Quote: (01-14-2019 09:59 PM)bradz Wrote:
I’ve played it both ways. And been burned too. I’m 45 now and usually get mistaken for at least 10 yrs younger. I’ve bet shots about my age (usually win) and have had it turn into a full on slutty fwb thing. But I lie usually since I go for younger women.
Elaborate?? bet shots as in?
Quote: (01-14-2019 10:42 PM)Roosh Wrote:
I simply refuse to tell, even if she's persistent.
"Where I come from, it's not nice to ask a man's age."
"It's a secret."
You don't have to lie, just don't tell them until after sex, where it's less likely to cause her to walk away.
To help gauge how important the age gap will be to her, I ask her how old the oldest man she's dated has been. If that guy is younger than me by more than 3 years, I definitely don't tell. If it's a guy my age, I know I can tell her without a problem, but I probably still won't tell her.
IS IT REALLY? It's not. Rational/ Logical mind versus Feeling/ emotional mind.
I had similar moral ethical mind issues. Did not know whether to be truthful or lie or so on etc. How much to share or deny.. Then over time I learnt, I do not OWE people a background check.
So I used the standard.. "Guess" Gambit. .. & variations of it.
Then I realized something while consulting, keep the CLIENT happy, even if it means they do not want the truth.
CLIENTS hate being told the truth about how crappy their stuff is... They want it SUGAR COATED.
Why does someone in CBD career not wear a crappy suit for an interview or meeting? So that Interviewer can focus on YOU and YOUR CONTENT & VIBE, not the "extraneous" stuff that does not matter.
Does it matter to a career interview if you do 20/ 30 / 40 pushups? IRRELEVANT.
Same way, DENYING & DEFLECTING AWAY from "IRRELEVANT" subjects/ information is what I tend towards. Her AGE, DEGREE, CAREER etc dont matter, NEITHER DO MINE.
Whether you are republican or democrat or communist or socialist or Funded startup or Bootstrapped does not matter.. in this context.
OUR "Chemistry" & "Interaction" / VIBE matters.
Focus & Present on what matters to the INTERACTION, to it moving FORWARD & PROGRESSING and BECOMING ENRICHING FUN for the parties involved.
The 2 People, their Personalities, characteristics, mannerisms etc MATTER.
So why give them "Information" that does not "ADD / CONTRIBUTE" to the WELL BEING of the INTERACTION? That's the little "LIVING ENTITY" that matters.
Its not like they WERE, ARE or WILL BE.. Bastions of Truth - Hypocrisy thy name - They dont need to be, neither do you.
PS: Case in point made by this Chris Rock thing.. and the Feminist in a Fire bit by Bill Burr. Another one by Dave Chapelle I think.. "Dress like a Ho, but I am not a Ho" "Dressed like a policeman." "Uniform etc"
Quote: (01-25-2019 01:39 AM)MMM Wrote:
As Chris Rock said about women: You got on heels, you aint that tall… you got on makeup, your face don’t look like that… you got a weave, your hair ain’t that long… you got a wonder bra on, your titties ain’t that big. Everything about you is a lie and you expect me to tell the truth? F*ck you.”
Ronnie:
[to George] I've been living a lie.
George Costanza:
You've been living a lie? I've been living... like twenty.