Quote: (12-19-2016 07:39 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:
Yo Kai,
I have some questions about Chinese women in Houston man. These broads that I encountered a year ago are more delusional than wonder bread girls, mostly off match.com
They're 36-42 and 100% FOB, they want a rich man to be their provider. One wrote this "He didn't allow me to donate money to charity or church either." and another wanted a man who would "pay for my child's preschool and live in a area with good schools".
If Chinese men won't date them and they know rich folks go after young women, why would they think someone would oblique their requirements? They are rather plain looking and dress too conservatively to be making those demands. Why is their hamster in overdrive? What's going on in their minds? Someone has to be a moron to pay 8K a year for someone else's kid just to be with a lady. I told the charity lady that I was okay with donating her own money to charity, then she claim that I insulted and offended her...didn't really care.
It's only Chinese older women, not asians in general and no black/hisp/white girls.
Quote: (12-19-2016 07:58 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:
I'm guessing it is because they are FOB's that they heard from the Huffington Post that white men all have yellow fever, never bothering to question it. As if all white men find all Asian women attractive, or any Asian women attractive for that matter. The average Chinese FOB that I've met is often very sheltered and provincial. China's state-controlled media means they have stunted intellectual development, which can manifest itself in some very odd social behaviors and delusions. Where duh rich white boys at?!?!?!
Think about it. Your average Southern American woman is as big as a God damned house. They come here and the first thing they notice and ask about is why are all the women here so fucking huge. It blows them away. My motherinlaw still isn't used to seeing 250-300lb women and says "Wow!" in Chinese everytime she sees one and she has been with us almost a year on and off.
They don't get their intel from Huffington Post. Weibo and other Chinese BBS hangouts are full of scheming greencard hunters, recent arrivals with or without money, women that married a non-Chinese, and all education levels too. They all just gossip with each other. If they aren't trying to do a large group buy on some food or something from Costco, they are talking about social stuff.
Those plain 5s are often times the more racist and ignorant ones. They want a white dude in his 30s or 40s that is a sucker and relatively easy to deal with. This is why I tell you guys constantly, that FOBs are not a solution or ideal. Many are just timebombs. Once they become "aware", the bonding process will be interrupted or impossible, and you will be used. All women use and depend on men, but I am talking about exploitation here.
That same 5 inside the mainland would be eating out of your hand and smitten with you. Loyal to a fault. You meet that same 5 here? She will just be another regular bitch. Anyone that has spent serious time in China and is from here, knows this without needing to be told. The differences are daylight and dark. Chinese Americans require their own strategies and very, very little carries over from the Mainland.
The reason why is because once they come here and see decent men walking around with warpigs, it re-wires them. Married ones before arriving, don't really give a shit, unless their man is an abusive piece of shit. Single ones see more opportunity to take a massive shortcut compared to back home in China. They are just adapting to the environment without taking into account culture, language, and other barriers.
Jokes on them though. White dudes aren't all that hopped up on Asians to begin with. Alot of what determines what a typical white dude marries has ALOT to do with his own family/business circles will feel about that. Many prefer someone that speaks and understands
Texan culture, not just American culture. Any non-white person that has dated white women in Texas, knows exactly what I am talking about. Your pool of pullable white women is more limited in ways, than it would be in other states.
I am not saying no one can get white girls, I am saying that you cannot expect to have a legit shot at every single one you see walking around that is hot because some of those women would not date a non white dude if they were the last man on earth. German White Texans are different than the Scots-Irish and Czech ones. Telling the differences isn't easy either unless you probably grew up here and even then, it's hard. Even knowing what they might be may not make a fucking difference.
Your money, game, and social proof may not ever be enough. Same shit applies to FOBs here. It is what it is.
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