Quote: (01-17-2013 10:59 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:
So is it ok for a woman to slut around and us not? Or vice versa? Not trolling. Legit question.
Ever heard the key analogy? If a key opens a lot of locks, it's a master key. If a lock is opened by a lot of keys, it's a shitty lock.
In all seriousness, it IS different. A woman always has a choice of cock. It takes effort to resist the constant appeal, to remember obligations and roles and responsibility both for one self and for the possible others (family, boyfriends, children). While she shouldn't be a bitch/prude either, shouldn't be mean or refuse having sex when it does mean something, such as if in an LTR with a "good" guy, she shouldn't just go spreading her legs for everything. So the non-slut route shows dedication, perseverence, and moral character. She's LTR material.
On the other hand, a man has the OPPOSITE situation. He has to WORK for the pussy. He has to make the advances, he has to put in the work, he has to make it "just happen". For him, it takes EFFORT, it takes DISCIPLINE, and ultimately actually in many ways more moral character. he's (ironically) also LTR material, although, good luck scoring him ladies.
A woman who fucks everything who asks is like a guy who never asks to fuck anything: lack of character, which leads to being unattractive, lonely, and the procurement of large quantities of cats. I like sluts, albeit with a slight resentment at times at how easy it is for them to get what we claw tooth and nail for (like the jock rich kid in college), but I do sit back and shake my head in silence, like watching the mid-30s career woman putting off having a family "just a few more years"--an unintended downward spiral, but it's their choice, and I don't resent them for that in the least bit (actually it's a great thing they're doing)
The shaming of sluts comes not from men, but from women. women use sex to get what they want from men. Much like economics, if two near-identical products are offered at vastly differing prices, the cheaper one is usually purchased. A $15,000 toyota sells more than an $80,000 lexus. So sluts make it so that other women CAN'T USE SEX TO GET MEN'S RESOURCES. That's where the shaming comes in--jealous other women going "you're fucking it up for us! We had a captive market!" So more women get more slutty (see: cougars) in the hopes of getting ever-diminishing returns, in a race to the bottom. Like international labor markets, everyone chops prices and undercuts themselves, while the handful who sit back and watch reap the benefits, laughing all the time.