Quote: (12-19-2012 01:51 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:
Quote: (12-17-2012 02:47 PM)xsplat Wrote:
I saw the same scene at a hotel here in Indonesia. Renting out the ballroom of a hotel for a girls party.
There is money here. And then there is Money here. And then there is MONEY here.
Would you say Indonesia might be today's highest Poosy Paradise for a light skinned, educated white guy of 50? What city would be best?
Indonesia is a big place, so you can find some variety in what's on offer in the locations.
It's a bit selfish of me, I know, but some locations I'd rather keep secret. But the general ideas are:
Kuta, Bali: a fun town to visit and even live in, and great if you are into pay for play, or are young and handsome and just up for a little fun. Not a good choice if you prefer LTRs. I don't find the native Balinese girls as attractive as the Javanese. Girls will tend to be either hard core players, or hard core husband hunting, with not much in between. Finding a girl for casual dating, or western style sex without either money or commitment, is not popular here. Girls are professionally female - don't expect a career girl to offer sex and companionship as a free exchange for sex and companionship.
Town X. An small city with very few foreigners, but a long history of occupation by various western powers and even the Japanese. The girls are some of the most beautiful hybrids you'll ever see. Very open to foreigners. You get rock star status here. Many girls are conservative and virgins right up into their early twenties, but you'll also find your player girls, and girls with the higher socio-sexual orientations. Very little nightlife. Very little English. Social circles easy to break into.
Jakarta: Everything available. Great nightlife of all sorts, women of all classes. Hot and bad air. A big city that takes a while to get around - an hour or two to some locations. Has some areas with many expats and foreigners.
Town Y. A mid sized city with a few foreigners. College town. Women of most classes open to foreigners, and sometimes actively interested. Poor nightlife. Almost no English. Some pretty girls. Sexual attitudes same as anywhere in the world - girls with high, low, and medium socio sexual orientations. Strong advantage to the westerner, with the real challenge being meeting the girls. If you look good in an online profile you can do well, if you don't, you'll struggle to get a few online meet ups. But of those conversions can be good.
If you really want the rock star experience, then go off the beaten path, where a white skinned guy is rarely seen. Men and women will say hello to you on the street. Teens and college aged girls will titter. Turning that into a conversion is another story - some of those tittering girls will be thinking in terms of marriage before sex, or be wary to let themselves get isolated.
A guy has a lot of options for his strategy here. Short term, medium, very long term. Whatever your flavor, you'll find niches of girls willing to accommodate. And some can be reeled in on a bait and switch.
It's been 7 or 8 years since I was in the Phils, but I'd say the Phils is easier for girls. Thailand 8 or 9 years ago was also in some ways easier - it's more sexually open there. But the girls are sneakier, and I've never met anyone who can take them seriously. They're just playthings. Thai culture is the most irritating of all - their emphasis on face really gets to you, especially as it's so fucking hypocritical and shallow - making any sense of intimacy or deep conversation impossible. Fluff and stuff, but fun fluff and stuff.
Pussy paradise? Depending on what you want and where you are in your life, it can be. Some guys live in Jakarta and pull a new girl from a club every night. Some of that is by paying for the girls drugs, or taxi fair (I'll leave that mis-spelling), some is just novelty sex. Or you could do what I do and find girls to live with you. Or even have a small harem. Age differences aren't as acceptable as in the lower classes in Thailand or the Phils, however if you are good at your job of seduction, you still target girls outrageously below you in age. I target girls from 19 up to 26, with most being about 21 or so, and I'm on the wrong end of mid forties. Some of the girls I date are light skinned, which means that the upper class locals will also be targetting them. That's harder to do in Thailand, and getting harder in the Phils, I'm told.