[soup]

Sluts are gross.

Girls take shits and have arm pit hair. Does that mean that I want to smell or see any of it?

These whores have to keep it to themselves. I'd freak out if I found out a girl kissed my right after she sucked some guy's dick.

If you have no problem than that than maybe you like the taste of semen?

[Duke Castile]

I read the first paragraph and I stopped.

You're making a lot of assumptions. No one on this forum is being "held back" by understanding the nature of women.

You can walk out and call any random girl a slut and you will be correct 90% of the time. EVERY girl will cheat under the right circumstances.

You're also being very arrogant to try and tell a bunch of guys that have collectively a shit load more experience than you that their thinking is wrong and yours is right.

I can't stand it when some newbie who has zero cred comes on here handing out life lessons.

Let me crack some eggs of knowledge on you.

I'lll fuck your girlfriend and let you ponder whether she was a slut or not.

[flyingnimbus]

(01-16-2013 08:31 PM)soup Wrote:  

Sluts are gross.

Girls take shits and have arm pit hair. Does that mean that I want to smell or see any of it?

These whores have to keep it to themselves. I'd freak out if I found out a girl kissed my right after she sucked some guy's dick.

If you have no problem than that than maybe you like the taste of semen?

Agreed, that's nasty. But if she sucked some dudes dick a month ago that'd gross you out???

[IRTdenialist]

[soup]

(01-16-2013 08:35 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:  

(01-16-2013 08:31 PM)soup Wrote:  

Sluts are gross.

Girls take shits and have arm pit hair. Does that mean that I want to smell or see any of it?

These whores have to keep it to themselves. I'd freak out if I found out a girl kissed my right after she sucked some guy's dick.

If you have no problem than that than maybe you like the taste of semen?

Agreed, that's nasty. But if she sucked some dudes dick a month ago that'd gross you out???

I don't want to hear about.

What the fuck happened to class? Girls telling guys about sexploits with past guys- if a girl ever pulls this shit with me, I'd consider it grounds for dismissal.

The only thing I want to hear from her is that she's never as much pleasure during sex as she's had with me. I've heard these words before, and they are the only allusions to her sexual past that I want to hear

It's bad enough that I can sniff out a slut by her tattoos or attitude or whatever. Talking about that shit is crossing the line.

[flyingnimbus]

(01-16-2013 08:35 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

I read the first paragraph and I stopped.

You're making a lot of assumptions. No one on this forum is being "held back" by understanding the nature of women.

You can walk out and call any random girl a slut and you will be correct 90% of the time. EVERY girl will cheat under the right circumstances.

You're also being very arrogant to try and tell a bunch of guys that have collectively a shit load more experience than you that their thinking is wrong and yours is right.

I can't stand it when some newbie who has zero cred comes on here handing out life lessons.

Let me crack some eggs of knowledge on you.

I'lll fuck your girlfriend and let you ponder whether she was a slut or not.

Hey man, please share your experiences. That what a forum is all about.

My contention is that women generally (there are of course exceptions) will not cheat on you IF you are an alpha dude. That's means your hitting the gym, working your ass off, exciting, fuck her good and don't act like an insecure little bitch around her. that's because women get crazy attached to these kinds of guys

Women will cheat on you all the time if your a beta dude who's lazy, boring and insecure. Most men fall into this category

[flyingnimbus]

(01-16-2013 08:42 PM)soup Wrote:  

(01-16-2013 08:35 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:  

(01-16-2013 08:31 PM)soup Wrote:  

Sluts are gross.

Girls take shits and have arm pit hair. Does that mean that I want to smell or see any of it?

These whores have to keep it to themselves. I'd freak out if I found out a girl kissed my right after she sucked some guy's dick.

If you have no problem than that than maybe you like the taste of semen?

Agreed, that's nasty. But if she sucked some dudes dick a month ago that'd gross you out???

I don't want to hear about.

What the fuck happened to class? Girls telling guys about sexploits with past guys- if a girl ever pulls this shit with me, I'd consider it grounds for dismissal.

The only thing I want to hear from her is that she's never as much pleasure during sex as she's had with me. I've heard these words before, and they are the only allusions to her sexual past that I want to hear

It's bad enough that I can sniff out a slut by her tattoos or attitude or whatever. Talking about that shit is crossing the line.

Yea I get that. Don't ask don't tell is cool.

[IRTdenialist]

So the bluepill cuckold finally changes his tune. Did your wifey also have you doing clean up duty after she had the 15th dick?

(01-16-2013 08:42 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:  

(01-16-2013 08:35 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

I read the first paragraph and I stopped.

You're making a lot of assumptions. No one on this forum is being "held back" by understanding the nature of women.

You can walk out and call any random girl a slut and you will be correct 90% of the time. EVERY girl will cheat under the right circumstances.

You're also being very arrogant to try and tell a bunch of guys that have collectively a shit load more experience than you that their thinking is wrong and yours is right.

I can't stand it when some newbie who has zero cred comes on here handing out life lessons.

Let me crack some eggs of knowledge on you.

I'lll fuck your girlfriend and let you ponder whether she was a slut or not.

Hey man, please share your experiences. That what a forum is all about.

My contention is that women generally (there are of course exceptions) will not cheat on you IF you are an alpha dude. That's means your hitting the gym, working your ass off, exciting, fuck her good and don't act like an insecure little bitch around her. that's because women get crazy attached to these kinds of guys

Women will cheat on you all the time if your a beta dude who's lazy, boring and insecure. Most men fall into this category

[Ziltoid]

(01-16-2013 08:28 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:  

Read Sex at Dawn. Look it up on Amazon

OK.

I see a book written by some aging liberal douche professor and his wife (!) about why a heteronormative marriage is bad and evil.

Are you sure you're at the right site, brah? The LGBT blogs are over that way.

[UgSlayer]

Everyone on this board has fucked sluts. God bless their corrupted souls or else how else would men in our era be getting so much random pussy?

I'm always screening for a cool girl I can have conversations with that is feminine and has had a minimal amount of sexual partners. Over time, you can tell which ones are worth investing in. Of course sometimes they are good at hiding it, but over time you're going to find out what kind of chick she is.

I can tell where the OP is going with his argument: That maybe our judgement of girls being sluts in a negative light may manifest itself during the "pickup" as negative energy or a judgement of her sexuality. That will not help you get laid. Being selective will. There is a subtle difference.

I think flying nimbus just watched the latest video from rsdnation and was inspired to share his views on it and how he interpreted it.

The main message is to not be insecure and not to make sex a big deal. Do I agree with everything Tyler says in the video? Of course, not, but that doesn't mean that there is not knowledge to be gained from it.

I do agree with the video that even if a girl has had sex with a lot of guys, she's not thinking of that shit if she is in love with you. Unless you are an insecure chode, invading her privacy, and pushing her away with neediness and jealousy. Then all that love shit goes out the fucking window and she'll be looking for another man. Become a great man, and you won't have to deal with the shit. My main thing against fucking sluts is I don't want pussy that is getting regular random dick for the sake of my own safety and health. I'd rather have nice sweet fresh pussy that has had minimal contact with dick.

But within our societal construct, it is rude for a girl to tell you about her sexual exploits. It is a sign of disrespect. I don't want to hear that shit it's like her sharing with methe time she took a monster dump in the bathroom or a piss on the street.

In a perfect world, I'd only bang virgins who don't bleed and who have the sexual appetite and sexual knowledge of professional escorts.

We don't live in a perfect world.

[Duke Castile]

(01-16-2013 08:42 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:  

(01-16-2013 08:35 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

I read the first paragraph and I stopped.

You're making a lot of assumptions. No one on this forum is being "held back" by understanding the nature of women.

You can walk out and call any random girl a slut and you will be correct 90% of the time. EVERY girl will cheat under the right circumstances.

You're also being very arrogant to try and tell a bunch of guys that have collectively a shit load more experience than you that their thinking is wrong and yours is right.

I can't stand it when some newbie who has zero cred comes on here handing out life lessons.

Let me crack some eggs of knowledge on you.

I'lll fuck your girlfriend and let you ponder whether she was a slut or not.

Hey man, please share your experiences. That what a forum is all about.

My contention is that women generally (there are of course exceptions) will not cheat on you IF you are an alpha dude. That's means your hitting the gym, working your ass off, exciting, fuck her good and don't act like an insecure little bitch around her. that's because women get crazy attached to these kinds of guys

Women will cheat on you all the time if your a beta dude who's lazy, boring and insecure. Most men fall into this category

Oh really? Tell me more about being "alpha".

I've never heard the term.

[Grit]

(01-16-2013 08:26 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:  

Do yourselves a favor - be cool with the fact that women like sex and that most guys aren't worth being exclusive with.

Did you intend for this to be a fallacy? Not all sluts are women who enjoy sex. Most cases seem to be fucking for an alimony paycheck, fucking for an alpha's seed to cuckold, fucking for a new guaranteed boyfriend, fucking for profit. In fact, add all those up and you are left with very few women who fuck because its "fun." Its stupid to excuse the 90% of socially lecherous acts under the guise of "hey, its fun!"

[Ovid]

Alexander the Great emphasized that every man has his price, and realized it was much easier and faster to buy off the local garrison commanders than to spend time and men besieging cities. The same is undoubtedly true of women. Every girl will open her legs given the right confluence of factors (ovulating, bad day, good day, player who pushes all the right buttons and has a vibe that exactly matches hers, the weather that day, ad infinitum...)

Nevertheless, just as Alexander no doubt desired and expected loyalty even if pragmatically he knew that it could be undermined, so men innately esteem chastity -the ability for a woman to keep her legs closed and *not* ride the cock carousel, even if she has the ability to. None of us want a woman who has had dozens of cocks inside her, just as none of us want a woman with bladder control issues. Both of these types of women have their purpose... In the case of the slut (a girl who has opened her legs at least once before marriage and will more than likely do so again) the purpose is sport. Her actions show that she's not good wife material, but also show that she's willing and able to provide the right guy with a good time. Game is aided, rather than hindered, by the realization that most women today fall into the slut, rather than virgin bride, categories. Because I realize that 97% of women are sluts, and regard/treat them as such, I have zero inhibitions about pushing for as much as I can get. If she's not like that, she will assuredly let me know in no uncertain terms. Then, because I'm not looking to settle down, I Next her. If I assumed the best about every girl, the most I could ever hope for would be a peck on the cheek... Forget that crap; all it takes is one look around in a public place to see that most girls are very shamelessly flaunting their bodies, and are most likely going to reveal themselves as whores as soon as you get to know them for 2 minutes. Why not call a spade a spade?

[Pappy]

First of all, let's not attack this guy, he raises a legitimate question that needs to be addressed.

Thing is, it depends on what you're looking for and what kind of man you are. If you're the kind of guy who doesn't plan to make a family and you want to party, travel, have fun for the rest of your life, then whether the woman is a slut or not won't change a damn thing for you. The problem starts when you want to form serious relationships with them, meaning family and kids. Meaning, spending the rest of your life with the damn girl. The dynamic completely changes once you do that. Things that you accepted at first will really bother you. Sure, at the inital stage, when "love" and novelty are still strong, things are going to be fine. But when these go, and when you get to the point where every relationship needs work, you will see a huge difference between a "slut" vs a good girl.

(01-16-2013 07:46 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:  

I mean, did the 13th dick change her brain chemistry? Or was it the 3rd? Seriously, I'm trying to understand your perspective here.

Slut brain vs good girl thinking is so different. Most of the time :

Good girls love you more and everything is new to them. Sluts are unimpressed.

Good girls are emotionaly available and will connect on a deeper level. Sluts are more reserved and cautious and have a thick skin.

Good girls will work very hard to fix a relationship. Sluts are less patient and are ready to leave at the first sign of trouble.

Good girls are more innocent and less dangerous. Sluts are more cunning and manipulative.

Good girls are generally more family oriented and religious. Sluts wake up at 30 years old.

More specifically, sluts have no idea how to be good girlfriends. They're too used having plan B's hovering around them in case shit happens, too used to be with a guy who doesn't give a shit, too used to jealousy ploys and manipulation. They will bring this dynamic to your family, and when you come back home from a hard day of work, another evening of work will be starting. This will wear you down because you can't be a superstar all the time.

[Duke Castile]

Alexander also didn't hesitate to crush the slightest hint of mutiny with the swiftest brutality.

Nimbus's hamster is rationalizing slutty behavior and trying to say being "alpha" will reign in a slut, and she can be LTR material.

Good luck with that.


Funny how anyone that agrees or gives credibility to this notion are dudes with a low post count/reputation.

[flyingnimbus]

(01-16-2013 09:03 PM)UgSlayer Wrote:  

Everyone on this board has fucked sluts. God bless their corrupted souls or else how else would men in our era be getting so much random pussy?

I'm always screening for a cool girl I can have conversations with that is feminine and has had a minimal amount of sexual partners. Over time, you can tell which ones are worth investing in. Of course sometimes they are good at hiding it, but over time you're going to find out what kind of chick she is.

I can tell where the OP is going with his argument: That maybe our judgement of girls being sluts in a negative light may manifest itself during the "pickup" as negative energy or a judgement of her sexuality. That will not help you get laid. Being selective will. There is a subtle difference.

Let me clarify.

1. Guys get insecure when they find out that their gf has more sexual experience than he does

2. This is really silly because most guys are shit in bed, insecure and lazy, so it should be no surprise that women lose attraction for these guys. Legit guys that women do want to date usually have options and won't commit (common woman's frustration). Plus attractive women are propositioned literally hundreds of times a day for sex and even the "sluttiest" ones turn down the vast majority of them.

3. If you are a legit dude who takes care of himself, fucks her good and gives her emotional spikes, then even girls who have a lot of past partners will stay faithful to you.

[flyingnimbus]

(01-16-2013 09:04 PM)Grit Wrote:  

(01-16-2013 08:26 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:  

Do yourselves a favor - be cool with the fact that women like sex and that most guys aren't worth being exclusive with.

Did you intend for this to be a fallacy? Not all sluts are women who enjoy sex. Most cases seem to be fucking for an alimony paycheck, fucking for an alpha's seed to cuckold, fucking for a new guaranteed boyfriend, fucking for profit. In fact, add all those up and you are left with very few women who fuck because its "fun." Its stupid to excuse the 90% of socially lecherous acts under the guise of "hey, its fun!"

I'm not defending gold diggers, wanna be sugar babies or manipulative bitches. That's a different convo

[Ziltoid]

(01-16-2013 09:16 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:  

3. If you are a legit dude who takes care of himself, fucks her good and gives her emotional spikes, then even girls who have a lot of past partners will stay faithful to you.

Alright... I can't take this thread seriously anymore.
If your sexual MO is geared towards pleasing her, then, you're doing it wrong.

With that I'll take my exit, I don't have anything more to contribute here except sardonic remarks.

[Duke Castile]

(01-16-2013 09:18 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:  

(01-16-2013 09:04 PM)Grit Wrote:  

(01-16-2013 08:26 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:  

Do yourselves a favor - be cool with the fact that women like sex and that most guys aren't worth being exclusive with.

Did you intend for this to be a fallacy? Not all sluts are women who enjoy sex. Most cases seem to be fucking for an alimony paycheck, fucking for an alpha's seed to cuckold, fucking for a new guaranteed boyfriend, fucking for profit. In fact, add all those up and you are left with very few women who fuck because its "fun." Its stupid to excuse the 90% of socially lecherous acts under the guise of "hey, its fun!"

I'm not defending gold diggers, wanna be sugar babies or manipulative bitches. That's a different convo

Right, you're defending a "special" kind of slut. The good sluts. The ones that don't do that.

What are you fucking 20?

[FourToTheFloor]

It's not that sluts aren't perfectly good human beings, it's just that they aren't worth investing your time and effort into.

[flyingnimbus]

(01-16-2013 09:08 PM)Pappy Wrote:  

First of all, let's not attack this guy, he raises a legitimate question that needs to be addressed.

Thing is, it depends on what you're looking for and what kind of man you are. If you're the kind of guy who doesn't plan to make a family and you want to party, travel, have fun for the rest of your life, then whether the woman is a slut or not won't change a damn thing for you. The problem starts when you want to form serious relationships with them, meaning family and kids. Meaning, spending the rest of your life with the damn girl. The dynamic completely changes once you do that. Things that you accepted at first will really bother you. Sure, at the inital stage, when "love" and novelty are still strong, things are going to be fine. But when these go, and when you get to the point where every relationship needs work, you will see a huge difference between a "slut" vs a good girl.

(01-16-2013 07:46 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:  

I mean, did the 13th dick change her brain chemistry? Or was it the 3rd? Seriously, I'm trying to understand your perspective here.

Slut brain vs good girl thinking is so different. Most of the time :

Good girls love you more and everything is new to them. Sluts are unimpressed.

Good girls are emotionaly available and will connect on a deeper level. Sluts are more reserved and cautious and have a thick skin.

Good girls will work very hard to fix a relationship. Sluts are less patient and are ready to leave at the first sign of trouble.

Good girls are more innocent and less dangerous. Sluts are more cunning and manipulative.

Good girls are generally more family oriented and religious. Sluts wake up at 30 years old.

More specifically, sluts have no idea how to be good girlfriends. They're too used having plan B's hovering around them in case shit happens, too used to be with a guy who doesn't give a shit, too used to jealousy ploys and manipulation. They will bring this dynamic to your family, and when you come back home from a hard day of work, another evening of work will be starting. This will wear you down because you can't be a superstar all the time.

Interesting points.

I think most women have both personalities. For example, I've known this girl Lauren for 5 years. She met a dude her freshman year of college, lost her vCard to him and they dated for 3 years. She embodied all of the "good girl" traits during that time. Absolute perfect gf (he was a REALLY lame dude).

After he dumped her, she went on a rampage. Banged 9 guys in 6 months (including me)

But then she met a legit dude in class, and they've been going out for over a year, and she's back to being the most innocent girl you'd ever know (except in the bedroom, from what she tells me)

I've seen a similar pattern with most of my female friends. They're capable of being amazing girlfriends, but yea, they bang other guys when they're single. And yea, some of them have banged dudes when they're boyfriends act like chumps. I think that's totally fine... But then again I'm not interested in an ltr with a needy woman that I have to take care of.

[flyingnimbus]

(01-16-2013 09:23 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

(01-16-2013 09:18 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:  

(01-16-2013 09:04 PM)Grit Wrote:  

(01-16-2013 08:26 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:  

Do yourselves a favor - be cool with the fact that women like sex and that most guys aren't worth being exclusive with.

Did you intend for this to be a fallacy? Not all sluts are women who enjoy sex. Most cases seem to be fucking for an alimony paycheck, fucking for an alpha's seed to cuckold, fucking for a new guaranteed boyfriend, fucking for profit. In fact, add all those up and you are left with very few women who fuck because its "fun." Its stupid to excuse the 90% of socially lecherous acts under the guise of "hey, its fun!"

I'm not defending gold diggers, wanna be sugar babies or manipulative bitches. That's a different convo

Right, you're defending a "special" kind of slut. The good sluts. The ones that don't do that.

What are you fucking 20?

Dude, a girl who when hooked up with guys while she's single is very different than a gold digger.

[flyingnimbus]

(01-16-2013 09:20 PM)Ziltoid Wrote:  

(01-16-2013 09:16 PM)flyingnimbus Wrote:  

3. If you are a legit dude who takes care of himself, fucks her good and gives her emotional spikes, then even girls who have a lot of past partners will stay faithful to you.

Alright... I can't take this thread seriously anymore.
If your sexual MO is geared towards pleasing her, then, you're doing it wrong.

With that I'll take my exit, I don't have anything more to contribute here except sardonic remarks.

An, so ziltoids sex advice is "pump for 30 seconds and you're good." /facepalm

[Duke Castile]

Look Nimbus, I know your intent was good, but you are way out of your area of expertise.

I'm going to save you some trouble.

You try and LTR a slut, I don't give a shit how "alpha" you think you are, she is one to many drinks away from betraying you at any time.

Saying guys are insecure is fucking retarded.

It's more accurate to say guys simply don't trust sluts.

[UgSlayer]

Haha Tyler says in the end if you're seeing a girl that's not your girlfriend just some chick you're fucking, invite your friend over and let him fuck her in front of you, and that this is what will kill the jealous insecure chode inside of you.

That is an extreme and radical idea, but Patrice O'neal said the same thing.

"It aint fun if the homies can't have none"

I don't agree with that notion, just throwing it out there for discussion.