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11-27-2014, 07:31 PM
Limiting your potential to control your wife so she won't control you is an oxymoron.
She is controlling you so in return you have to say no. She is stopping you from achieving your full potential.
Long story short, she is in control.
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11-27-2014, 10:15 PM
Subtle trolling.
Really, you could make millions but dont so your wife wont divorce you?
Yeah right.
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11-27-2014, 10:46 PM
Money corrupts only the corruptable.
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11-27-2014, 11:13 PM
Why make millions if you don't need too? Its another thing that could be lost. Its probably good to have enough saved up for a medical emergency. Granted that could be a significant amount of money.
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11-28-2014, 12:07 AM
Use more money to bring in more women, not to bang if you desire to be faithful but to keep your wife on her toes.
A hot young executive assistant, private tutor, nanny or au pair will make the wife think twice about leaving. She'll instead want to stay around to make sure that all of those young bitches don't get any of her man or her money.
My wife used to get her panties in a bunch over the fact that I had a sweet old lady that cleaned my house and did my laundry once a week. Best $40/week i ever spent.
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11-28-2014, 12:17 AM
Great strategy. I think what MrLemon says is counter-intuitive to most guys but it makes sense in America. Making lots of money during a marriage introduces instability into a marriage and if divorced she's going to take more from you in the long run and you'll be saddled with higher child support payments.
Conversely, making money after a divorce means you keep all of it and your child support payments are low.
Ideally, a man could make lots of money but keep his family living a modest lifestyle. This will preserve the morals of the children and the wife. In America, a woman knows how much money you have and will most likely be tempted to divorce rape you for it. You can try to hide your bank statements but it's just a matter of time before she finds out if she's living with you for 10 years. And even if she doesn't find your bank statements, but knows you've been working your ass off for 10 years and probably has lots of $$$, she'll divorce you anyways and the courts will hunt down your assets for her. Good luck keeping your stuff hidden from the law, you won't succeed if you have anything over a million.
However, making lots of money and getting married is counter-productive only because we live in a perverse system. In a normal healthy society, men have way more power than they do in America, and keep their property pretty much no matter what.
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11-28-2014, 12:48 AM
I think that the OP is either living in denial or there is some subtle trolling going on, but the suggestion is on point.
Having a lot of money is going to make it very hard to trust others, male friends included.
It's lonely at the top.
Women need purpose and having too much money is going to take that away from them.
I would suggest a middle ground, however.
Hustle early on, lock some money away where no one will ever find it and then if you do marry, you'll have back up cash, but stick to living an acceptable middle class existence.
That's my plan.
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11-28-2014, 09:49 AM
Quote: (11-28-2014 07:54 AM)BallsDeep Wrote:
Quote: (11-28-2014 12:17 AM)Samseau Wrote:
And even if she doesn't find your bank statements, but knows you've been working your ass off for 10 years and probably has lots of $$$, she'll divorce you anyways and the courts will hunt down your assets for her.
Actually, her attorneys that you will be paying for will hunt down your assets.
Put cash / or gold in a safe deposit box. Should be somewhat untraceable.
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11-28-2014, 11:38 AM
Quote: (11-28-2014 09:49 AM)robreke Wrote:
Quote: (11-28-2014 07:54 AM)BallsDeep Wrote:
Quote: (11-28-2014 12:17 AM)Samseau Wrote:
And even if she doesn't find your bank statements, but knows you've been working your ass off for 10 years and probably has lots of $$$, she'll divorce you anyways and the courts will hunt down your assets for her.
Actually, her attorneys that you will be paying for will hunt down your assets.
Put cash / or gold in a safe deposit box. Should be somewhat untraceable.
If the safe deposit box is in your name then it is traceble.
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11-28-2014, 11:49 AM
Amazing quality of discussion on this forum.
I'm still not done with my life and so, thinking about the best moves in the next few years, specifically, if I push harder in the rat race and bring in more money, how do I do so without losing that quality time I have with my kids, and how do I prevent kids/wife from getting spoiled? A significant challenge.
Many say "hide your money" but as other married guys could attest, that's practically impossible. Saying "no" to major purchases (no, you can't have an iPhone at 10 years old, lol) is certainly a start.
Others will simply choose to not get married, and that's an absolutely valid decision. However if you meet a girl who hits your heart, not just a sexy woman but a woman who you suddenly recognize as the mother of your children, then at that point you make that leap of faith. Then you have to make a whole new series of decisions, which trust me are complex. You aren't "controlling" but you are certainly "leading."
I've said it before -- raising a family in any age of the world is a massive challenge, there's always a cruel and hateful society waiting to prey on you. Your job as a man is to fight against all odds to create a tiny bubble of sanity.
That's what men do, we defy the odds. That's our unique power that women don't have.
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11-28-2014, 12:03 PM
Interesting post
At the surface it is practical, rational and makes sense.
However, I see it as fear-based.
If I become successful, she will be too demanding.
I won't be able to control her and hold my frame because she will have leverage.
Decisions that are made out of fear, limit our growth and potential for fulfillment. Moving outside our comfort zone and past our fear leads to growth and expansion. You are imposing limits on yourself out of fear that you won't be able to keep your wife in check. This is predicated on fear. Acting out of fear will always come back to haunt us because we are not living the fullest life that we can.
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11-28-2014, 09:10 PM
Quote: (11-27-2014 01:41 PM)SteveMcMahon Wrote:
I make the money, so it's mine to manage.
This is the philosophy of many a happy and prosperous marriage for thousands of years. Only now, it is considered "domestic abuse" by the femcunts - and therefore the state :/
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11-28-2014, 10:05 PM
Just look at history.
The influx of a wealth of money often corrupts.
Women, as a whole, will become greedy and masculine when surrounded by her husband's wealth.
What we need is a lawyer or someone otherwise knowledgeable, to explain pre-nuptial agreements.
That seems to me like a good way to protect from divorce rape.
I don't think that they are iron-clad, however. Can anyone explain better?
Ideally you sign a tight pre-nup and make all your money, and she gets only enough to live a modest middle class lifestyle. No worries of divorce rape thanks to the pre-nup, and she isn't corrupted from all the money. Because you do not allow her much.
When she asks for more, you are firm and steady in your denials. Just as you would be with a child.
Of course, she may start making her own money. This may even be encouraged to an extent, so that she does not grow bored with her life, and thus with the marriage.
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11-29-2014, 12:04 AM
Quote: (11-28-2014 10:05 PM)Yeti Wrote:
Just look at history.
The influx of a wealth of money often corrupts.
Indeed. In whatever form that wealth is accumulated, it will be spent.