[pancakemouse]

(10-09-2016 11:54 PM)wi30 Wrote:  

Anyone worried about an opener has serious issues with their profile and pictures.

My opener is "hey, what's up" 90% of the time.

There is no magic opener, say whatever you want. If girls leave bait in their description, obviously go for it. But the opener isn't getting anyone laid.

I've been using a "what's up" opener on tinder almost exclusively. Anyone fretting about openers is full of shit.

" Anyone fretting about openers is full of shit."

- the calling card of attractive men on Tinder.

[wi30]

I wouldn't consider myself highly attractive by any means. Ask anyone on here who has met me. I'm in pretty good shape and wear clothes that fit nicely, but I by no means have model looks.

My post was more ripping on newbies who spend hours trying to think of the "perfect" opener that's going to magically get dime pieces sucking them off that night. It's a numbers game and it's simply not going to happen regardless of opener.

Do I get a lower response rate by not using a better opener? Probably, but the girls that do respond are much more receptive from the start. I have decent text game so as long as they respond with anything, it makes it easy to get their number and get them out on a date.

I have pictures of me doing cool things like hiking the grand canyon, playing with my dog, standing on a cliff, etc. My profile pretty much just says I'm new in town, looking for a fun girl who likes going on adventures, and that I hate cats and love dogs. I've had girls reject be because I hate cats, and have had girls I banged tell me they responded to my first message because I hate cats. Most girls with cats are crazy, liberal, and feminists. It's easy to weed them out with that part of my profile.

If they have a dog in one of their pictures I'll open with, "cool dog, what breed?" or something along those lines. Then I talk about my dog for a few messages.

Most guys place too much importance on the opener. It's like considering the kickoff to be the most important play of a football game.

[Felix88]

I don't think western game style would work on conservative culture like vietnam , especially where i live but we'll see.

[XPQ22]

(10-10-2016 12:04 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

I've had at least half a dozen newbies message me asking what the opener is. As recently as this past week.

It's like Monty Python's "The Funniest Joke in the World", except it's the legendary magic words that get you laid 100% of the time.

The problem is that nobody can actually be told via PM what the opener is, because then you've opened them with it, and they immediately turn gay.

[General Stalin]

I got another one today. I don't answer them. It's not my idea to be spreading around. If people still want to know what it is then message SFG. If he doesn't answer then tough.

[crispytaco]

I got more replies when I stopped using the "Hello" opener.

One time I got 5 messages from girls , 4 of them saying "Hi", the other one saying something about inviting me to a Woodstook type concert. That one was the first I replied, and ended months later spending nights with her.

So an opener is not what is going to get you laid, but it won't hurt if you have good one. If you don't want to use the "Hi", use a funny pickup line.

Try not to reply the expected. They will ask you "How are you?", just don't say "Fine", try something better, for example "I'm good, but I'll be better if we go out"

[Mark Fletcher]

Bumping this thread.

Somefcksgiven you ended my dry streak tonight. I used your opener and five hours later got my first bang off tinder. Best opener I've ever used

[jameslee]

Hey Guys,
Could anyone please PM me the opener.
Thanks

[PapayaTapper]

(10-11-2016 12:57 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  

I got another one today. I don't answer them. It's not my idea to be spreading around. If people still want to know what it is then message SFG. If he doesn't answer then tough.

^This

Especially new members that have contributed nothing, This is RVF...not a welfare state.

[jameslee]

Hi PapayaTapper,
I'm new here but I'm willing to contribute. Have a look at your PM, I have sent another one that I have come up with.

(07-04-2018 12:00 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(10-11-2016 12:57 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  

I got another one today. I don't answer them. It's not my idea to be spreading around. If people still want to know what it is then message SFG. If he doesn't answer then tough.

^This

Especially new members that have contributed nothing, This is RVF...not a welfare state.

[Comte De St. Germain]

Don't send us PM just post, contribute, and then people will help. Just because you send us a PM doesn't mean we have an obligation to answer.

[Catch 22]

The original poster hasn't logged on since 2018. Anyone up for PMing me the opener? I don't go very provocative with online openers but probably should

[Lovemountain]

Im curious about this stuff

[DimeBait]

Fuck all the secrecy. I’m going to share some of my online content. It’s systematic and I literally copy n paste that shit.

After a match. . .

Me: Hey Pretty Lady (waving emoji)

Random open-ended questions In no particular order:
What’s been the highlight of your week?
Her: blah blah, work etc
What do you love about what you do?
Her: blah blah

What part of town are you in?
Her: somewhere near by
We should grab coffee sometime soon
Her: sounds good
My digits, followed by salutations of my first name and last initial.
They inevitably google my number and find my webpage, bio etc.
Coffee/brunch, bang!

This shit is not rocket science.

[droughtmeat]

(07-13-2018 02:40 PM)Catch 22 Wrote:  

The original poster hasn't logged on since 2018. Anyone up for PMing me the opener? I don't go very provocative with online openers but probably should

I have the same issue. Is anyone around, who could share the opener?

[Player_1337]

(08-19-2018 04:19 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  

Fuck all the secrecy. I’m going to share some of my online content. It’s systematic and I literally copy n paste that shit.

After a match. . .

Me: Hey Pretty Lady (waving emoji)

Random open-ended questions In no particular order:
What’s been the highlight of your week?
Her: blah blah, work etc
What do you love about what you do?
Her: blah blah

What part of town are you in?
Her: somewhere near by
We should grab coffee sometime soon
Her: sounds good
My digits, followed by salutations of my first name and last initial.
They inevitably google my number and find my webpage, bio etc.
Coffee/brunch, bang!

This shit is not rocket science.

What's your close % and what quality are these targets? Do you find it easier to bounce them back to your place during the day/weekend?

[eagerbeaver1983]

Hello,

I have been a silent reader of this forum.

I am acquainted to game since 8 months ago and scored something like 20 people and collected some interesting flags mainly through couch surfing, cold approaches etc. It has improved me on many different levels, I have got two promotions at work (very big corporation with 25000+ employee) and I attribute it all to the skills I picked up in the process... (I didn't bang the CEO, yet ?).

It takes lots of time though and I am going to rely on tinder for a while. So far my results have not been good .. I get good matches but opening does not work or they lose interest at some points... Something that works on one backfires on the other.

So I would be deeply grateful if one of the gentlemen can share this opener with me. I am very curious to know it and use it.

Thank you very much in advance and bon bang-a-tit