Quote: (03-13-2017 12:36 AM)StackGsMan Wrote:
Quote: (03-13-2017 12:07 AM)Naughty By Nature Wrote:
Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to LA:
Keep in mind, I drove to her neck of the woods for our first date. Whatever happened to gender equality?
I understand the whole being an alpha male and making women buy into your frame and all that, but this girl actually seems like she is throwing the pussy on your lap in a certain sense. She is telling you exactly what gets her going and what does not. You can't blame her for being turned off, it's out of her control. On top of that, you can't blame a girl for being turned off from the idea of driving all the way to the shitty valley just to go to a coffee bean. It sounds like a truly boring second date idea.
You seem like you keep trying to mold the world to fit what you want instead of adapting to people. I would love to be in contact with girls that communicate the way this girl did with you, because she is handing her desires to you on a silver platter.
But what do I know. You should keep inviting girls out to the valley to have coffee with you, or perhaps a nice tea if you both are feeling wild.
What else would I do for a date, lol? I invited her to Fryman Canyon Park and she said no. Then I invited her over to cook a meal and she said no to that.
I've lived all over America and none of the women had this level of entitlement. In NYC and Chicago, they'd be grateful to chill at the park in your neck of the woods, with ZERO dollars spent.
Here, they accept nothing less than a dinner where they live (or best case scenario, they'll meet halfway). It's truly disgusting and it's something unique to LA. I've been out with something like 50 different girls between NYC (+ CT) and Chicago and didn't see this kind of garbage once.
This would've been our second date. I ALREADY went to her part of LA last time. She ended up flaking btw, lol.
LOL at "newbies mistake" and the notion of Studio City (Studio City really sucks btw! Just ask George Clooney!) "scaring the cat", as if it's Van Nuys or Compton. What an obnoxious and absurd thing to say.
Rule #1 of scheduling dates: you set them up right near where you live. That's exactly what I did. Apparently that makes RSDJulien a "newbie."
She lives 7 miles from me, hardly a far drive.
Pretty shocked that you're defending this girl. Have you gone full feminist?