[Therapsid]

(11-11-2013 12:34 AM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

This girl in particular however said verbatim multiple times during sex:

"Everything you do feels so good"

She pretty much let me have her any way I wanted and wasn't a dead fish, happily mounted me and rode me like a pony.

Not saying she had to have had a good time as girls are great actresses in bed. Felt right though haha.

Is a good text back now:

"finish up and come over @1030"

Yeah, if she said that, I wouldn't sweat it. You'll be banging this girl again. If not tonight then a week from now.

As for tonight, if it's not too late where you are, then message her.

Send her a message making fun of her for being such a nerd and studying so hard.

Since you've been pushing for the meetup, don't do it again in this first message.

Once she responds you can then push for the meetup.

Round numero dos should make this broad a member of your stable.

[Travesty]

This is why I love the advice, I didn't even think of making fun of her because I have trained myself to be so short in text.

I will do that now!

I do admit I have many faults in game but LMR and sex are my strong suits from my experience.

My biggest downfall are girls that do not warm up quickly in approaches or dealing with groups where I need to lead a conversation with a handful of people while still hitting on a girl at the same time.

[Travesty]

LOL

Therapsid I'd rep you again for that I texted:

"youre such a nerd for studying so hard on the weekend"

She instantly* texts back (all other texts were an hour or so apart)

Her: "Im just finishing up!"
Her: "And it's due at 12 am tonight: otherwise I would have saved it for tomorrow."

Haha now what?

[Therapsid]

(11-11-2013 12:56 AM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

LOL

Therapsid I'd rep you again for that I texted:

"youre such a nerd for studying so hard on the weekend"

She instantly* texts back (all other texts were an hour or so apart)

Her: "Im just finishing up!"
Her: "And it's due at 12 am tonight: otherwise I would have saved it for tomorrow."

Haha now what?

Just invite her over. No need to be fancy. Say you're up doing whatever - listening to records, watching netflix, hanging with your friends, playing the guitar, getting last minute work done, etc. but that you're free afterwards.

Even if she says she can't, that's fine. She's obviously receptive and willing to see you again. This is a no lose situation. Just because she's tired and it's late doesn't mean she doesn't want your dick haha.

You were funny last message, you don't want to be funny everytime. You're not a comedian.

[Travesty]

(11-11-2013 01:02 AM)Therapsid Wrote:  

Just invite her over. No need to be fancy. Say you're up doing whatever - listening to records, watching netflix, hanging with your friends, playing the guitar, getting last minute work done, etc. but that you're free afterwards.

Even if she says she can't, that's fine. She's obviously receptive and willing to see you again. This is a no lose situation. Just because she's tired and it's late doesn't mean she doesn't want your dick haha.

You were funny last message, you don't want to be funny everytime. You're not a comedian.

So I invited her and she's coming, but she wants to go to bar 1 block from my place...

Seems reasonable but I hate variables!!!

Should I push for the bang in the apartment and lock it down or act cool and go to the bar?

I had no idea she would want to go out, but she did pick the bar next to my place.

*Bro hug-tap for Therapsid*

[Therapsid]

(11-11-2013 01:15 AM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

(11-11-2013 01:02 AM)Therapsid Wrote:  

Just invite her over. No need to be fancy. Say you're up doing whatever - listening to records, watching netflix, hanging with your friends, playing the guitar, getting last minute work done, etc. but that you're free afterwards.

Even if she says she can't, that's fine. She's obviously receptive and willing to see you again. This is a no lose situation. Just because she's tired and it's late doesn't mean she doesn't want your dick haha.

You were funny last message, you don't want to be funny everytime. You're not a comedian.

So I invited her and she's coming, but she wants to go to bar 1 block from my place...

Seems reasonable but I hate variables!!!

Should I push for the bang in the apartment and lock it down or act cool and go to the bar?

I had no idea she would want to go out, but she did pick the bar next to my place.

*Bro hug-tap for Therapsid*

Go to the bar!

It's one fucking block from your place.

Get trashed with her.

Be silly. Do shots with her.

Be a little grabby. Grab her by the waist after a few drinks and makeout with her. It seems kind of cheesy, but she'll appreciate it.

It simultaneously conveys both affection and sexual intent at once.

In other words, it fosters comfort and attraction. After a little of this she'll be happy to come to your place. She may even suggest it herself.

[Mind Trip]

(11-04-2013 11:36 PM)Mind Trip Wrote:  

A month ago I met totally randomly a cute French girl while I was having dinner in a common night at a common place, we stayed together for a week and she had to go back home

Yesterday she sent me an unexpected message:

Code:

Code:

Hey!
News from the cold and rainy france! I was glad to see my family again and enjoy the wonderfull autumn in france.
Hope you are fine wherever you are; and by the way, where are you?
I wanted to tell you that i will work in thailand this winter! Maybe we will meet again if you are around.
Enjoy
Bisous de france.

And my response:

Code:

Code:

Hi ***, great unexpected news, I don’t know how it’s the winter in northern France but I guess you will be more comfortable in Thai ! I’m still in *** for a bit, the weather is still great but with less people around, many French though you would feel almost home.
I’m curious to see how it is around your place, when you go to somewhere you really like, take a picture and send me?
I'm finishing to take my advanced diving license and in a while I will be going around, if you manage to come a few days before you start working we can go to explore some beautiful places. Do you know where are you going to stay?
I really liked to hear from you, you made my body reacts just with the thought of seeing you again, guess it likes you !
Besitos.

This is how I usually do, just posting to get some feedback of other experienced guys.

Thanks !

Any thoughts on this? I didn't get a response in a week, so I'm wondering ...
How my response sound to you guys?

Thanks

[Travesty]

(11-11-2013 03:28 AM)Mind Trip Wrote:  

How my response sound to you guys?

Thanks

I think the last sentence about being glad to hear from her and your body reaction may have been a bit strong and was not needed. I still think unless you are already in a solid mini relationship writing more text than needed can shoot you in the foot.

I would also try to follow the rule of making the response fun and making it shorter than her first message. Trying jabbing her with a fun inside joke you shared during your week together.

[Travesty]

(11-11-2013 01:19 AM)Therapsid Wrote:  

Go to the bar!

It's one fucking block from your place.

Get trashed with her.

Be silly. Do shots with her.

Be a little grabby. Grab her by the waist after a few drinks and makeout with her. It seems kind of cheesy, but she'll appreciate it.

It simultaneously conveys both affection and sexual intent at once.

In other words, it fosters comfort and attraction. After a little of this she'll be happy to come to your place. She may even suggest it herself.

Success. We did 4 or 5 shots of Jager at my place, smoked up, hit the nearest bar, so packed we couldn't get drinks so luckily we were buzzed and hit the dance floor. Lots of foreplay, dragged her back to my place for a few more shots and great sex to follow.

I think she is definitely in the harem right now. Great thing about her she is thinking about moving in 2 months and is iffy about it so she can't bring up any BS about "where this is going".

[Therapsid]

(11-11-2013 01:08 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

Success. We did 4 or 5 shots of Jager at my place, smoked up, hit the nearest bar, so packed we couldn't get drinks so luckily we were buzzed and hit the dance floor. Lots of foreplay, dragged her back to my place for a few more shots and great sex to follow.

I think she is definitely in the harem right now. Great thing about her she is thinking about moving in 2 months and is iffy about it so she can't bring up any BS about "where this is going".

[redonion]

How can I avoid this girl from flaking on me?

Situation:
Met this girl at a bar Friday night, talked for like 10 minutes or so and she seemed pretty into me. Her friend dragged her away to the bathroom and I went about my night. As I'm leaving (maybe an hour later). I see her preparing to leave as well. I get her number and head home.

Just had the following text exchange:

Me: "hey X it's redonion from the other night. hows it going?"
Her: "Hey redonion its going well...how are you?"
Me: "good good. lets grab some noncarbonated drinks later this week" (the noncarbonated thing is an inside joke).
Her: "Haha yes lets"
Me: "thursday...8ish. sound good?"
Her: "Yeah I think I can...I may have a meeting that night but hopefully not...where do you live"

We tell each other where in the city we both live and I say I'll think of somewhere to meet up and let her know later. She says "ok sounds good ".


Her mentioning the possible meeting has me thinking she could be setting the seeds for a possible flake. Any good ways to disarm this before it happens? I can only think of "Wednesday works as well if Thursday is no good", but that seems awfully weak.

[Christian McQueen]

^^^You can't control her flaking.

You can only control your reaction to people's actions.

Trying to control a girl's actions is like holding Jello in your hand and squeezing; it'll slip between your fingers the harder you squeeze.

How do you not care if she flakes or not?
By having multiple plates spinning.

[soup]

(11-11-2013 07:49 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  

^^^You can't control her flaking.

You can only control your reaction to people's actions.

Trying to control a girl's actions is like holding Jello in your hand and squeezing; it'll slip between your fingers the harder you squeeze.

How do you not care if she flakes or not?
By having multiple plates spinning.

You'll never be alone. Don't forget the best girlfriend of all. Her name?

"Next"

[Valhalla]

delete

[CJ]

Quote:

Met her at a bar on Halloween. We hung out twice. The last time I saw her was on Saturday.

This is definitely recent enough to keep pushing.

Quote:

Tried to set up a date, here are the last two texts:

Her: "But Sundays are bad for me"
Me: "What is a good day for you?"

She was doing the whole 12 hour response time thing, so I was just frustrated and wanted to get to the point.

I'm so torn on asking when is good for the girl anymore, because if they don't give you a time you're fucked. Such a tough play here, she's a bar chick, so she should be DTF. I'd try these two methods and if neither works, back-off and restart in a week or so, but don't expect much:

Method 1: Pick another day (no more than 2 days in advance), start with the "What's up?" Then quick transition to "We should meet up for drinks Thursday at xxx"

Method 2: See what she's up to as above, and just come back with, "We should get drunk." She's a bar chick so she may be down.

If all else fails, after a restart I'd amp up the aggression so she knows what she's in for, take it into the sexual realm in your texts, if she doesn't like it, who cares, what are you risking at that point?

[CJ]

(11-11-2013 12:50 AM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

This is why I love the advice, I didn't even think of making fun of her because I have trained myself to be so short in text.

After you've banged the girl, you can pretty much text her whatever you want. If the sex was good, and she's into you, she'll come back for more.

[goodfella]

Deleted

[isildurrr]

This text thread is strictly for cold approach right?

someone please confirm before i flip

[Screwston]

I really fucked a barely legal girl with amazing tits good on the first date. Date consisted of me picking her up, bringing her over and getting fucked up. I took a some Cialis, made her squirt and know that pussy was sore the next day.

We went back and forth a little after that. Told her to come out again and she flaked that day. Invited me to a bonfire thing and I blew her off. All this was about a month ago. Sent a casual text earlier this week and no reply. I said "sup" or something.

I wanna fuck her again that pussy was really fucking good. I think she just used me. But she was staying at her friends because of issues at home so who knows.

Dick pic? What do I do?

[Wahawahwah]

U fucked her good on the first date.

Then asked her to come fuck again, she flaked.
Then she invited you for a bonfire thing, you flaked.
She wanted some reassurance that YOU weren't using her.

You need to do a little comfort building here.

She may have seen the "sup" as another booty call and didn't reply. She probably felt like a slut, you need to alleviate that feeling. Go a little beta, build some comfort. Take her on a date, or some place just to hang out.

Text her asking her out to a concert, or some event etc. That is, if u want to keep her around

Sending a dick pic would make it worse at this stage.


Initiate with a classic restarter text such as "congrats. I'm thinking bout you"

[Player_1337]

Recently acquired number of a chick who seems quite interested. Sent her a greeting text on Thursday night, she responded quickly and with the next text I initiated plans for Saturday night. Her followup was the little ditty below:

Her: I have friends from China visiting so I don't know if we'll be in (the area where I said we'd be going) on Saturday.

Should I send a restart text on Sunday/Monday? If so, completely ignore her last message and start fresh?

[All or Nothing]

(11-12-2013 07:28 PM)CJ Wrote:  

I'm so torn on asking when is good for the girl anymore, because if they don't give you a time you're fucked. Such a tough play here, she's a bar chick, so she should be DTF. I'd try these two methods and if neither works, back-off and restart in a week or so, but don't expect much:

Method 1: Pick another day (no more than 2 days in advance), start with the "What's up?" Then quick transition to "We should meet up for drinks Thursday at xxx"

Method 2: See what she's up to as above, and just come back with, "We should get drunk." She's a bar chick so she may be down.

If all else fails, after a restart I'd amp up the aggression so she knows what she's in for, take it into the sexual realm in your texts, if she doesn't like it, who cares, what are you risking at that point?

Thanks for the advice CJ. It is much appreciated.

[Mr. Butterworth]

chick off POF (6.5) I was supposed to be seeing tonight. she's trying to flake...

tells me about 3 days ago that she thought I was out of her league.. smh.. so she ready I believe. just scared.

what do I text next

[MrXY]

Butterworth, I've found that trying to argue or challenge an reluctatant online girl into meeting you very seldom works.

They are either intimidated or just not that interested

I would say something like " Look, I understand we haven't met but I'm cool and easygoing-we can just have a drink and a chat for a little while" then suggest a place that is not too close to hers

At this point there's a 90% chance that she won't meet you, but this works occasionally. If she still says no, delete her-don't let her milk you for any more attention

[iknowexactly]

(10-28-2013 03:13 PM)GLethal85 Wrote:  

Would appreciate input on this one...

Backdr
This chick is 24, white and comes from rich family. She works with retarded kids during the day and is persuing med school (ugh). Longest relationship was '5 years'.,,,,,,,,


a typical upper class white girl ADHD-pill case.

she's going to med school (ugh), and is a "white girl ADHD case"

and you are doing, what, in comparison?

The four hour erection thing sounded like a total non-sequitur.
Mentioning sexual mechanical functioning in the abstract is generally not what women find erotic when they're in day mode.