Quote: (04-01-2018 09:33 AM)Arado Wrote:
It looks like I'm clearly out of sync with others on this thread. I don't think I'm race-insecure - most of my notches come from demonstrating value, whether in terms of looks, personality, or social status, independent of race. However, there have been many times where girls WERE into me because of my race and where girls WEREN'T into me because of it. It goes both ways, and that's how the game goes. Is it really such a bad thing to try and find ways to short circuit the lizard brain for the girls who ordinarily wouldn't consider dating an Indian guys but change their mind? If you think it's a waste of time and effort, that's fine and I'm happy to move on to other topics.
Quote: (03-31-2018 11:44 AM)doc holliday Wrote:
Best thing Indian guys can do is to stop being preoccupied with their race, it's a total waste of time. Women reject men for a whole host of reasons but Indian guys always seem to want to blame it on their being Indian and carry around this weird complex. Just dumping that mindset will make your numbers and opportunities jump, no matter if your in Siberia and you're the only brown guy within the nearest 2000 miles.
Well...I'd argue that being the only brown guy in Siberia within 2000 miles will actually give someone an advantage because he wouldn't have any competition for the 5% of girls there open to dating brown guys...but anyway if you are saying "Don't ever take into account your race when picking a travel destination or deciding how to approach a girl who may not be into Indian guys," then I don't quite understand why we have this thread in the first place. It's unhealthy to be obsessed with race, but is it really so bad to think "this girl may not be into me on the first impression, but by approaching her in x manner then she'll be more open minded."
Arado, with all due respect, I'm not sure what you're looking for out of this thread. I re-read the thread including the OP and there are plenty of suggestions about parts of the world and areas of North America where Indian guys can go to game. Sure, a lot of the advice has been to fix oneself in all of the aspects mentioned and while it may seem redundant, it's what most guys including Indian guys need to focus on and I don't think it can be emphasized enough to be honest. From your anecdotes, it sounds like your doing ok but you're not satisfied because white guys have an easier time of it in places like SE Asia and Russia/Ukraine and you want to experience the same.
This may sound a bit sarcastic and i apologize for that, not trying to be that way but it seems like you want a data sheet of magical places that Indians can go to where all you have to do is step off the plane, whip it out and have 5 chicks lined up, ready to have a go with you. Sort of the way white guys view the Phils and Thailand. Maybe such a place exists, I don't know, maybe Cobra or GK know of this place and want to keep this Shangri La to themselves
In the real world, from my reading of this thread and based on my life experiences I would summarize like this:
North America:
East coast:
New England, Mid Atlantic etc- girls are a reserved and provincial making them a little harder nuts to crack but if you can crack them, they could make loyal girlfriends. Many of them are plain, vanilla and don't really have great style. Indians can do fine here, especially if you grew up in, say, New Jersey and get the east coast culture but will need to work at it. These girls really aren't my type, far too uptight for me.
NYC; I don't have much personal experience here but supposedly the closest thing to pussy paradise in terms of loose sluts, party girls living their "Sex in the City" dreams. Can't see Indian guys having too many issues here. Again, as long as your style, fitness, inner game, social skills etc are on point, should be like the Sunday brunch buffet at Veeraswamy's (there's that redundant theme again). I don't much like career girl sluts with liberal politics so I avoid this place. That's just me though.
South: Has a reputation for being the racist South but Southern girls are awesome, I love them. Love the accent, Southern culture in general and that hint of wildness that these girls have lurking beneath the surface just waiting to burst out on to some dark dick. Now if you're an uptight Indian from New Jersey you'll likely struggle because your east coast prejudices will prevent you from relating to these girls. Charleston, Nashville, Atlanta, Dallas, Savannah etc all fun places to go and find that blonde Southern belle.
Midwest: Girls are down to earth, friendly enough, easy to talk to. Many tend to be a bit overweight and could be considered to be a bit basic. Being familiar with things like the Big Ten, the Chicago Cubs, the Green Bay Packers and some basic bro culture will help here (I'd say being familiar with bro culture any where in NA will be of help). Not bad girls to date and they are friendly and will respond more positively to being opened than East coast chickies.
Miami: I'm not familiar with the rest of FL but this place is special to me. Some of the hottest Latino babes on the planet live here but beware, for these girls your game needs to be tip top. You can whine all you want about it but if you don't look good with style and fitness, game with fearless confidence and at least pretend you have some money then good luck to you. You can always game tourist chicks in South Beach and many of them are up for a good time with hot guys. Indian guys can do just fine here but you need to bring your A+ game, your party vibe and leave your complexes at home.
South West, Arizona etc- very underrated part of the US, chicks are friendly like the Midwest but are in better shape physically thanks to all the mountains, nature conducive for outdoors activity and warm weather putting pressure on chicks to look good there. Seems to me the races mix best in this part of the US since everyone is an expat from somewhere else. Not a ton of Indians living here but enough that you won't feel out of place. Had lots of fun here over the years both in Phoenix and Vegas with girls being very receptive to me. Recommended for cool Indian guys.
West Coast: I hate fake ass So Cal bitches and girls in Portland, SF and Seattle look scary SJW to me so I could care less if any of these broads are into Indians, the only thing that matters is that I ain't into them. For those of you who are though, I think Krimson said that Indians can do well here. Kaotic is the guy to talk to about So Cal, he's like a vacuum cleaner there.
Canada: Not a big fan of Canadian girls but there are so many Indians living in Canada that Indians do well up there, I've done my fair share up there over the years having grown up there. Toronto girls who are hard for everyone and French Canadian girls who generally stick to French Canadian guys will be challenges for sure. Speaking French will definitely help in Quebec. Luck would be in order in Toronto. Smaller cities, pretty easy for Indian guys.
As to the rest of the world, I would say
Latin America would be a gold mine for Indian guys. If I was looking to snatch a chick up from a different part of the world, this is the place I would go, hands down. Plenty of the guys on this thread have stated that its a good place and based on my experiences with South and Central American girls in NA, I'd say that's spot on.
Western European girls usually love dark dick but nowadays with the Muzzies fucking that place up, I'm guessing Western Europe would be a tougher place to game for Indians. I'm not wasting time trying to convince Helga that I'm not Muslim.
England/Ireland: Probably just need to get these girls drunk at the pub and its game on. Quality of these girls is all over the place though but again, like Canada, there are a ton of Indians in England and Indian guys from England seem to be way less uptight then their New Jersey/San Francisco counterparts so I'm guessing those guys are getting pussy galore. My ex wife is from Ireland for the record.
Poland: I would think yes based on the various Polish girls I've dated over the years but I have mixed feelings about Polish girls.
SE Asia, based on yours and other's experiences Arado, I'd say tough place for easy Hindu game here. I guess you could go for some of the white expat chicks who are sitting at home with their vibrators since they ain't getting any from the locals in that part of the world.
Russia, same thing, doable but based on your experiences, I'd say it would require a lot of work, some luck as well. Whatever, Russian girls are smoking hot but the ones I've encountered in the US all have that gold diggerish, show me the good life, mercenary vibe which does nothing for me other than perking up my BS meter.
So for me, I would say the Midwest, South and Southwest in the US, Latin America anywhere, Poland and maybe Western Europe would be hot spots for Indian men. Black girls anywhere are great for Indian men and should not be dismissed just because they're not white girls. However this is just my view of the world, it could be totally different for you and everyone else here. Again though, the idea that you would take your race into account when wondering whether to approach or not or travel somewhere is pointless. If you see a chick you're attracted to, how do you know what her prejudices are before you talk to her? As for travel, as long as it's not dangerous to go somewhere as an Indian, why would you not go somewhere you want to go to? All of this is nothing but overthinking and will act as the ultimate cockblock. Other than what's already been talked about, getting really familiar with the culture of the areas you want to pull from is critical and not talked about enough.