Quote: (11-21-2013 10:24 PM)NovaVirtu Wrote:
Her: "Look I want ask you something"
Me: "Ask away"
Her: "Look this a kind crazy but here I go. what ur after?"
Me: "You seemed cool when we met and I'd like to get to know you better."
Her:"Well, let me say something. I can just offer you my friendship and nothing else. If you're agree can still talking or hang out sometimes."[/b]
Me:"I like your honesty. That sounds fine, always making new friends. I think we'll get along well"
It's been 3 days, have not heard back, and haven't reached out to her.
Did I screw something up here? I don't really care that much, but if this can be salvaged it is obviously a good thing, and if not I'd like to see what can be learned from it. Thanks
Yeah.
Her: "Look I want ask you something"
Me: ok
Her: "Look this a kind crazy but here I go. what ur after?"
Me: you.
Her:"Well, let me say something. I can just offer you my friendship and nothing else. If you're agree can still talking or hang out sometimes."
Me:no
You screwed up precisely after this -
"Look this a kind crazy but here I go. what ur after?"
___Shes probably still not made her mind whether to friendzone you or not. looking for confirmation. Either reframe her question,or be direct. dont beat about the bush, dont offer the same cookie cutter answer every other guy asks her, dont be vague.
As opposed to this-
"You seemed cool when we met and I'd like to get to know you better."
Her:"Well, let me say something. I can just offer you my friendship and nothing else. If you're agree can still talking or hang out sometimes."
friendzoned. Nuke that bitch.
Me:"I like your honesty. That sounds fine, always making new friends. I think we'll get along well"
lying through your teeth, and she knows it.
Don't think it can be salvaged, atleast not for a while. I would suggest acting like she's dead to you.
Don't block her off FB/whatsapp/text etc. Just ignore her. If she comes up to talk to you, brush her off, eject as soon as an opportune moment appears. Don't talk shit about her or anything. Act like she has zero significance in your life.
The key is to do so without being butthurt. Maybe she'll wonder and come back,maybe you can push for the lay.
But there are thousands of girls in the world who you'd be attracted to. I suggest giving them a chance.