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Got AMOG'd last night - How should I have handled?
09-21-2016, 11:53 PM
One of the most embarrassing memories i have is a similar situation where i was with a girl i had just met in the club and it was a very sterile vibe between us but i was ploughing through. A guy comes in, says something, then tries to physically impose himself between us. I elbow push him away and throw a half assed punch before everyones breaks it up.
Then the girl acts all shocked and disgusted and steps away from me and is later complaining to other guys that were near us about how supposedly drunk i was.
I cringe so bad at this when i remember it. If the frame wasnt right from the beginning, getting violent with another man wont fix it.
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Got AMOG'd last night - How should I have handled?
09-22-2016, 01:58 AM
I wouldn't escalate to a physical confrontation over a random broad, that's just irresponsible and looks needy.
As for your "friend" just let it go bro, you're not trying to fuck her so why are you trippin? I would hate for a friendzone'd girl to try and cockblock me.
AMOG tips in general, what I would have done is put my arm around her or physically wedge myself between, or try to mock his approach.
But there are bros who are just too drunk/autistic/thristy enough to not get the memo.
At that point, I would label him as "creepy" to the girl and signal to move with my eyes to the other side of the dance floor.
If that guy still follows and persists by then something is really wrong with the dude, proceed with caution.
If at any point the AMOG wants to square up with you, keep your guard up, let him vie for your attention but don't give him an inch and start arguing with him... Allow him to keep qualifying to you, people outside notice the chimpout and he'll start feeling like he's talking to a wall. It's a win-win. But don't stick around for too long coz it could get physical, you need to signal the girl with your eyes to bounce, and just walk away without saying a word.
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Got AMOG'd last night - How should I have handled?
09-22-2016, 08:48 PM
Quote: (09-21-2016 12:26 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:
Nobody is entitled to anything. Even if it's just being left the fuck alone. This is part of being unplugged. Assuming people will just follow the rules and social norms is erroneous thinking. Always be prepared to take matters into your own hands.
Of all "red pill truths", this is probably the harshest, yet most significant one. I'll admit I have a hard time with this as often I just want to be left the fuck alone. Think about bullies, they typically pick on the quietest person, the one that's least deserving of being bullied from any sort of morality standpoint.
Civilize the mind but make savage the body.
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Got AMOG'd last night - How should I have handled?
09-28-2017, 06:24 AM
The OP has had a lot of great advice given out to him by high rep members on this thread and could not even be bothered to come back even to say thanks or expand on the original scenario or on how he had applied this valuable advice to improve his game.
So why even start a thread on RVF when the question he asked about the scenario clearly means so little to him??
"Laser"!!! "Loser" more like.