Years in Germany - From the perspective of a black guy
11-20-2016, 12:01 PM
Quote: (11-20-2016 10:31 AM)Fortis Wrote:
Damn, sometimes the experiential dichotomy is fascinating. On the one hand, you have guys saying Germany is this great, open-minded paradise for black men and on the other hand, you got dudes saying bouncers are vetting you like it's 1950's America. Not here to judge it, just pointing it out. I'm gonna show up some day, but good to know what to expect.
Thanks for the datasheet.
The discrepancies come from the choice of nightclub people are choosing:
Black Club or Black/Hip Hop Night at a specific club = They expect blacks to show up and its easier to get in.
Alternative Clubs/bars= Easier to get in or almost guaranteed entry.
So if you stick to these places you have NO PROBLEMS. You could hypothetically "stay in your lane" and live in peace. You could look for whatever gems these places produce and happily get notches.... If you are ambitious and want higher end girls this won't cut it for you.
If you want to get into mainstream and high end nightclubs in the city is where the 1950s era will start. Its tight for everyone but especially for us. Youll find 2 or 3 brothers in the club and thats all it seems the quota will allow for. MAYBE 1 black girl.
I dont want to sound like im bragging but I didn't move across half the world to be with mediocre looking girls (could have stayed in the US).
Quote: (11-20-2016 10:44 AM)Brosemite Wrote:
Quote: (11-20-2016 10:31 AM)Fortis Wrote:
Damn, sometimes the experiential dichotomy is fascinating. On the one hand, you have guys saying Germany is this great, open-minded paradise for black men and on the other hand, you got dudes saying bouncers are vetting you like it's 1950's America. Not here to judge it, just pointing it out. I'm gonna show up some day, but good to know what to expect.
Thanks for the datasheet.
From what I gather on Germany from testimonies of my peers that have been there:
1) White girls are open-minded about dating outside their race. Can be an underrated gold mind in that sense.
2) However, certain upscale nightlife venues can be selective as even many well to do white guys can be turned away at those venues as knowing the right people pays huge dividends. Race is also taken into consideration of "face control" in this process as well.
In that sense, this would exactly resemble the experience I had when visiting a Russian city few years back.
If your game (looks included) is tight it CAN be done. Ive been wanting to post some pics of the girls who I know are into black guys ive found in country.
Quote: (11-20-2016 11:08 AM)coverdoc Wrote:
I appreciate the sharing of the experiences, but @Lino you need to realize that just because people say they would react differently doesn't mean they are downplaying the experiences of others.
Kirdiesel and I have spoken about this a few times, we agree to disagree on the matter.
I for one will never ever in my life beg/subject myself to subtle belitteling to be let into any fucking night club, where I have to spend more money on drinks and try to pull some chick. Too many people forget that at the end of the day you are a paying customer as well. If some clown says to me "You can come in, but no trouble." I will ask him to repeat it, then kindly take my ID back and leave. No complaining, no running to social media and no civil suits. Fuck it. It's not a race thing, it's a "my" pride as a man thing. If you as an individual decide to stay there, good on you. That's "your" way of doing things. Not a bad or a good thing, just your thing. Same way some of my friends say I'm crazy for leaving a date if a chick uses her phone more than 2x infront of me after I asked her not to. It's "my" pride thing.
-CD
Yeah we had a long talk about this one haha.
In the beginning I had lots of problems getting into spots here and I was really demotivated and frustrated. I couldn't even believe that today is kind of shit is still going on world. This is unheard of in NYC and even if they try and pull some shit like that the club would be promptly closed down.
I went home and planned an angle of attack and within a few months I got to know people in the scene (everyone goes to generally the same places) and cracked one club after another.
Now guess what? I can go in the best places completely out of dress code, wearing snapback hats, not paying entry fees, getting reduced bottle service, and sometimes skipping the line when the club is super full..... This has all led eventually to dates and bangs that i would not have otherwise had if i had given up due to having too much "pride". Like I said before...
I moved half way around the world for success and I wasn't going to let any of these motherfuckers stand in my way. I knew if I could just get inside I could get to work and start pulling. I was determined to crack the code and for the most part in this city I have.
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