Quote: (11-07-2014 03:46 PM)robreke Wrote:
what do I text next guys. even though I'm dating others....I Want to keep the door open on this ex as she's cool. Here's the situation:
I saw her at whole foods today and she was friendly. She said " the hair on my neck stands up sometimes when I come here cause I know I'm going to see you" We broke up about a month ago as she wanted to date a long time ex.
We were in the parking lot saying goodbye....and we hugged. I said "Hey" and went in for the kiss....she stopped me rather emotionally and said "No No" I just smirked at her , looked in her eyes and said "You look beautiful" She said thank you. I said "have a good weekend " and walked off.
SHe just text me " Robreke it is hard enough resisting being too friendly and comfortable around you when I see you as it is...I truly wish you wouldn't try to kiss me like that when you see me."
She did sleep with him toward the end of our relationship I know this though she's never admitted it. Though her and I were never exclusive but working in that direction. I'd kind of like to say "well your current boyfriend didn't respect the fact that you and I were going out apparently.....that is assuming you told him we were"
Don't want to be too smart aleck in my response...but tell her it's hard for ME to resist kissing her after the hot relationship we had. WHat's a good text comeback?
Door sounds open to me, you have a few options:
1) Radio silent, see if she responds, if not throw a restart text
2) Stop talking to her, she's an ex that cheated on you with an old ex
3) Respond with a funny remark that isn't about her new BF or your relationship, parlay into meeting up.
Observations:
-She ejected and got on an ex's dick, it's a high possiblity she'll come back around to yours. (actions speak louder than words)
-She obviously has IOI (hair on my neck stands up, it's hard enough resisting)
-DON'T call her out or insult her about her actions against you, especially if you're trying to keep that bridge open.
-DON'T tell her it's "hard for me to resist" <-this shows thirst and you'll feed her ego