Just for fun and my own intellectual curiosity, I'm going to continue to participate in this thread..
Quote: (12-04-2015 02:42 PM)Centurion Wrote:
Parents
bad relationship with them
Of course! A dysfunctional childhood often leads to a dysfunctional adulthood.
Bad parenting is likely the root cause of your mental problems.
Address these childhood issues. These issues are more important than your game.
These issues are the foundation that your game is built upon.
Get more help! Get professional help! Family therapist, support groups, doctor, etc. Get help
Quote: (12-04-2015 02:42 PM)Centurion Wrote:
Don't really have friends
This a major issue!
WE ALL NEED A SUPPORT SYSTEM!
Be more aggressive to find like minded people. Depression support groups, hobby based activity groups, etc.
Quote: (12-04-2015 02:42 PM)Centurion Wrote:
Never had sex.
That's why I've been relying on PUA so heavily.
For a depressed, virgin.. PUA is not an efficient or effective way to get sex!
A depressed, virgin, is not prepared to deal with the rejection, emotional roller coaster, flaking, numbers game, texting, etc., of PUA!
You need a better strategy to get sex..
Find a legal, healthy, sex worker who is willing to help a young man like yourself. Have sex with multiple sex workers. Talk to them about your issues. You need the experience and the fun!
This is a much more effective and efficient way to get sex
I think it would be a good investment, an investment in yourself!
PUA will still be here when you're in a more stable mental state.
Quote: (12-04-2015 02:42 PM)Centurion Wrote:
Never had a girlfriend
If you want a girlfriend, you must become a desirable man. A man who young women would like to spend time with. A man who has something to offer.
A depressed man is not desirable because of his negative vibe and negative worldview.
If you want a girlfriend, you must focus on self improvement.
PUA is not necessarily self improvement.
Again, PUA is not always the best strategy.
You need professional help!
Quote: (12-04-2015 02:46 PM)Centurion Wrote:
I'd been mocked throughout high school for not showering/washing clothes
Wait?!?!?
You didn't shower or wash your clothes in high school???
Why not?
Quote: (12-04-2015 02:46 PM)Centurion Wrote:
Hopefully I don't kill myself.
It depends..
If you fix your depression and lead a fruitful life, than, yeah, I hope you don't kill yourself!
But..
If your depression turns into madness and you decide to hurt other people (mass hooting, murder etc.) Well, in that case suicide is more honorable than homicide.
My brother killed himself and while I wish he hadn't, I am thankful that he didn't take any innocent people with him.
Quote: (12-07-2015 12:41 PM)Phoenix Wrote:
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In my opinion, this is the best post in the thread!
A life without fun is depressing!
The OP clearly needs to have more fun!
I think there is a serious lack of fun and play in the modern, western world. Having fun is almost stigmatized as being "non-productive", "childish", etc.
For me, having fun is an important part of my mental health strategy. If I'm not having fun, I get anxious and angry.
The only reason I am NOT a depressed, drug addict is because I dedicated my life to having fun!
Having fun saves lives!
If you live a life filled with fun, passion, and excitement -- It's hard to be depressed!
"Most men lead lives of quiet desperation" - Henry Thoureau
I think about that quote almost everyday. Then, I go out and enjoy life. I refuse to live in quiet desperation!