Long story short: I met a girl at my university's undergrad gym. I approached her to chat, and she was receptive. We talked for about 10 minutes, she shared some personal stuff (interests, hobbies, where she was from, etc.) with me then she gave me her cell # after I had asked for it. I called her about a day or two later, she didn't answer, so I left a voice mail. She called me back like a min. later (so obviously she was screening her calls), we chatted for 10-15 minutes, and I asked her to meet later on in the week, at Starbucks for coffee at around 8 pm. She agreed.
Day of the "coffee date" comes (I think it was a Thur. night) and she stands me up. I wait for like 30 minutes then I head home. Upon arriving home, I see that she had emailed me while I was at Starbucks (I had forgotten my cell and left it at home). In her email she says that she is "sooooooooo sorry" for not being able to meet, but she had to pick up a package at the local UPS depot in the next town over, and she had gotten lost going there and knew that she was not going to be back in time for our date, blah blah blah, but that still like to get together, maybe some other time over that weekend, and for me to let her know if I would still be available to meet.
Final Paragraph: I was P8ssed at her, so I kinda "blew her off" in my response. I didn't respond to her email for a few hours, and when I did I said, "yeah, no problem, I am just headed to a friend's house to hang out tonight anyway. I guess we can just put our heads together and figure out another time to meet whenever we talk or run into each other at the gym again. Take care." <---She never responded to that email, and the next time we ran into each other at the gym (about a week or so later) she gave me this scared/nervous look (bulging eyes and everything) and basically turned heel and ran/"fast-walked" away from me as soon as we made made eye contact. Obviously, after that, we never had any further contact.
So, any thoughts regarding what was up with this chick? I appreciate the honesty on this board, so I would appreciate your honest thoughts/opinion as to what happened with her. Thanks. I have my own theory, but I would like to hear some of ya'lls first before I share mine.
Day of the "coffee date" comes (I think it was a Thur. night) and she stands me up. I wait for like 30 minutes then I head home. Upon arriving home, I see that she had emailed me while I was at Starbucks (I had forgotten my cell and left it at home). In her email she says that she is "sooooooooo sorry" for not being able to meet, but she had to pick up a package at the local UPS depot in the next town over, and she had gotten lost going there and knew that she was not going to be back in time for our date, blah blah blah, but that still like to get together, maybe some other time over that weekend, and for me to let her know if I would still be available to meet.
Final Paragraph: I was P8ssed at her, so I kinda "blew her off" in my response. I didn't respond to her email for a few hours, and when I did I said, "yeah, no problem, I am just headed to a friend's house to hang out tonight anyway. I guess we can just put our heads together and figure out another time to meet whenever we talk or run into each other at the gym again. Take care." <---She never responded to that email, and the next time we ran into each other at the gym (about a week or so later) she gave me this scared/nervous look (bulging eyes and everything) and basically turned heel and ran/"fast-walked" away from me as soon as we made made eye contact. Obviously, after that, we never had any further contact.
So, any thoughts regarding what was up with this chick? I appreciate the honesty on this board, so I would appreciate your honest thoughts/opinion as to what happened with her. Thanks. I have my own theory, but I would like to hear some of ya'lls first before I share mine.