, if you're doing online game. Luckily, I'm a ways off from graduating to thirty-somethings, though they're often much easier and still look pretty sexy here in Asia.
Age isn't relevant when chatting up a girl on the street, mall, bar, or club (by nature I approach any girl who I think is hot) -- there are more important factors at play, though "looks" are heavily weighted. I never answer this question directly if she brings it up.
It's your choice if you want to be forever coy about your age with girls, but I usually tell the ones I like after while (often for personal amusement). To each his own.
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01-24-2019, 06:33 AM
Lying about age can work from a pragmatic perspective. However it all revolves around how you want to perceive yourself, including in terms of self respect. Being aged 38, I prefer to lose the occasional bang for being honest than being caught in a lie, or having to tell the truth at a later stage because I developed a relation (as it happened before). Of course if they don't ask, I don't tell, and I never raise the age topic in the conversation...
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01-24-2019, 07:43 AM
Quote: (01-23-2019 06:50 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:
I don't lie about my age, use Roosh's advice, and have told lots of them I'm in my 40s. I've never lost a bang, they already knew I was 2x their age or at least 15 years older based on how I dress and take the lead at all times. Banged 2 new 19yr olds last year and they couldn't have cared less.
Ah, now I see what you're saying (I think). First Roosh said he never tells until after sex. Are you saying you're telling them before or after sex? I agree with telling them after sex, if you want.
Quote: (01-14-2019 10:42 PM)Roosh Wrote:
I simply refuse to tell, even if she's persistent.
"Where I come from, it's not nice to ask a man's age."
"It's a secret."
You don't have to lie, just don't tell them until after sex, where it's less likely to cause her to walk away.
Then he later said you're putting pussy on a pedestal if you have to re-invent your life story.
Quote: (01-15-2019 02:07 AM)Roosh Wrote:
It's also a subtle way of putting pussy on the pedestal. You value her so much that you're willing to practically re-invent your life story to sleep with her.
I just play the age game for online dating as girls can easily filter you out. I don't look at it as putting pussy on a pedestal -- just like being coy about your age when you're chatting a girl up isn't. It's just my foot in the door. I also never get into my life story on the first date. Heck, even after months of casually seeing a girl I don't go in deep into anything about me (or her for that matter). It's just the way I am.
Quote: (01-24-2019 06:33 AM)Frank Mackey Wrote:
Lying about age can work from a pragmatic perspective. However it all revolves around how you want to perceive yourself, including in terms of self respect.
If you spend your leisure time chasing tail, spinning plates, and getting laid, honesty and maybe getting caught in a lie is the last thing on your mind.
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01-24-2019, 05:38 PM
I've told plenty of girls I'm in my 40s pre-bang. They love it, half of them don't believe me anyway. To a 19yr old 38, 41, 43, etc are all the same age. She decided within 15 seconds of meeting you if you were fuckable or not. Don't kid yourself.
Any girl over 25 literally doesn't give a fuck how old you are if you don't look 'old.'
Whether 19 or 26 they'd rather know you're good in bed and know what you're doing or won't judge them after.