[Roadrunner]

(03-22-2018 05:59 PM)Crash_Bandicoot Wrote:  

With all that being said, as long as you don't have any facial deformities and are decent height, I strongly believe that anyone can do decently well in a large American city as long as you hit the gym, style up, get your fundamental game down, break the stereotypes, and are aggressive

I'm gonna vouch for that. Not trying to be vain but I'm a good looking 21 year old 6'1 Indian man who was born and raised in India until late middle school and have never struck out with a woman because I'm Indian and have never seen anyone strike out in America because of that either. I have seen quite a few Indians not do well but that's because they're children or they have mental/physical attributes that would not let them do well even if they were white.
I wanted someone to assess the veracity of statements made by one of my international friends who have said that it would be very hard for an Indian man to get laid or a LTR in Thailand or South Korea with quality women as Indians are hated there. I've personally dated a south korean for a little bit but as she was in america I assume that she was more liberal so I wanted to know which countries are utterly impossible or super hard for Indian men to crack for banging or for more long-term intimacy. So I can avoid them if I so choose or take on the challenge.
Also if there are any countries or locations that are more likely to have the locals try to fight me or rob me than usual just on account of being Indian rather than being Latino or Black, Asian or White that knowledge would be useful as well.

[Marcus187]

The points you've mentioned about your looks, race and home country are more an indicator of mental weakness. Africans and Muslims get a lot more shit when it comes to their looks, race and home country, but they don't get insecure about that.

Also, it looks like you're searching for approval. You want to hear positive things about your looks, race and home country. And you get insecure when you can't get that.

I personally don't give a fuck about my ethnicity or home country, so I don't mind if people talk bad about it.

Just live your life the way you want it instead of following certain stereotypes or traditions. And yes, I know a lot of readers are different on this (probably the same kind of retards on ROK who promote nationalism and white supremacy), but why follow a certain way of life if you don't like it? You should get rid of certain elements in Indian culture that hold you back in life.

[Jagnum]

Not to derail this thread, but what cities, either in the U.S. (preferable) or abroad, do you think are best to bang Indian women? I definitely have a thing for cute brown women.

There's the "Don't go to India (for the women)" thread, and Dubai I assume is not an easy nut to crack.

If this question is answered in another thread, definitely point me there, but a simple search didn't yield anything.

[Cobra]

^If you want hot Indian women, go to the big Indian cities like Mumbai or Delhi.

In the USA, I can vouch for NYC and Chicago as well but they're harder to find individually. Hot Indian girls in the US tend to hang out with hot white girls.

Obviously, don't go to the ethnic Indian enclaves of either of these cities because that's where the ugly ones are.

[ynwa1892]

(03-28-2018 04:45 PM)Jagnum Wrote:  

Not to derail this thread, but what cities, either in the U.S. (preferable) or abroad, do you think are best to bang Indian women? I definitely have a thing for cute brown women.

There's the "Don't go to India (for the women)" thread, and Dubai I assume is not an easy nut to crack.

If this question is answered in another thread, definitely point me there, but a simple search didn't yield anything.

Like Cobra said, go to either of these cities. I'd suggest Mumbai due to the city being more westernized. Mumbaikars are generally warmer people than Delhites in my experience. I've never stayed long enough in Delhi to talk about getting laid, but there are plenty of hot girls around for sure. Since I've spent a reasonable amount of time in Mumbai and had some success there, I'd recommend Mumbai. You can read about my time in Mumbai here, it may give you some pointers: thread-26110...pid1751295

I'm moving to Mumbai in the next month or so. Can't wait - I love the place!

[doc holliday]

Anyone have any idea what the Indian girls in London are like? There must be a boatload of them there given London's demographics.

[Genghis Khan]

(03-28-2018 04:45 PM)Jagnum Wrote:  

Not to derail this thread, but what cities, either in the U.S. (preferable) or abroad, do you think are best to bang Indian women? I definitely have a thing for cute brown women.

There's the "Don't go to India (for the women)" thread, and Dubai I assume is not an easy nut to crack.

If this question is answered in another thread, definitely point me there, but a simple search didn't yield anything.

I had a thing with this Indian girl from the Caribbean, she was from Trinidad specifically. Granted, I met her in the US as she was in town for a few days. But she told me to hit her up if I was ever in Trinidad. Apparently, there's quite a few Indian people there and they're more liberal/chill than the Indians you'll meet in the US.

My Trini chick definitely had the most chill vibe of any Indian girl I'd ever met (and I've met way too many). Hahah, the first time we met, I was really surprised. Here's why: my experience with Indian girls (on the East Coast, the ones that typically hang with their own crowd) is that they're very uptight and think too much of themselves.

So when I met this Trini girl and 1. she was chill, 2. she told me she thought I was really handsome...I was sitting there thinking: "Lol WTF is this??? An Indian girl actually being pleasant and giving me a compliment. Something's wrong"

Only later did I realize what was wrong wasn't her, but most of the Indian people in the US, who coalesce together.

There's some other "Indian" colonies around, Guyana/Suriname, South Africa. No idea what the brown people are like there though.

[Cobra]

^Secret: My wife is Guyanese-Indian Genghis!

I can give you a whole data sheet on them. However, it comes down to this: If you take Indian people, and remove the rod they have up their ass, what you have is chill Guyanese Indian people.

[jordypip23]

(03-25-2018 05:41 PM)Krimson Killa Wrote:  

(03-25-2018 01:08 PM)sinota Wrote:  

Well said, fellas.

To expand on Crash’s take on basic white girls (and it’s been said before): location.

I travel regularly for work in semi-rural New England, and had success in a relatively homogenous population with the girls here.

Still have their basic tendencies, but w/lower bitch shields, and more homegrown, folksy, chill vibes.

Mostly 6-7s, and while I’m at current peak SMV now in my mid 30’s (job, fitness, style), it helps to be the novelty instead of a bunch of pixels amongst her bag of dicks in the big city sexual market.

The thing is, Indian culture in its traditional form does not at all vibe with the lifestyle of a liberal white American girl who grew up in a place like LA or the Northeast. Indian culture values strong family ties, general sobriety, a sophisticated/intellectual sense of humor, and academic performance. Liberal white women in urban/wealthy areas generally value the complete opposite of all those things.

Conversely more rural white women are much more family oriented, down to earth, and aren't as status/clique obsessed.

I have family members who married white women from rural Wisconsin and North Carolina, none who have married white party girls from the coasts.

I think in terms of how our culture will mesh with white cultures, there is a happy medium to look for. Places like Chicago, Nashville, Austin, etc seem to work well for Indians -- liberal cities surrounded by conservative states. We'd want to avoid super conservative areas like Missouri or Indiana (had a friend get assaulted there) in the same way we want to avoid white women from San Francisco or Los Angeles.

I personally think it's a lot more than that. For serious relationships sure, it can be a problem. But in coastal areas you'd be surprised. You might be able to bag some om shanti Beatles yoga hippie hipster chick on the coasts for a nice few lays. She might think you're another cool bang on her ongoing pilgrimage to all things hipsterdom.

You have more details on the story of your Indiana buddy that got assaulted? I lived in Northwest Indiana very briefly (a few months as a young kid). But Northwest Indiana barely counts as Indiana because it is practically a suburban area of Chicago (almost like New Jersey to NYC). I live near Detroit now, but previously lived near Chicago.

[churros]

(03-22-2018 05:59 PM)Crash_Bandicoot Wrote:  

However, I haven't done well with the typical white American basic girl. I hit the clubs hard and constantly get rejected in my approaches, only to see the chicas pair up with a non-indian guy later on in the night.

Bro the white bitches hear think they are God's gift. I don't even approach them and I'm white. Unless you're pulling in 100k you might as well forget it.

[arsenal2000]

(03-28-2018 11:46 PM)doc holliday Wrote:  

Anyone have any idea what the Indian girls in London are like? There must be a boatload of them there given London's demographics.

Do not want to generalize but most of them have a bitchy princess attitude.

[kaotic]

(03-29-2018 11:45 AM)arsenal2000 Wrote:  

(03-28-2018 11:46 PM)doc holliday Wrote:  

Anyone have any idea what the Indian girls in London are like? There must be a boatload of them there given London's demographics.

Do not want to generalize but most of them have a bitchy princess attitude.

That's princess jasmine syndrome - same as JAP's (Jewish American Princesses)


I haven't had time to respond to this thread, lot of good info, and glad to see this thread hasn't devolved.

[dknightbro]

I know guys tend to fear or avoid girls with bitchy attitudes, but I can say having been in the game for some time now that those girls are challenges & opportunities.

They will shit test you the hardest such that your game will improve as you game them more. And once they crack they will be all over you.

Be like an emotional armored tank and you can deal with the initial ice queen. Or you can go through brutal desensitization from scratch like I did and just accumulate blowouts until you get numb and actually get tired of getting the same reactions from them and start experimenting with witty comebacks.

I actually go after ice queens on purpose sometimes to test my game even though an apparently easier target may be in sight. This improves your game in the long run.

[jordypip23]

(03-29-2018 11:51 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

(03-29-2018 11:45 AM)arsenal2000 Wrote:  

(03-28-2018 11:46 PM)doc holliday Wrote:  

Anyone have any idea what the Indian girls in London are like? There must be a boatload of them there given London's demographics.

Do not want to generalize but most of them have a bitchy princess attitude.

That's princess jasmine syndrome - same as JAP's (Jewish American Princesses)


I haven't had time to respond to this thread, lot of good info, and glad to see this thread hasn't devolved.

LOL yeah it is a fairly common phenomenon. Especially girls that came from affluent Indian families where Daddy spoiled her. Maybe even got her a Mercedes Benz or BMW for her 16th birthday lol. Indians in this country have done very well economically. They are in a sense the new Jews. Look at how well represented Indians are in universities, the medical field & engineering. And now they are being promoted to high level positions including CEO roles. They are big in Wall Street as well. There are plenty of Indians with BIG money.

[doc holliday]

Most Indian women born in the west are really spoiled, just like JAPs. Total pain in the ass to date, high maintenance to the extreme and kind of sexually repressed. I can handle FOB Indian girls much better, they're not as screwed up by Western culture, at least when they haven't been here too long. I have a friend who's a surgeon, Indian guy from London, total baller, was dating this Indian girl a few years back and she was so high maintenance that even his lifestyle wasn't enough for her. She was such a greedy bitch (she was a dentist on top of it) and I wouldn't have lasted with her more than the two minutes that it would have taken me to bust a nut inside her. My friend was totally traumatized by her and I don't think he's dated another Indian chick since, just spoiled white bitches now.

dknightbro, sorry man but I can't stand bitchy, standoffish women. The amount of effort and headache involved in gaming those girls is not worth the mediocre payoff in the end that you typically get with those girls. I like hot chicks but she has to be pleasant with a more easy going personality. Personality matters bigly for me. Life's too short to deal with cunts and whatever incremental increase you get with your game will be more than offset by the annoyance and frustration of trying to get laid with that chick.

Women on the coasts generally suck for most men, not just Indians but yeah having lived on the East Coast many years ago, I can say that I don't find them at all interesting or feminine. I still did fine out there but those girls didn't do much for me. Then again, I am very picky in terms of who I give my attention to

[ynwa1892]

I don’t have any experience with Indian girls in the west. What I can say out of experience is, even the girls in India from middle upper class backgrounds are becoming westernized and most have that princess mentality. Still plenty of good ones, but even they show some traits. As I mentioned elsewhere, they are hard work. Definitely not without reward. Especially for me since Indian chicks are my ‘thing’.

[dknightbro]

(03-29-2018 03:53 PM)doc holliday Wrote:  

Most Indian women born in the west are really spoiled, just like JAPs. Total pain in the ass to date, high maintenance to the extreme and kind of sexually repressed. I can handle FOB Indian girls much better, they're not as screwed up by Western culture, at least when they haven't been here too long. I have a friend who's a surgeon, Indian guy from London, total baller, was dating this Indian girl a few years back and she was so high maintenance that even his lifestyle wasn't enough for her. She was such a greedy bitch (she was a dentist on top of it) and I wouldn't have lasted with her more than the two minutes that it would have taken me to bust a nut inside her. My friend was totally traumatized by her and I don't think he's dated another Indian chick since, just spoiled white bitches now.

dknightbro, sorry man but I can't stand bitchy, standoffish women. The amount of effort and headache involved in gaming those girls is not worth the mediocre payoff in the end that you typically get with those girls. I like hot chicks but she has to be pleasant with a more easy going personality. Personality matters bigly for me. Life's too short to deal with cunts and whatever incremental increase you get with your game will be more than offset by the annoyance and frustration of trying to get laid with that chick.

Women on the coasts generally suck for most men, not just Indians but yeah having lived on the East Coast many years ago, I can say that I don't find them at all interesting or feminine. I still did fine out there but those girls didn't do much for me. Then again, I am very picky in terms of who I give my attention to

I totally get you bro.

I focused on the ice queens for a period of time in my game really to just push my game limits. What I've found is it's often a surface armor that once you break down with good game, they become feminine (towards you) & look at you with the same puppy eyes as other girls do once you hook them.

It just bothered me prior to this period that somehow this demographic (ice queen group) was inaccessible to game. Didn't make sense, so I ploughed forward & now I understand much better how these girls operate.

I still think it's up to every player what kind of targets he goes after as we all have different tastes to begin with anyway. So I totally get it if some players don't see the need to address this demographic & are happy with their target group.

[Chengiz88]

(03-28-2018 11:46 PM)doc holliday Wrote:  

Anyone have any idea what the Indian girls in London are like? There must be a boatload of them there given London's demographics.

@Doc Indian girls in London tend to be educated, smart and with good careers. But forget that, they are seriously dick hungry. I had them messaging me to f**k them daily. Honestly i couldn't believe how easy it was. Get on Tinder, Badoo any dating app in London and you will plow indian chicks if thats your thing!!

[Ouroboros]

(03-22-2018 05:59 PM)Crash_Bandicoot Wrote:  

With all that being said, as long as you don't have any facial deformities and are decent height, I strongly believe that anyone can do decently well in a large American city as long as you hit the gym, style up, get your fundamental game down, break the stereotypes, and are aggressive

What height do you consider to be 'decent'?

[Cobra]

^I'm 5'8". I don't think I ever had a problem with height, and I'm a guy of the South Indian variety who is darker.

Most girls are shorter than that. I also don't see Indian guys (usually shorter than me) have issues if they take care of themselves. Unless they're IRTs, then all that matters is that they are IRTs.

I think we can more than afford to keep this height stereotype aside.

[Ouroboros]

(03-30-2018 06:14 AM)Cobra Wrote:  

^I'm 5'8". I don't think I ever had a problem with height, and I'm a guy of the South Indian variety who is darker.

Most girls are shorter than that. I also don't see Indian guys (usually shorter than me) have issues if they take care of themselves. Unless they're IRTs, then all that matters is that they are IRTs.

I think we can more than afford to keep this height stereotype aside.

I was just curious about hearing Crash's opinion. Definitely agree that lack of height can be overcome. The most successful short guys (of any race) I've seen seem to have 1 or more of the following characteristics: very extraverted personality, great physique, strong social circle, and/or musical ability (i.e. the same sort of factors that assist men in general). The only real disadvantage is that you can't rely on just your looks to pull, but that applies to at least 80% of men anyway...

[Jagnum]

Thanks all. NY and Chicago for Indian women, but with the caveats mentioned.

Was in Guyana a few years ago (not gaming). Had no idea it was 40% Indian. Not a place I'd go to game, seconding what Crash Bandicoot says about Suriname. (recently read Crash Bandicoot's Surniame Datasheet, similar country). But the nature in Guyana was awesome. 5 days of hiking in the deep jungle, near an offshoot of the Amazon river.

(03-29-2018 01:41 AM)Genghis Khan Wrote:  

My Trini chick definitely had the most chill vibe of any Indian girl I'd ever met (and I've met way too many). Hahah, the first time we met, I was really surprised. Here's why: my experience with Indian girls (on the East Coast, the ones that typically hang with their own crowd) is that they're very uptight and think too much of themselves.

Yes Trinidad has been on my radar for a while. Been a lot of places surrounding the Caribbean (Miami, Belize, Yucatan). Haven't been to any of the islands themselves. DR, Cuba, PR, Trinidad all on my list.

According to this thread, Trinidad is 40% Indian.

thread-6883....+bad+girls

"Racial Population: The country is about 40 percent Indian and 40 Mixed Race/Black and 5 percent white, 5 percent chinese, 5 percent colombian/venezuelan, 5 percent lebenese/syrian."

Wow, I'll like 95% of the girls there!

[Arado]

Since we're talking about travel, outside Europe/Australia/U.S., the average male height is lower, so there is far less of a need to be 6' to pull quality.

Though I would say Scandinavia and Eastern Europe (except Russia and Ukraine which are a bit more xenophobic) were one of the few places where Indian guys had an advantage over white guys (not sure now post migrant crisis).

[Crash_Bandicoot]

(03-30-2018 09:13 AM)Jagnum Wrote:  

Thanks all. NY and Chicago for Indian women, but with the caveats mentioned.

Was in Guyana a few years ago (not gaming). Had no idea it was 40% Indian. Not a place I'd go to game, seconding what Crash Bandicoot says about Suriname. (recently read Crash Bandicoot's Surniame Datasheet, similar country). But the nature in Guyana was awesome. 5 days of hiking in the deep jungle, near an offshoot of the Amazon river.

(03-29-2018 01:41 AM)Genghis Khan Wrote:  

My Trini chick definitely had the most chill vibe of any Indian girl I'd ever met (and I've met way too many). Hahah, the first time we met, I was really surprised. Here's why: my experience with Indian girls (on the East Coast, the ones that typically hang with their own crowd) is that they're very uptight and think too much of themselves.

Yes Trinidad has been on my radar for a while. Been a lot of places surrounding the Caribbean (Miami, Belize, Yucatan). Haven't been to any of the islands themselves. DR, Cuba, PR, Trinidad all on my list.

According to this thread, Trinidad is 40% Indian.

thread-6883....+bad+girls

"Racial Population: The country is about 40 percent Indian and 40 Mixed Race/Black and 5 percent white, 5 percent chinese, 5 percent colombian/venezuelan, 5 percent lebenese/syrian."

Wow, I'll like 95% of the girls there!

Jagnum, I also wrote a Trinidad datasheet a few weeks back - thread-3437-...0734.html. Datasheet is in the bottom half of the thread in there.

My thoughts on Indians in Trinidad: They were very conservative and not into the ONS culture. Didn't really see that many of them (if any at all) venturing out drinking beers, on the beach, nightlife, and the sexual vibe just wasn't there. Trinis in the USA seem to be more chilled out and DTF

Looks like this thread is heading in the direction of gaming Indian women (I'm much more of a fan of white and Latina girls) rather than Indian guy game on women, but I'm going to share my experiences all around the world as an Indian man gaming non-Indian women:

USA (East Coast - NYC & Boston - my home. 25+ years of living here) - I talked about how I was killing the minority game here. Easy. White girl game is difficult for me, as I mentioned earlier on in this thread, but after spending a shit ton of time gaming them, I've basically come to learn that playing ultra fuckboy, douchebag, masculine, grounded, white-washed, "I don't give a fuck", let's just have fun and be sexual, kind game works on them better than any other strategy I've tried (it hasn't gotten me a great success rate, but looking back at the girls who I have banged, it's been playing that kind of game that's gotten me something). Indian dudes have the beta stereotype going for them here in the US so we generally need to step up our game and play this up a few more steps than other races. Exception may apply, but my general thought here in NYC.

It makes sense though: Think about it - women create attraction circuits on who they view as attractive based throughout their childhood experiences and what is familiar to them. Growing up in an all white school in Suburban USA, the cool guys were the
douchey Lacrosse/football players, all the professional sports stars (NBA, NFL, etc) seem to be douchey/arrogant & hypermasculine, and the rap music that infiltrates American culture is a bunch of cunts talking about fucking and robbing. While this may hold a little true on other Western countries, it's exponentially and way more emphasized here in the US. I've noticed that in other Western countries, such as Western Europe, Canada, etc., there is an aspect of this to some extent, but in no way as close to what it is in the US. We love the bad boys, sports, rap, etc more than anything - this is what white women subconsciously find exciting - not the providership, loyalty, intelligence seeking traits that our Indian parents taught us. This isn't Bollywood where the men woo their women running through fields of roses.

Anyways, here's my breakdown of other countries:

Ukraine - Turkish dudes are flooding Ukraine and they are known to be sex tourists. And they're everywhere - packed in the clubs, bars, restaurants, brothels...literally in every corner. These motherfuckers are thirsty for pussy and and overly aggressive. Bad rep. Ukrainian women hate them because of the way they act and because they are all sex tourists. I look Middle Eastern (light skinned north Indian) so I was bunched in as Turkish and did terrible in Ukraine. Went to Kiev and the other large main cities

Copenhagen (Denmark) & Amsterdam (Netherlands) - I've noticed that there are Indians in many low-level positions (i.e. working at 7-11, behind counters). Also, many Middle Eastern and Syrian migrants are showing up in these countries and causing crimes. The Middle Eastern neighborhoods also aren't the safest. Overall, I would say that I didn't do so well in Western Europe, albeit my experiences were only from a few very short trips in the main large cities so I could be wrong.

Mumbai (India) as an American Indian - For some reason, everyone could tell I was American just by looking at me. Didn't game here but I could see potential here. Mumbai is a huge city and I'm sure there are some closet sluts lurking around

- Crash

[SLSlayer]

Crash, how do use normally dress when you go out to bars and clubs in the US?