Quote: (07-22-2014 11:30 PM)speakeasy Wrote:
I'm not sold on Brazil being a black man's paradise. Seems most these dudes are just paying for pussy down there. Coming down with the image of all these bronze colored video-vixen types lined up on the beach ready to fuck any black American guy that steps off the plane. I've had private conversations with other black men on RVF that have gone down to Brazil and none of them killed it down there. It's pretty well known that Brazilians like most-Latins gravitate to European looks. Being black in Brazil is a DLV and most the darker people are poor. Not to say Brazilians are all racist and you won't have a good time, but being black in Brazil is not exotic at all and there's a strong preference for lighter skin.
I watched the "Frustrated" documentary. I didn't see any of these dudes pulling patricinhas from the hottest clubs in Leblon. My impression was that many are just hitting up the termas.
I get mixed reports.
A brother from another forum, who lives there with a black woman as his wife, has told me many times how some other black guys from his city in the US come to visit and end up doing p4p because they are lazy and want a lighter skinned one, instead of the black ones catcalling at them.
I know a small handful of others, that learned the language and pull light skinned ones and other black women very easily and did not do any P4P. One brought one back to the US on a K1 visa. Thing is, all these brothers are very educated and have a little paper. Like Chemists, engineers, finance/accountants, etc. Those others I mentioned earlier....not so much.
Perhaps background is the issue. One of the succesful ones I spoke of, I talk to from time to time, told me all the bullshit that other brothers talk about in Brazil, like the racism, and lightskinned girls not wanting black men, is complete bullshit according to him. He claims he has never had that problem yet. He is very tall and arguably quite handsome. He looks like he is at least semi wealthy from all his pics I have seen. He took classes to learn the language and works hard at it. He visits and doesn't live there yet. He used online game before his trips and then pipelines relentlessly off that with using their jealously off each other. You could maybe correlate that with the things I did in China in a lot of ways.
All in all, I conclude that all of these things in it's entirety is just good old fashioned "game". Those who do not have it, will always resort to playing with trigger or pulling that p4p card. A combination of language, style, online, and pipeline game can do wonders in any foreign location.
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