Bringing your low class side piece among your upper crust friends while abroad
11-29-2014, 05:45 AM
I think the title says it all but I've haven't seen this topic discussed here and I think that the subject is worthy of its own thread. I know that some of you fellas have found yourself in similar situations before, as I have, but I've never to the extent that I'm in now. Basically, I'm looking for some advice on how I should play this situation that I'm in. While some of my circumstances may be a bit unique to Colombia, I'm sure that other guys on here have found themselves in similar situations, here's what I"m dealing with:
I arrived in Colombia about three weeks ago and went about setting up shop, I already had a girl lined up who I had met on a previous trip several months ago, we had already hooked up so it was in the bag and we've continued to hook up since. She is an Afro-Colombian chick, 21 years old and while I hesitate to rate her on the now defunct 1-10 scale, let's just say that she would not be out of place in this thread nor this thread. We get along well, she's in uni and seems to have her shit together, as much as a 21 year old Colombian can anyway.
The problem is that I've made some upper crust friends here since I've arrived and I'm not sure if I should bring her around them. I managed to weasel my way into a social circle of upper class Colombians who all speak English well, went to bilingual IB schools and several of them studied abroad. Last week I went to a finca (country house) with a group of friends and we rolled up in late model imported truck that was bullet proof, the chica's parents are quite wealthy and apparently that SUV cost 100K+, so that's the kind of people I'm dealing with. Tonight I went to a night club which is owned by one of the guy's I was introduced to. I should mention that my initial encounter with these upper class guys involved one of them asking if I smoke weed within a minute of meeting them, he smoked me up and it turns out that all of his friends are huge pot heads and they gather frequently at his place to get high and that's how I met them all, they've taken quite the liking to me as I'm able to smoke with the best of them.
Anyway, there are definitely some cultural nuances (and probably racism) at play here and I'm not sure whether or not I should take this girl around these folks as she's definitely of a lower class than them and I'm not sure if by doing so, in this context, in could cause problems or maybe these people would diss me. I would like to cultivate strong friendships with these people as they are educated, wealthy and could possibly be interested in business opportunities in the future. At the very least, I would like to visit their fincas and get VIP treatment at the night clubs that they own, maybe even date one of the girls in their inner circle. So far, I've been pretty chill around their women, like I say, I have a pretty cute side piece I'm seeing a couple of times a week so my sexual needs are being met, but I'm considering cutting her off to get further into this upper crust circle, which in the long run, is probably in my best interest.
Any thoughts fellas?
I arrived in Colombia about three weeks ago and went about setting up shop, I already had a girl lined up who I had met on a previous trip several months ago, we had already hooked up so it was in the bag and we've continued to hook up since. She is an Afro-Colombian chick, 21 years old and while I hesitate to rate her on the now defunct 1-10 scale, let's just say that she would not be out of place in this thread nor this thread. We get along well, she's in uni and seems to have her shit together, as much as a 21 year old Colombian can anyway.
The problem is that I've made some upper crust friends here since I've arrived and I'm not sure if I should bring her around them. I managed to weasel my way into a social circle of upper class Colombians who all speak English well, went to bilingual IB schools and several of them studied abroad. Last week I went to a finca (country house) with a group of friends and we rolled up in late model imported truck that was bullet proof, the chica's parents are quite wealthy and apparently that SUV cost 100K+, so that's the kind of people I'm dealing with. Tonight I went to a night club which is owned by one of the guy's I was introduced to. I should mention that my initial encounter with these upper class guys involved one of them asking if I smoke weed within a minute of meeting them, he smoked me up and it turns out that all of his friends are huge pot heads and they gather frequently at his place to get high and that's how I met them all, they've taken quite the liking to me as I'm able to smoke with the best of them.
Anyway, there are definitely some cultural nuances (and probably racism) at play here and I'm not sure whether or not I should take this girl around these folks as she's definitely of a lower class than them and I'm not sure if by doing so, in this context, in could cause problems or maybe these people would diss me. I would like to cultivate strong friendships with these people as they are educated, wealthy and could possibly be interested in business opportunities in the future. At the very least, I would like to visit their fincas and get VIP treatment at the night clubs that they own, maybe even date one of the girls in their inner circle. So far, I've been pretty chill around their women, like I say, I have a pretty cute side piece I'm seeing a couple of times a week so my sexual needs are being met, but I'm considering cutting her off to get further into this upper crust circle, which in the long run, is probably in my best interest.
Any thoughts fellas?