OP If you feel bad about cheating you're getting too close. If I start feeling bad about seeing other girls when I'm seeing another regularly it's usually an indicator that I'm beginning to beta backslide on the primary girl.
Of course if you're a monogamous guy I guess it would be a different case. Personally I don't emotionally invest in women very often. Not to say I'm opposed to that lifestyle. Maybe one day. I'm more focused on work than relationships.
While it's a slower crawl to get girls on rotation like this it is much easier to just tell the girl you're not a one girl guy. Then you'll never have to feel any guilt. Of course you're going to obviously lose a lot of girls doing this but it creates a lot less stress of having to live double, triple or even quadruple lives and keep up with your own lies.
If you establish this at the beginning even if she does not believe you that's on her not you. So if anything comes back to bite you in the ass you can say I told you from the beginning. Always keep your side of the street clean and you'll never have anything to worry about.
There are many girls out there that don't actually mind guys that have a few girlfriends. But you're going to have to put up serious numbers to find them.
Of course if you're a monogamous guy I guess it would be a different case. Personally I don't emotionally invest in women very often. Not to say I'm opposed to that lifestyle. Maybe one day. I'm more focused on work than relationships.
While it's a slower crawl to get girls on rotation like this it is much easier to just tell the girl you're not a one girl guy. Then you'll never have to feel any guilt. Of course you're going to obviously lose a lot of girls doing this but it creates a lot less stress of having to live double, triple or even quadruple lives and keep up with your own lies.
If you establish this at the beginning even if she does not believe you that's on her not you. So if anything comes back to bite you in the ass you can say I told you from the beginning. Always keep your side of the street clean and you'll never have anything to worry about.
There are many girls out there that don't actually mind guys that have a few girlfriends. But you're going to have to put up serious numbers to find them.