[spydersuit]

Try California. Brothers do better with Asians there. Asians on the East Coast tend to date white guys or other asians.

[Lance Blastoff]

(04-26-2019 02:52 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  

Never banged an East Asian. 26 year old 6’3 light skinned black guy here in NYC. Closest I got...

Korean-American chick through social circle, in high school. Never banged. She has a kid now. Apparently single mother

Literally only one of my nearly 30 online dates (Tinder, SA) was with an Asian chick. “Hip hop dancer,” such little chemistry.

While race is surmountable, I think they are where I’ll need the biggest drop off (i.e - I’d have to have high SMV through my job/income/net worth to attract one).

Looking forward to being proven wrong.

Part of it, brother, is that you're trying to fit a size 9 foot into a size 4 shoe...

I've seen black guys with Asian chicks in the US, definitely in Europe and a bit in Thailand. It is rare, but it happens. I knew one half-black / half Russian guy who was quite the master swordsmen in BKK, which is about the toughest market for a black man I can imagine.

This guy was:
1. In really good shape. Like only black dudes and gay white guys are.
2. Spoke articulately and was really nice.
3. Came off as disciplined as fuck. Fitness and health fanatic. Didn't use drugs, officially.

[a beer is enough]

(08-10-2016 12:51 PM)SuS Wrote:  

(08-09-2016 08:45 PM)JWLZG Wrote:  

(08-08-2016 10:55 PM)WalterBlack Wrote:  

I'm a British-Indian guy, and I've spent so much time Chinese-American pussy in the US, my dick speaks Mandarin.

(08-08-2016 05:23 AM)Lance Blastoff Wrote:  

(08-07-2016 01:56 PM)choichoi Wrote:  

It would be interesting to see a comparison with 2nd gen 3rd gen Asian chicks in other Anglosphere countries. I get the feeling that Chinese Aussie girls are a bit more down with the brown than their American sisters due to the fact that I banged one out here in Hawaii. Her friends were real cool with me putting moves on her and gave her her space. I totally excpected them to CB so that a more "eligible" white male could get at her.

Chinese people in Australia are treated pretty shoddily by whites. I got pretty regular attitude in the clubs when I was with my Asian girlfriend. Australia is one of the most racist countries I've ever visited. Never really seen attitudes like that and it opened by eyes (and really, really pissed me off.)

Guess I'm majorly fucked, then. I can't believe that half my bangs have been white Anglo-Australian girls in the 6-8 range. Maybe there is a God after all.

(08-09-2016 08:23 PM)MdWanderer Wrote:  

Wow, so black men have a better chance with Asian girls than Asian guys do? I've always sensed that when I was in college. I saw an overwhelming amount of Asian girls with white guys, then a smattering with black men, but seeing them with Asian dudes was rare. I saw a picture of an Asian sorority's formal night when I was in college and everyone of them had a white date except for one girl (her date was Asian).

But it might be different on the West Coast. When I lived in Seattle the Asians mostly kept to their own.

My little sister, while preferring white and Hispanic dudes foremost, will consider Black dudes over Asians, as long as they're African-American or British. If her tastes are any similar to AA girls(have only met a handful), then yes; Black men will get more of a look in than their Asian brethren.

Well on the East Coast, Asian women have an abhorrent hatred for black men with some of them even hating Asian men.

- SNIP -

Post really hit a cord with me and I just had to respond. What you're saying can be applied to a lot of non-urban Latinas (especially those who act more white), Middle Eastern, and almost all kinds of ethnic girls on the east coast.

The fact of the matter is Asian culture is quite narcissistic, status obsessed, and doesn't have time for things like empathy, caring for others, and being kind like white culture does. It is part of the reason why mainly white countries are the ones sending volunteers and aids to the poor and starving across the world, the Asian and Arab world could give less of a fuck.

Now here is the other issue, Asian women and almost all ethnic women are hopelessly insecure about their appearance, they get eyelid surgery in Korea FFS. A lot of them have to live with the fact that the vast majority of white guys gaming them are those who are normally not that wanted by top tier white girls. Deep down inside, along with most ethnic women, Asian American women have to live with the fact that they are generally not as high in the social ladder compared to their white friends.

Ignore the bullshit surveys, Asian women are not more desired than white women.

How do they react to this?

By obsessing over white features, going for white guys almost exclusively, being ruthless towards minorities of any kind, being cold, stuckup, and rude. The Asian girls who fit the sorority girl mold are some of the most ruthless and uncaring people out there and it sucks too because deep down they have to live with the fact that their status will always be lower than the blonde haired blue eyed angel. You are on the receiving end of that as a black guy.

I get it bad along with my Asian friends too, whenever we approach a mixed set with white girls in it, if there is an Asian girl there we are guaranteed to get cockblocked.

So what can you do about it to still get hot Asian girls?

Get a hot white girl to go out with you, preferably a blonde, and have her wing you. All of the racism that the Asian American girl naturally has towards you will drop, she will see that the woman above her on the social ladder wants you and will try to validate herself in front of you.

My Asian friends who started to do well with white girls either caught a lot of openly racist comments from Asian women or had Asian girls that initially ignored them beg for their cock.

It is a sad state of affairs and part of the reason why I am fearful of the future. As America's Anglo culture loses its influence and we have Asian and Latin culture takeoever, things are going to get really fucking bad for guys of minority groups. Ironically, Adolf Hitler's dream for the blond Aryan being worshiped might come true because Asian and Latino culture has more influence in the western world.

[Heart Break Kid]

I'm black and from the East coast and have fucked probably 10 asian-americans in USA - and well over 50 proper Asians abroad (more East than SEA). Asian Americans are down to mess with brothers, most brothers either aren't interested in Asians cause they have no booty or they think they don't have a chance.

The sub culture of the asian-american who is a banana and only talks to white guys is hardly the majority. In a place like New York there are plenty of asian-americans who will date latinos and blacks no problem. Even more so when you go out in the West Coast, Hawaii or Vancouver.

What we're really talking about here is the Asian-American valley girl type I think. Those type of girls are only going for the surfer dudes.

[Lance Blastoff]

(05-11-2019 06:06 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  

The fact of the matter is Asian culture is quite narcissistic, status obsessed, and doesn't have time for things like empathy, caring for others, and being kind like white culture does. It is part of the reason why mainly white countries are the ones sending volunteers and aids to the poor and starving across the world, the Asian and Arab world could give less of a fuck.

I think you're being a bit unfair here. The primary reason why most Asian countries don't supply much foreign aid is because most of them are still poor. Japan's foreign aid budget is slightly greater than the US, a a percentage of GDP or GNI. Hong Kong's charitable giving index is higher than most European countries.

(05-11-2019 06:06 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  

Now here is the other issue, Asian women and almost all ethnic women are hopelessly insecure about their appearance, they get eyelid surgery in Korea FFS. A lot of them have to live with the fact that the vast majority of white guys gaming them are those who are normally not that wanted by top tier white girls. Deep down inside, along with most ethnic women, Asian American women have to live with the fact that they are generally not as high in the social ladder compared to their white friends.

I think this is the perspective of an outsider looking in. The reason why "nerdy" white guys and Asian girls hook up is because of compatibility. Young men who study and play by the rules make better husbands.

It isn't as much about power dynamics as it's about cultural affinity. Asian women and white men are much more likely to value similar things and have more comparable values about family, politics, career, education, religion, gender roles. Asian women really appreciate a guy who's conservative, ambitious, serious, and has a long time horizon. These things don't fit into the stereotype of the black American male.

This compatibility is reinforced by the success of such couples. The average income of White-Asian couples is a full $10k higher than white-white.

(05-11-2019 06:06 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  

Ignore the bullshit surveys, Asian women are not more desired than white women.

This isn't supported by the three best data sets that we have publicly available for a decent block of time of actual human behavior on dating apps. The data clearly suggests that Asian women are, in fact, the most desired of all women. Given the fact that they have the highest average IQs, incomes and lowest average BMIs, this makes sense.

Don't believe me? Here's the data 2009-14 fro OK Cupid and from Are you interested and from Yahoo! Personals . All show consistently the highest average ranking for Asian women in terms of desirability.

What I see when I look at the data is that white men and asian women have about the same preference for each other and for members of their own race.

(05-11-2019 06:06 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  

So what can you do about it to still get hot Asian girls?

Get a hot white girl to go out with you, preferably a blonde, and have her wing you. All of the racism that the Asian American girl naturally has towards you will drop, she will see that the woman above her on the social ladder wants you and will try to validate herself in front of you.

My Asian friends who started to do well with white girls either caught a lot of openly racist comments from Asian women or had Asian girls that initially ignored them beg for their cock.

It is a sad state of affairs and part of the reason why I am fearful of the future. As America's Anglo culture loses its influence and we have Asian and Latin culture takeoever, things are going to get really fucking bad for guys of minority groups. Ironically, Adolf Hitler's dream for the blond Aryan being worshiped might come true because Asian and Latino culture has more influence in the western world.

Or you could try demonstrating how well-mannered, ambitious and hard working you are?

[Lance Blastoff]

(05-14-2019 11:14 PM)Heart Break Kid Wrote:  

I'm black and from the East coast and have fucked probably 10 asian-americans in USA - and well over 50 proper Asians abroad (more East than SEA). Asian Americans are down to mess with brothers, most brothers either aren't interested in Asians cause they have no booty or they think they don't have a chance.

The sub culture of the asian-american who is a banana and only talks to white guys is hardly the majority. In a place like New York there are plenty of asian-americans who will date latinos and blacks no problem. Even more so when you go out in the West Coast, Hawaii or Vancouver.

What we're really talking about here is the Asian-American valley girl type I think. Those type of girls are only going for the surfer dudes.

Yes. This.

I have a black friend married to an Asian hottie and she's 8+. He's ambitious, has a great career, a terrific attitude and is in great shape.

Plenty of Asian chicks are down to date a handsome black dude with game. It's just that the same game that works for a black guy with white chicks probably doesn't work the same with Asians.