Wow, it's been a while sine I've posted in this thread. Some real solid arguments back and forth.
I'm not going to comment on the 50+ posts on insecurity/"whether race matters" debate on here, because these types of debates always spiral into something where no definitive answer is agreed upon. And think about it - there really is no answer. It all depends on one's experiences, and everyone's experiences are different.
Based on my experiences abroad, it does matter. Man, I would have loved to be blonde hair and blue eyed in Brazil and a Latino in Ukraine haha. But hey, those are just my experiences and that will never change. We are all dealt different cards in life and I'm here to make the best of mine without sulking. I love being browntown no matter what that exotic factor I have or not.
Anyways - Let's start sharing concrete experiences on this thread from traveling abroad and domestically
Here we go:
**Note: In all of my travel experiences, my grooming, fitness, clothes, etc. were good. Not the best, but still better than other travelers I met***
My travel experiences:
USA (my home base)****
NYC: I did okay here. NYC is the most diverse city in the world, so anyone can find their niche here. I said before on here that I didn't do well with white girls (and I'm sticking with that 100%) in NYC here but killed the minority game (Indian, Latina, Black, etc.). With that being said, I feel as though multi-racial hooking up is much more common than anywhere else in the northeast.
Boston: There's a ton of Indian girls on the market (due to all the medical schools, universities, healthcare sector, etc.) so if that's your thing, then you're innnn. I have always felt like New England has had a segregated racial vibe , so I don't have strong dating stats here. I get a lot of Indian/minority matches here online though, almost no white
Europe*****:
Ukraine: Didn't do well. Herds of horny Turkish dudes everywhere and I didn't stand out at all (I'm Indian but look Middle Eastern). Turks have a bad rep here too, so that definitely didn't help. My style, game, approach methodology, etc. were all on point but got me nowhere.
Western Europe: Been to a few cities for short term visits (i.e. less than a few days) so not enough data. Anyone feel free to chime in. I've heard that Finland and Poland are the hotspots.
Latin America breakdown*****:
Colombia, Mexico, Peru: Did pretty well here. Then again, who doesn't do well in these countries
? The thing about Colombia and many other Latin countries is that there are literally no Indian/Arabs people living here. I was traveling through these countries for a long time and didn't see a single brotha, even in the Indian restaurants
(aside from the chefs)
I will admit that the White god factor in these countries was real high (and I saw it time after time after time) so I did have to work harder than my Gringo counterparts/backpackers (dressed better, groomed well, etc etc), but I was still able to do decently well.
Brown guys have an interesting rep here - we don't stand out as much as, say, a blonde haired blue eyed gringo, but once a girl did find out I was Indian, they would seem absolutely shocked. Not a single person I met in any of these countries over several months had ever met an Indian guy ever - in their entire lives
Our rep is spirituality, yoga, Bollywood, snake charmers, etc - in other words, there is definitely a curiosity factor. But note that you will have to work harder for similar quality than the other gringos - but it's achievable.
Argentina - This one was interesting for me. I hear lots of forum members shit on Argentina. And I can see why - the chicks there are hot but almost impossible to bed. The ultimate cocktease.
But from my very limited experience, here's what I noticed (specifically for me):
Argentinian women don't want to be seen with Gringos, because it makes them look bad - they want their local men. The backpacker girls want to hook up with Argentinean guys.
And here's where it became interesting: Because of the way I look, I was assumed to be Argentinean but with a slight exotic flair. A ton of locals would answer/open me in Spanish, and when asked, they all admitted that they thought I was from Argentina. Even the backpacker girls thought so too.
I was open game for both markets - and got lots of attention here. My experiences are very, very short here but I definitely want to head back (for the steak and wine too
)
Brazil: Brazil is incredibly diverse and I blended in 100% as a local. I even had to convince women that I was American, because they thought I was lying. Some even convinced me of showing them a fake passport. I thought it was tough to game here (yeah, pretty contrary compared to what other Forum members have said). If you have distinct European features, then you will absolutely kill it here - saw it with my own eyes. A poosy paradise if you can stand out completely.
Experiences, fellas.
I wrote up a few other datasheets on The Caribbeans, feel free to check those out.