Quote: (02-11-2015 01:33 PM)kaotic Wrote:
Quote: (02-11-2015 01:24 PM)Courage Reborn Wrote:
Quote: (02-11-2015 12:29 PM)kaotic Wrote:
I have to disagree on this specific part, gay high schoolers are very social, they aren't outcasts, and are typically popular in high schools nowadays.
It's the "cool" thing to be gay now remember ?
Do you say that from experience, or what you see in media?
I don't believe a school exists where boys who are soft don't get picked on & bullied.
I see it in both. When I was in high school, kids being gay and out closet was being fully accepted.
Sure their might have been bullies, but now they are protected class of people, especially in high school, which has zero tolerance policies on prejudices and bullying.
Most the gays in my high school and college weren't lambasted, bullied, or brought down. They felt "empowered" and the "you go girl" attitudes.
I still think this dudes gay and attention whoring, but like I said if he really isn't gay then he's onto something.
Went to school in the hood, can confirm gay dude wasn't bullied it was more of a "that dude better not touch me"...
Personally one of my good friends is bi-sexual, met him while going out and I can say if many of my gay friends were straight they would be killing it. All my bi-sexual friends have/had girlfriends since I've knownw them on top of the fact that they are always with girls...
Quote: (02-11-2015 02:04 PM)DChambers Wrote:
Quote: (02-10-2015 07:13 PM)CJ_W Wrote:
Quote: (02-09-2015 03:07 PM)Menace Wrote:
Let's see, shit food but with fancy candles that make it all ironic and cool. Girls he obviously didn't bang. The vast majority of guys who roll with groups of girls are not banging any of them. But the unwashed masses think he is "boss" because they equate mere proximity to girls to banging them, which is the only things that matters. Car is irrelevant.
Conclusion: gay
PAGING DR LIGHT! DR. LIGHT, YOU ARE NEEDED IN THE EMERGENCY ROOM, WE HAVE A CODE!
(Dr. Light = Distant Light)
Not discounting what Dr. Light says, but I can attest to the bolded part above. Most kids my age rolling with groups of girls are not banging any of them. Yes there are some, but they don't have the vibe that the kid in the photo has going on.
I have several acquaintances that tend to be a part of groups of girls but are firmly in the friendzone. They tend to develop oneitis for one girl and end up sucked into her social circle. There are some exceptions, usually the naturals, who avoid the friendzone and end up banging one or more of the girls, but they are few and far between.
Agreed, yes they don't have "vibe" like dude in picture BUT sometimes you never know. There are maybe 2-3 guys out of many who I consider "sleeper cells" where you don't see them do anything and on their FB it doesn't seem like much.
BUT...If you sit and watch them they are discreetly "planting seeds". I know this because...
- Guy #1, one of my girls comes up to me saying my friend wants her to come over so he can shoot pictures of her. (I knew what he was doing so I was telling her "cool". However she wanted me to come with her)
- Guy #2, a girl I used to mess with turned out she knew him and right then and there he was asking her to do a 3some with him and his girlfriend. As time went on I noticed he hooked up with tons of chicks.
I should also mention that it is still a small "niche" in comparison to the overall world as it's rare to come across a guy that hangs with lots of women. What you describe reminds me of social circles of asian dudes and indian dudes where little to nothing is going on haahhaa (The french likes hanging in mixed groups but tend to be more fun/flirty with their girls)
As for the whole "gay" stuff
It's always a pet peeve to hear in the community the mentioning of "gay" because...
- Gay guys tend to have a better "social" mindset
- Gay guys more times than not are on the right track JUST they have little to no sexual interest
- The shit that goes on between women and gay guys makes you wonder if the person is gay or just a "sex addict" (A gorgeous model chick once revealed that she had sex with my tranny friend)
One of my social circles is heavily based around LBGT crowd and I remember after hanging with them it was hard for me to hangout with straight guys because the level of thirst was so high that it was obvious how drastically different the vibe was.
I can assure you, blatantly hooking up with chicks in the middle of an after party or a bunch of girls naked isn't going to happen amongst a bunch of hungry "straight men".
Funny enough even my good friend who had recently came from the army started to enjoy hanging with me because not only was it fun but it was just straight up "sexual" fun. (More times than not we were the only striaght ones in the group amongst 20-30 women, gays and bi-sexuals)