[RespectivePerspective]

Indeed. If it comes up after sex, she will have the dread of not being able to hold that over your head as a prize anymore. It means if she knows the truth only then, it’s her who looks silly and incompetent. Kind of funny, but kind of dark, too.

[TheBMan]

Here's another thing for you guys who also like about your age on the dating apps - if you meet a girl you like and have been out with a couple of times, block her on the app (or unmatch w/her, whatever) and if she asks tell her you took a break from it. This way she cant view your profile, which shows the incorrect age.

[RespectivePerspective]

I’m wondering if it might be better to just create a new profile? This is something i’ve sporadically thought about, but haven’t quite figured out the best way to go about it.

[kirdiesel]

I’m almost 38 and just lie and say I’m 30 or 28. The thing is I look and act that age so it’s easy to own it. Girls never question me about it. I still dress “young” and still listen to all the same music and pop culture shit they do. Very easy to be congruent that way.

The beard as long as it’s not gray either makes it even easier to conceal the age as beards make almost every guy look older so they never know who’s who and what’s what.

[RawGod]

I have lied about it, but I don't like doing so. The stress it causes me from being "ashamed" of the truth is probably worse than losing bangs. But there are also cases, like with a Tinder profile, where you're really lying to an algorithm more than to a person. It does seem worth it to do so and get matches with young women that you wouldn't otherwise.

[Roosh]

(01-15-2019 01:51 AM)RawGod Wrote:  

I have lied about it, but I don't like doing so. The stress it causes me from being "ashamed" of the truth is probably worse than losing bangs. But there are also cases, like with a Tinder profile, where you're really lying to an algorithm more than to a person. It does seem worth it to do so and get matches with young women that you wouldn't otherwise.

It's also a subtle way of putting pussy on the pedestal. You value her so much that you're willing to practically re-invent your life story to sleep with her.

[Cobra]

You most likely will not have these issues with girls whose dads left or have daddy issues.

[Green-On-GO]

I don't do dating apps..so this is about the meat space

There is a niche for an older dudes it's called masculinity.

The best gambit is to tell them to guess if they ask your age..It will usually be low ..just tell them they are a good guesser..be fun.

You have to be fun and have a good vibe I think the breakdown comes for dudes who are looking for a GF..Young chicks have disgust for this in the West..

"He is like 40 and wants to be my boyfriend like we only fucked once and he calls me all the time"

I've got kids already so I don't give a fuck about it.I think of myself as an adventure..

I do meet certain markers that they can equate me to like the Rock or Vin Diesal or Stratham at a stretch.Also Euro porn has shaven head dudes that look like me.This is shit I've been told over the last few years.I'm in no way as big as those dudes

The problem with my age or getting over my age is not the chicks as much as its mine.

The 18 -23 can't talk anymore its the ones that can that are into me..

Things said to me

""Do you think its creepy for me to be 20 and talking to you?"

"We like older guys"

I get hit up for sugar daddy by 25 to 28

"You travel alot "

I asked a hot batmaid who hit me up why me.When I was in a real rich beach town here surrounded by rich dudes wearing $400 shorts ..I drank coffee in this joint every morning to have dudes complain how I go out every night and what a loose cannon I was .I loved it cause I knew chicks love that shit.While these dudes thought they were cockblocking me.

She said "You are fun ,you go out everynight ,you still party and travel."
I was the poorest guy there

A 31 year old who I was having an affair with said

"But you are a cool dad I cant believe you are in your 40s with kids.."

Its a vibe and an energy that you sub communicate its not James Bond shit.

I think this is where taller dudes actually fall down compared to shorter dudes..The taller dude does not age as well and usually looks way older and has a older vibe

Keys are to go out ,be fun do game learn sub comms..But guys without kids will find it harder as they are sub consciously looking to have kids looking for GF energy and looking for affection.

It's a night game thing to you have to be seen as outlaw ,rocker or bad boy I guess.There must be an edge to you.

The best 2 guys I know are 49 who bang 23 year olds but these guys don't look their age their dress style is timeless rockn roll with modern brands ..think James Marshall or Springsteen..I don't know any dude in suits doing this shit.

I much prefer 25 to 33 for their energy there is a fragility to 18-23 now that I don't find appealling..But there are the ovulating backpackers not on the pill up for older dudes that can spot them

I say all that shit but I still spike adrenaline when 18 ,19, 20 comes my way..And every one of these chicks have a steady BF.

And I'm talking white chicks Oz ,US ,Western EU..not Asia or SA..

Be masculine and don't jump through hoops..

Also its a bit like powerlifting your central nervous system has to get use to the heavy weights so you can lift and recover to lift heavy next time.Pick up is kind of the same your central nervous system has to get use to the beauty and the energy of young chicks before you can believe it and pull the trigger .It nott a thing that just happens you have to be around it by going out.

[the.king]

- How old are you ?
- Guess
- xx
- Lol I wish. I'm xx + 2.
- Oh ok

[Atlanta Man]

(01-15-2019 01:51 AM)RawGod Wrote:  

I have lied about it, but I don't like doing so. The stress it causes me from being "ashamed" of the truth is probably worse than losing bangs. But there are also cases, like with a Tinder profile, where you're really lying to an algorithm more than to a person. It does seem worth it to do so and get matches with young women that you wouldn't otherwise.

I used to feel weird about lying about my age until last year when I went all in with it -graduation dates, stories, music, and style-I fucked a 19 year old Cuban 8/10, a 25 year old Colombian 8/10, and a French 20 year old 7/10. I told all of them I was 34.

I banged a 24 year old Jamaican 7/10 who thought I was 34 and her friends nicknamed me "Old Head" for being 34. We did not work out but stayed friends, and later she found out my real age (fucking LinkedIn, she went deep with the Google) and she told me she would never have given me her phone number if I told her my real age.

Here is how I do it:
Her:How old are you
Me:Guess
Her:I don't know....30, 32?
Me:Close, 34
Her:Wow, you look like you are only 30..
Me:I get that a lot.

I am in South Beach-These girls are on vacation and hot. Many are young German girls 18-19 and a lot of French and European 18-25 year olds. Just lie and get the bang, or tell the truth and miss out- I choose the former .

[Vill@in]

Yeah this is a problem for me as well. I'm 41, but on the dating apps I put my age as 36 to get a wider range of matches. A lot of girls usually have their cut off at 40, so you lose a lot of the 20 year olds. Young girls are too stupid and usually think 40=80. Much like how anything around 5'10 is 6 foot to them.

I met a girl last summer at night game, and she was 22. She guessed that I was 34 so I went with that. But even then she was giving me shit tests constantly about my age and I could tell it bothered her (even at 12 years, let alone the truthful 19 year gap). She was only about a 6 though, so I eventually ghosted her as I got tired of her bringing it up all the time.

I guess the whole thing is hard for me to pull off because I hate lying. It's just been ingrained into me from a young age not to lie. So when I tell these girls I'm younger than what I am, it just rubs me the wrong way inside. May sound stupid but it really bothers me. I thought it would get easier the more I did it but it really hasn't. And simply lying about your age is the 'easy' part. The hard part is when you have to do the math in your head about when you graduated high school, what TV shows you watched growing up, etc. Little small detail bullshit that may come up in conversation. So if you're going to lie about your age, make sure you have your story straight on all the details.

If I am talking to a girl from a dating app and slip up, I'll just tell them my age is wrong on Facebook and I never bothered to change it. MOST don't seem to care, but a few it seems to bother and they think it was intentional (it was). But oh well, fuck 'em.

[porscheguy]

I’m 42. My face looks 42. My body looks younger. I’m not lying about my age. There’s no shortage of girls who have daddy issues or simply want to get fucked by guys in their 40s. If a girl you’ve been making out with asks your age and then she bails, she was looking for a reason to bail.

[Steve McQueen]

Keep lying until you get sex game into the conversation. In my experience once lve banged them its not so important. Being a black man gives you an edge in this department, us whites age like shit past 35

[Atlanta Man]

(01-15-2019 04:26 PM)porscheguy Wrote:  

I’m 42. My face looks 42. My body looks younger. I’m not lying about my age. There’s no shortage of girls who have daddy issues or simply want to get fucked by guys in their 40s. If a girl you’ve been making out with asks your age and then she bails, she was looking for a reason to bail.

I agree with most of your stuff porscheguy, but you are wrong. That shit was in the bag and my age was the sole thing that turned her off-Prior to that she was down to go to my place and all was good. The make out was not just a kiss-We separated from her friends and I could have had sex in the bathroom of the club , but I wanted to take her fine ass to my apartment (less than .3 miles away-I know because I showed her on Google Maps) so I could really get at her. The only reason we were doing the venue change was so I could get her friends into another spot and we were going to leave after that. We did everything but intercourse in the bathroom(she was French after all), and I can assure you the age thing killed the vibe.

I do not look my age-I am lying to the women from now on. If you don't want to, fine by me-I cannot eat these losses again, so I am 34 until I am 38. Just so you understand it is really a double loss- I zero in on a girl and make serious headway, so she gets my attention and some resources as I go for the close-that attention and resources do not go to other interested women in the venue. So I don't get the pussy I am targeting and I miss out on other opportunities- NO MORE! I AM 34!

[debeguiled]

(01-15-2019 04:26 PM)porscheguy Wrote:  

I’m 42. My face looks 42. My body looks younger. I’m not lying about my age. There’s no shortage of girls who have daddy issues or simply want to get fucked by guys in their 40s. If a girl you’ve been making out with asks your age and then she bails, she was looking for a reason to bail.

This just isn't true. There are some girls who are really into you and then when they find out your age, it is like a mental barrier their horniness just can't get past.

They just shut down.

Like it puts an image of their dad and his friends in her head where it wasn't before.

ATSD

Sometimes, you may be right, not always though.

Women lie about much worse than this, so if it doesn't bother your conscience, you shouldn't feel bad in this case.

It's just a mental limitation or form of discrimination.

They like everything about you one minute, and the next, they don't.

Only happened to me once, and it pissed me off to be honest. I wanted to tell her off.

"You mean you liked everything about me until you found that out? Shallow!"

[godzilla]

If I'm with a wingman, I usually don't mess around with my answer. I've seen a few girls shit test a guy I was chilling with after I was coy with my answer.

Sometimes I do shit like this...

Girl: How old are you anyway?

Me: I'm 18

Girl: Laughs a little --says something irrelevant

Me: I'm still a virgin too.
(With a heavy smirk, usually, I feel up their thigh or something too)

EDIT: Not positive if that works on actually 18 year olds.

[porscheguy]

I suppose I’m looking at it from my perspective. There’s no disputing my age when you look at me, so there’s no surprises. With that said, I know that rules me out for many girls. That’s fine though. I’m not gonna dye my shit. But those that are cool with it are downright enthusiastic.

Those that look younger? Fuck it, lie.

[debeguiled]

(01-15-2019 07:33 PM)porscheguy Wrote:  

I suppose I’m looking at it from my perspective. There’s no disputing my age when you look at me, so there’s no surprises. With that said, I know that rules me out for many girls. That’s fine though. I’m not gonna dye my shit. But those that are cool with it are downright enthusiastic.

Those that look younger? Fuck it, lie.

Lying, not dying.

[Guitarhappy420]

I'm over 70. I don't lie about my age. I'm just glad to wake up in the morning and not be dead.

[Max RNR]

In order to lie about your age you need to be honest with yourself first. Do you look and feel and act (with wisdom) how old you are purporting to be?

If you can pull it off convincingly... why not?

If you can't, go with an older man game and don't be shy about it. After all, you should have a decade or two of outward world history (music, news, wars, etc.) to reference to her that she probably has no clue about (unless she had very open and communicative parents).

Everyone.. especially young women... love good stories. Have her sit at your campfire and tell her a tale or two and adjust to her interest while maintaining your form and objective.

I have done both... and they both work... if you are in the groove/swing/zone of the night.

[JackinMelbourne]

I always exaggerate up to grandpa age. I'm not that old but I stick to the grandpa age to fuck with them, the dirty little grandpa fuckers.

[Poseidon]

Last week, I told a 19 year old girl I had been banging for three days straight that I was 40, when she asked. I'm early 30s, but look younger (just like everyone else here, apparently).
She laughed, with her nipples jiggling around, and said "wow! I would've sworn you were 24, max."

I laughed too and said "nah, I'm just kidding, I'm not 40." She goes "yeah, I know you can't possibly be 40."
So I say "yeah, I'm not really 40, I'm fortyyy... five." She laughed so hard. Sometimes it's more fun to dance around it, particularly when it's already in the bag.

I almost never have age come up in casual hookups, except I bring it up. I certainly won't lie about my age, if I think the girl is LTR material though.
For random hookups you'll probably never see again, or at most FWB, I see nothing wrong changing your age.

However, know when to let it go. It's all fun and games until you become this guy.

[UlugBeg]

telling the truth about my age recently cost me a great gal and a probable lay.

[Solitaire]

I turned 50 last year but my biological age is a good decade younger, if not more. I'll have this 30's mindset until I have to let it go. That being said, it's a lot of effort to lie in the face of a direct question, "How old are you?" I'd have to go all in with it, like Vill@in mentions: create a persona and become that person when I go out. Would be fun, I think, given the right circumstances, but my life at the moment is too time-consuming to bother with girls at all. Once I get moved and settled down, we'll see.

The last four girls I've dated were all in their 30's, now that I think about it. But I didn't lie about my age, either. Daddy issues, etc, who cares, they were fun.

[Atlanta Man]

I may shut down my LinkedIn and make a fake Facebook and Instagram with my fake age. I pulled a girl last night from the Netherlands, we had sex and she left. We were supposed to hook up later today but she found my LinkedIn and the dates are not adding up she is giving me the 3rd degree and giving me push back a out coming back over. " what else are you lying about " , "prove this, prove that", " I cannot believe we did not use a condom "- plus this is all through WhatsApp and she will not answer when I call- Fucking girls in their 20s hate phone calls, even after they fuck you .

This bitch is hot so I will try to salvage this, she leaves Wednesday regardless, and she is in a shitty hostel so she is probably trying to stay at my place rather than there.

Anyway , when lying about your age do not let Google betray you. A simple bullshit Instagram and Facebook profile, and deleting LinkedIn will save you (Me) a bunch of drama.