Quote: (04-07-2015 10:50 PM)Roardog Wrote:
Quote: (04-07-2015 07:06 PM)swuglyfe Wrote:
Rolled out my new photos en masse over the weekend. Instant uptick in Tinder matches and the first time in history a girl proactively messaged me on OKC.
Great work. Care to share some stat's on before and after your photo upgrade?
How much did it cost you to have the photo's done? Was it hard to find a good photographer?
Yeah. Keep in mind this is all extremely relative; I am Asian after all and online dating frankly sucks ass for us. I've gone from one match on Tinder in the past month to about two a day; bear in mind this is all in the post-Tinder Plus apocalypse.
As for OKC, I actually was in a holding pattern on that for quite a while because I just couldn't make it work. Revamped profile and pictures and I had a chick
reopen me today after a month. She responded to my initial question that I had long since deleted and introduced herself. I've gotten immediate responses from two more girls today alone from a basic survey opener, one is an ongoing convo.
So, with the results detailed, what exactly did I do?
First, I did not go the BlurredSevens method, not by choice, but by necessity. I'm still in college and have no bankroll to speak of. (probably reverse bankroll b/c of tuition, etc.) So I had to use stuff like the squinch video and other online videos to teach myself the basics of good portrait photography. I also studied extensively stuff like Time's lightbox and how Time Magazine poses their subjects; that's the editorial angle that Sevens was talking about.
I borrowed a DSLR and tripod from my college library for free. Better yet, if you can, get a remote control for the camera. This will allow you to do it all yourself. Once again, ideal? Hell no. So why didn't I ask a friend? I had in mind an entire day and several locations scattered across the city, from bars to building rooftops and balconies to the nearby national park. I myself went to all of those and gave it my best shot. Apparently it worked. When I have a good cash flow going I will upgrade again, but for right now, I am quite pleased with where I am at.
I'm not going to post the photos of myself, but here are some ideas of where I was before and after.
Before:
Picture of me smiling at the camera holding a soccer scarf wearing a soccer jersey at a game.
After:
This picture actually does a pretty good job of describing the new shot. Except I'm in a full suit, matching tie and pocket square, and I'm leaning on a balcony railing overlooking the city skyline. Squinch and the slightest of smirks.
Before:
Me looking directly at the camera in a stereotypical and now cringe-inducing picture at the Great Wall.
After:
Me leaning with my back up against a tree, taken just after noon so the sun is casting a light but mysterious shadow on 1/3rd of my face. I'm wearing a gray blazer, jeans, and desert boots. There's a log in front of me, so I have one foot propped on it, the hand on that side resting on that thigh, other hand with thumb hooked in pocket. Looking away from camera, squinch.
One thing I regret about this shot is that I took it still too far away. Facebook down-resolutions photos something fierce.
My third picture I'm content with. I replaced a more distant action shot of me in mid-air blocking a shot in a soccer goal with a close up of me about to throw a soccer ball. As always, looking away, squinch.
My final goal is to replace my final picture which is a stereotypical EDM concert selfie that's pretty shit quality with one of me behind a bar mixing a drink.
These will serve as my four Tinder/online dating pics. As Sevens talks about, they all need to tell a story. I'm conveying the story that I am refined, know my way around cool parts of the city, enjoy the outdoors, like sports, and can mix drinks, all without saying any of that. This leaves my bio open for a series of short, sweet, and sarcastic phrases.
Hope this helps.