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06-01-2017, 03:00 AM
@MichaelCorleone thanks for your reply. A few more questions if you don't mind:
1. Since you say she was religious I assume she went to church regularly?
2. Was she eastern orthodox or roman catholic or of another religion entirely?
3. Did she deem certain sexual acts impermissible due to her religion?
4. Do you think that her religious upbringing was a major factor into her being a good wife and trying to make it work?
5. Did you share her religious views?
6. If not did she also ask you to convert to her religion or partake in the activities of her religion?
7. In the case that you did not share her religious views, was this a point of conflict within the marriage?
Thanks for your answers.
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06-01-2017, 04:14 AM
OP thanks for sharing your raw story with honesty, really feeling for you mate.
I want to remind you that you had a really successful marriage for a significant period of your life, and thats an achievement to be proud of, and happy about.
Also, I know it doesn't seem like it now, but take it from a man who was married for 15 years, despite a nasty heartbreaking divorce, life gets back to being awesome in a few years.
Very awesome.
So don't beat yourself up, think of the good things you have enjoyed, and will in the future.
Best of luck and kind regards mate.
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06-01-2017, 04:44 AM
Quote: (04-06-2013 01:57 PM)Veloce Wrote:
It's understandable but I think the RVF should implement a rule that anyone waxing ecstatic about how hot a particular girl is needs to provide pics as a reference point. Face blurred or blacked out, whatever you gotta do.
That
doesn't necessarily solve the problem.
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06-01-2017, 09:07 AM
Great story and thanks to the OP from sharing.
From what I see, he did very well.
It sounds like he found one of the "good" ones and married her. If she didn't like him she would of ran of a long time ago.
Most normal marriages aren't even lasting that long. I hear more stories about awful divorces than I do about nice marriages.
He is still young and can go back to the well, find another Slavic beauty and do the process all over again.
Don't understand why he is getting such hate.
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06-01-2017, 09:51 AM
Quote: (06-01-2017 08:08 AM)BassPlayaYo Wrote:
Quote: (06-01-2017 04:14 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:
OP thanks for sharing your raw story with honesty, really feeling for you mate.
I want to remind you that you had a really successful marriage for a significant period of your life, and thats an achievement to be proud of, and happy about.
Also, I know it doesn't seem like it now, but take it from a man who was married for 15 years, despite a nasty heartbreaking divorce, life gets back to being awesome in a few years.
Very awesome.
So don't beat yourself up, think of the good things you have enjoyed, and will in the future.
Best of luck and kind regards mate.
I think his wife had a successful marriage, look at her trajectory versus his trajectory. She started with nothing and went up in value, sure she's older but higher in value nonetheless. How many women do you know that are making 6 figures? How many of them are you fucking? It looks like he just stayed the same so the question becomes what value did he get from her because she sure as hell got a lot of value from him. Pussy isn't value. I'll repeat that. Pussy isn't value.
I don't know the OP but it seems like in those years he didn't advance as a human being though having financial wealth and a good part of that has to do who he partnered with and why. He invested in her and less so in himself and notice how in the end he thinks it's his fault that it ended. All of this talk of her trying to make it work, how much of that effort was expended in her just accepting him for who he is and what he's done? Or maybe that's what she finally did and decided that there just wasn't a match. Why didn't he come to that conclusion? Why with all of the financial trappings was he unable to be that man who women want to be with and around?
Can you please explain why pussy isn't value?
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06-02-2017, 11:03 AM
BassPlaya and Jetset are bringing up an issue that has become a modern day paradox or possibly better stated "dilemma" which I've asked before but few run with. Namely, "Excuse me Miss, what exactly aren't you getting out of this? It sounds like an all-win or no lose situation for you." With the advent of birth control (save for risks of disease and otherwise that also both males and females are subject to), what "risk" does a woman have? That's what all the payment or resource backing was for in the past --- the risk of getting pregnant when a guy wanted to get laid. I know the current situation (women anyway, lol) isn't logical, but they act like it's not a win all the way around = they get validation, attention, maybe get off, resources, you name it ... the dude only gets 1 of those, and loses on all other accounts. And they still complain. There you go boys, another thousand reasons not to take bitches seriously. If she doesn't bring something more than pussy, well yeah, you know the answer.
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06-02-2017, 07:27 PM
MichaelCorleone
First of all... this is an "in your face" fucking reality check to every reader here.
It took balls to open up the way you did, and then to take follow up questions.
Many RVF guys are younger, and have not experienced as much of Life's Road
as the OP.
Be thankful guys... This is a window to the future, you may not expect, or envision.
I am with Rudebwoy... Don't hate on MC. He is only sharing real talk.
Feel for ya MC.. 1,000% true what you write. Lived it also.
Sometimes, we are our own worst enemy.
Props.
Support.
Respect.
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06-03-2017, 02:31 AM
Thanks to the OP for sharing.
You say you are atheist/agnostic. I don't understand why you got married in the first place?
I don't see the point of marriage without kids
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06-04-2017, 10:52 AM
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Thanks for the report. Respect for taking a mature attitude in admitting your mistakes and dealing with the criticism. We need more honest reporting here and accounts of mistakes with the lessons learned.