[quaker13]

(09-12-2018 07:17 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

What’s missing from this conversation is getting infected with an STD if you cheat, and passing it onto her. We had a recent thread on this, actually — “how to deal with the gf if I got the clap”.

I don’t advocate for cheating if you truly care about her, at least her health. But if you must cheat, don’t get an STD. And keep in mind, you can possibly get infected from oral sex and no one wraps up for that.

you always gotta keep a zpack of antiobiotics to be on the safe side if you care about your partner. if you don't then fuck it

[The Stronger Sex]

I'm away to spoil a virgin just to piss off Weird Al Spankabitch. I hope he doesn't go all Eliot Rodger on me.

[Flux]

Unless you leave her for the girl you cheated on her with... no you shouldn’t feel bad.

If you love her and would never leave her, then go ahead and cheat. If she catches you she’ll forgive you as long as she knows how much you love her.

Relationships never end because the man cheated, they end because the man becomes weak and complacent. If you’re holding up your end, she’ll forgive you anything.

[alexanderjack]

If she ain't giving you the regular bedroom stuff then cheat to hell and back ....as mentioned we have needs fulfilled! If a bitch ain't gonna give it ....i'm gone or will cheat !

[floridaboiii]

So pretty much everyone minus a few people are saying they don't feel bad when they cheat.

There's a reason you have your main still in your life. If not you would just leave and fuck who you want. In my case I don't see her enough to be pleased... I saw her as much as I wanted everything would be Gucci. I tried to go the whole we aren't close enough and I need to see you more but the girl made it clear, she did not want to share.

When your girl finds out what do you do? Do you cut your losses? When she says she's leaving do you let her go? Do you try to get her back? Be honest. There's a reason you've kept her around while stepping out and I doubt most of you would just let her go. You would have done that before saying she's your girlfriend.

My girl asked me why I would play her and do these things to somebody that was only good to me. She wouldn't tell me what she found out. Of course she sent the long ass guilt messages about me saying this and saying that.

[quaker13]

(09-18-2018 05:34 AM)Flux Wrote:  

Unless you leave her for the girl you cheated on her with... no you shouldn’t feel bad.

If you love her and would never leave her, then go ahead and cheat. If she catches you she’ll forgive you as long as she knows how much you love her.

Relationships never end because the man cheated, they end because the man becomes weak and complacent. If you’re holding up your end, she’ll forgive you anything.

What this guy said. If you get caught cheating own it. Going the groveling route is a guaranteed fail. Tell your girl you cheated and you aren't sorry, cause she's not sexually accommodating. Don't be an asshole but hold your ground as effectively as you can without coming off smug

[zamfir112]

if the girl is not pleasing you sexually yes cheating is actually a must.first talk to her.inform her that you will cheat if she doesnt satisfy you. anyway theres no such thing as cheating.if a girl isn,t satisfying her man then a man deserves someone else to do that.its that simple

in my case when my LTR was refusing sex frequently i decided to give her a few months but she never changed. other side girls are a must

[Baphomet]

(09-19-2018 09:59 AM)zamfir112 Wrote:  

if the girl is not pleasing you sexually yes cheating is actually a must.first talk to her.inform her that you will cheat if she doesnt satisfy you. anyway theres no such thing as cheating.if a girl isn,t satisfying her man then a man deserves someone else to do that.its that simple

in my case when my LTR was refusing sex frequently i decided to give her a few months but she never changed. other side girls are a must

Why stay in an LTR in which she is not providing that level of intimacy in the first place?

She doesn't want to have regular sex = end the LTR and move on. Why bother with all the emotional nonsense?

[zamfir112]

Baphomet.because sometimes ending a LTR or marriage is not easy. kids property financial reasons etc etc.sometimes you enjoy their company as well.

[quaker13]

As I’m sure you know a relationship is about more than sex. A woman could be shit in the sack but still make for a virtuous wife. Why throw the baby out with the bath water. Plus she won’t leave anyway if she finds out long as you are handling your proverbial “biznees”.

[Baphomet]

(09-19-2018 10:48 AM)zamfir112 Wrote:  

Baphomet.because sometimes ending a LTR or marriage is not easy. kids property financial reasons etc etc.sometimes you enjoy their company as well.

(09-19-2018 12:01 PM)quaker13 Wrote:  

As I’m sure you know a relationship is about more than sex. A woman could be shit in the sack but still make for a virtuous wife. Why throw the baby out with the bath water. Plus she won’t leave anyway if she finds out long as you are handling your proverbial “biznees”.

It's sounding like a "Battered Woman's Syndrome" convention in here.

"Sure he beats me, but he brings me flowers the next day."

[zamfir112]

Baphomet. virgins/shy girls make long term good wives but it comes with a price they are usually not good in bed at all. sluttier women are better in bed but they will not stay loyal to you.

[Montrose]

Since my wife found out that I cheated, our marriage has got way more exciting. She lost 10 pounds, seriously upgraded her BJ game, she became distinctly more feminine and amorous, and she’s always asking for intimacy. Sure, she has some angry phases and she gives me occasional shit tests (which she never did before). Honestly I prefer her new personality.

[Zoso]

^^^^
Most likely she is cheating on you too..

[Bazzwaldo]

The decision to Sleep around on your partner leads to that inevitable intersection, one way is ignoring moral ethics (learned) and betraying your partner, the other is acting on your instincts (biology) so which one is wrong?
Neither is the logical answer, one leads to cohesive collective habitation where morals are passed down through generations and adhered to, choosing a monogamous relationship is then seen as esteemed and virtuous, sleeping around on your partner is more an individualistic desire to replicate (or practice using contraception) a version of yourself with as many receptive women as possible. You may even find a better mate by doing so
What seems to be missing here is the age factor, younger responders seem to ignore moral implications and the older men acknowledge the virtues of keeping their vowels (word) solemn
When I was young, I fucked anything that moved, my biology had a great deal to do with it. As I aged, my attention turned to monogamous loyalty to my partners but only if they provided me with the frequency and type of gratification I needed.
Life is short, there is a time for everything, including monogamous relationships…that has been my experience

[jacknap]

I think being deceitful will end up biting you in the ass. While I don't flaunt it much that i'm fucking other girls, I never promise exclusivity. I think if you love someone set them free, and if they come back it was meant to be

[zamfir112]

Guys can cheat and still love their wives, women cannot.its that simple
Guys are driven more by logic, hence why its possible for a guy to have 4 wives in islam but not ladies to have 4 husbands, im not defending any religion, but this thing has a reason

[floridaboiii]

My girl just found out I cheated. She's nosy as fuck. Is there any way to get her back? Anyone have any advice? I really do love the girl and with other whores it's just sex. I would even tease her and tell her I had other girls and was having sex. What's different is that today she actually found out, seemed like she didn't care if she hadnt found out.

I feel sick to my stomach. It's my fault. Should I move on? Who has experience?

[Polniy_Sostav]

If you cheat just to empty your balls , without using too much budget or time against your wife/kids/regular girlfriend , then it's fine. IF you feel guilty it s normal.
if you start to want more things and feelings then it s pretty wrong...

[Montrose]

First, it’s completely normal for your gf to freak out. Girls thinks cheating is funny until it happens to them. Let her shout, cry, beat you up as much as she wants.

Meanwhile, spare no effort to tell her how much you love her and how you need her. And say that you will never do it again.

And finally explain why you cheated. When you betray someone, whether it’s your king, your accomplice, or your gf, it’s important to give reasons. People will forgive your betrayals more easily if you appear rational. There are two strategies for explaining, apologetic and unapologetic (advanced). For apologetic, you say I was drunk I was weak she seduced me etc... for unapologetic you say I wanted to have a little fun, I regret that it hurt you, now deal with it.

[Polniy_Sostav]

(09-08-2018 08:17 AM)Montrose Wrote:  

Quote:

If any relationship is no longer satisfactory you end it, and move on.

That kind of hedonistic, individualistic thinking has brought about the destruction of marriage and family in the West.

Exactly. It is also totally neglecting the future and kids.
That's why careful and discreet cheating is the only way to go for real men. (if you never cheat and dont suffer from it , it s fine too)

[Polniy_Sostav]

(09-19-2018 03:46 PM)Zoso Wrote:  

^^^^
Most likely she is cheating on you too..

100% sure. women are just copying their men.

[quaker13]

How old are you Floridaboi? I get the impression your not even 30. If you aren’t 30, than fuck it who cares. You lost one and you’ll get another one.

[Polniy_Sostav]

(01-17-2019 08:54 AM)floridaboiii Wrote:  

My girl just found out I cheated. She's nosy as fuck. Is there any way to get her back? Anyone have any advice? I really do love the girl and with other whores it's just sex. I would even tease her and tell her I had other girls and was having sex. What's different is that today she actually found out, seemed like she didn't care if she hadnt found out.

I feel sick to my stomach. It's my fault. Should I move on? Who has experience?

you got caught. you lost her.
if you don;t get caught , it s not cheating

[Montrose]

I’ve been caught many times by wives and girlfriends and none of them decided to leave. Keep frame.