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This forum used to pop off years ago but it is quite dead now. I was wondering where all the members have gone. Is there a new forum that I don't know about that everybody is using?

Anyone here actually got intel on Malaysia and how to make it worthwhile? Doesn't have to be KL.

Is a U.S. citizen liable for child support to a woman in a foreign country (without a reciprocity law), to a child, even if there is no U.S. residency history of the woman or child? What is the mechanism? What is the enforcement?
Apparently, everything is gay now and the Hague past a 2007 Convention to further screw first-world fathers and reduce our birth rate with foreign women abroad.

I currently don't have a problem, but as time goes on and the calculations look more negative for kids in the U.S., I was open to the possibility of procreating abroad, marrying her there, keeping her and the kid there. I'm sure there are defects to this plan, legally, but I am too busy to parse and interrogate unscrupulous or incompentent lawyers at this preliminary stage.

Really sorry for the long post, but I have a lot to say lol

I haven't been on a date in several years. I don't think I even remember what to do or say. I have never been good around women. And I've only ever been on a few dates in my life. I've also haven't had sex in 8 years. And then only a handful of times, usually just once per woman, and only 9 women in my whole life.

It's ironic because people always tell me I am handsome, charming, articulate, intelligent, etc...and I have good photos on dating apps, and still nothing.

Moreover, the limited sex I've had with women were all 5's and 6's (at best).

I've never made sweet, passionate love to a beautiful young woman. I have no idea what that feels like. And that's what's missing my life.

I am not sexually attracted to women around my own age, only younger. Sweet, soft spoken, gentle, non-argumentative, feminine (but not feminist) and loyal in a LTR. I have never been the ONS kind of guy, although I've had them.

Now, I will go into detail about each of the 9 women.

Keep in mind, I never enjoyed sex with any of them, not a single one, and none of them ever had an orgasm.

The whole affair lasted only a few min each person. I've never had sex all night long or even for 1 hour. Never sweated with anyone. Never heard any moaning or screaming. Nothing sensual like that. I have never experienced any of that stuff. I suppose in a way, I am still a 40 year old virgin haha lol

Often I never came, and wasn't even hard most of the time. Mostly, because they were 5's and 6's, I never really got turned on by them, but I had sex with them anyways just to have sex.

The last time I did that was 8 years ago. So I have been celibate since then.

Now to the details of each woman:

The last girl was in Capetown, South Africa - a white girl, kind of like a liberal hipster, likes to have sex with alienated underdog minority guys (that's me lol). I didn't enjoy the sex (we tried twice). It was very mechanical, no passion or love, even the lust factor was low.

The strange thing is I have a strong libido, but it's only active for 8's and 9's, and all I ever found was 5's and 6's. So the girl in Cape town was in 2016. That was the last time I had sex.

Before that was 2014, a couchsurfer crashing at my place. A Taiwanese-American liberal girl from California. I later found out she was raped in high school (she lost her virginity in a party house to a gang rape). Again, I did not enjoy sex with her, and it nothing to do with the rape, I didn't know that about that until years later when she finally confessed what happened to her in her younger days. She also didn't enjoy the sex with me either. I think we tried 3x. I wasn't even attracted to her, but she was very into to me. She loved me. I broke her heart.

Before her, there were 2 women in Australia, including 1 Kiwi (both in 2012). Again, no attraction to either, and both were older, one a single mom. Complete turn offs, both of them, but I had sex anyways.

I suppose just to see what this sex thing was all about lol.

Super disappointed by my sexual experiences

In 2006, in Mexico, I had sex with a German student, again, no feeling, and it lasted 5min, and she asked to have her bed to herself for the night, and I chuckled and left. I was couchsurfing at the time. She acted awkward around me the next morning. Avoiding eye contact. I moved out.

in 2005, I had sex with a Canadian ESL teacher in China, again no enjoyment. I pushed her against the locker, she liked it and jumped on me, I sat on a chair, she started riding me, the chair broke, we got caught by someone watching us lol. She got embarrassed and went outside to smoke lol

A few months later, I had sex with a French backpacker in Krabi, Thailand. Again, not attracted and she even said in a cute accent - C'est ne pas normal - this is not normal (meaning the sex wasn't normal). And it wasn't - I could feel that.

I also had sex with a Thai beach girl on Ko Pangan (full moon island). I did anal for the first time with her. Again no feeling, no love. No passion. Nothing at all.

Before that. I lost my virginity in 2002 with a girl younger than me (but more experienced). Unlike me, she went around with all the high school guys. I remained a virgin throughout high school. Not usual for around here.

I live in Vancouver, Canada. I am 5'7. 145lbs. Slim, slender. Olive skin. Stubble. Above average face. Masculine. Super Minority lol

Not sure what else to say. I came on here to ask advice about my first date. I want there to be a second date. I am naturally good around women when I'm comfortable, but I feel really uncomfortable in this town.

I live in a really socially awkward town. Meeting people here is really hard. And I am looking for 8's and 9's. Is it even possible?

How much does age factor in? Or penis size? Or sexual experience?

I go to the gym 3x per week. I have muscle. I'm healthy. I'm strong (inside and out). I am confident, direct. At the same time, sensitive and romantic. Not sure why I am so unlucky with women? My father was also bad with women. My brother is a pro. I feel like an enigma.

Not sure where to take my first date. I used to take girls to the park bench and sit and look deeply into their eyes and talk to them and figure them out a bit. And that is where I took my first girlfriend, my first date, my first kiss, and also my first heartbreak at 19.

I was devasted. Perhaps that is why I am so unlucky with women. I have no game, only my natural personality lol. I have anxiety approaching women. I never cold approach. No lines. They usually come to me and flirt and then I reciprocate. I am not a bar, pub or club guy. I like cooking for my girl at home.

Some good things about me. I speak 7 languages, have traveled to 60 countries, and I know a lot of knowledge based stuff. I am a natural teacher.

Girls are usually attracted to my brain. I recall this upsetting the other guys, creating jealousy between the men.

I forgot to mention in high school, I never talked with girls. Never touched, kissed or hugged anyone. Girls liked me in school, but I never liked them back. Nothing happened. Because they were 5's and 6's. Even when the hottest girl in school came up to me one day and put her arm around me, I froze. I didn't even communicate. This happened a few more times with really hot girls wanting to dance with me. Because I am a good dancer. Again, nothing happened.

I was a loner in high school and college. I had my first experiences after high school ended (immediately the summer after). It's like the hand of God was keeping me safe from those high school sexual experiences.

Due to my high libido, it's likely I would have never stopped sleeping around once I got a taste of a 8 or 9 white girl, you know blonde, blue eyes, fetish. I always wanted that, never got it. Maybe that is why I never hooked up in high school.

By the way, I have never owned a smartphone. Not sure if that disqualifies me from dating. I use a laptop and the web based version of dating apps.

Again, sorry for the long post. Thank you for reading. Any thoughts?

I've read Jake Ultra and Patricia's Smartphone and enjoyed them. Wondering if anyone had a list of fictional stories from Roosh V and any other good ones to rec?

Hey trying to find a job I can do remotely to make travel easier. I have a bachelor's in history and psychology both useless. Went back for biotechnology Certification and worked in that field for years not making a decent salary working as manufacturing tech in clean rooms. Got married got divorced owed money because of divorce so worked for cash in moving business to keep court system out of my pocket. But now I'm trying to use a Comptia A plus certification which i got as a prerequisite for another cert.

Anyway what job titles could I search for with a Comp Tia Aplus certification? Also is a security plus certification worth getting or should I just learn to code or do networking. Ive been given ot of bad advice from people I trust on certs not sure whose right. Lots of people saw AWS other computer security or networking certs. I have a side hustle that pays my bills Im really just looking for IT experience.

Imagine throwing this entire forum under the bus because you think Jesus is real and you have been a sinner all your life, whilst at the same time blaming everything on the jews, and yet not realizing the BLINDINGLY OBVIOUS FACT, that Jesus is a hoax WRITTEN by the jews to trick the stupid fucking goyim into giving up their own Gods and cultures, and instead following their God, the King of the Jews!

Man Roosh, if you're reading this, you REALLY fucked up, "brother."

Just curious, are there any other guys who learned game in their 30s, had a decade of fun, and now in their 40s & married?

That has been quite a transition. I'm interested to hear experiences. "Married game" is a different category of game...

The Red Pill idea gets confused.  It refers to the 1999 Matrix movie but did not appear in The Game (2005) or The Mystery Method (2006).  It started around 2007 (in the Sosuave forum).  Basically, posters would advise lovelorn guys to "Wake up, take the Red Pill.  The reality of dating is different than you think."

The Red Pill is not about looks, money, or status.  Self-improvement forums tell you to work out and get rich.  This is anti-game.  It is slow, and ignores the existence of gymcels and rich dateless men.  You are not going to meet many women in a hardcore gym or coding job.  The self-improvement mindset can weaken your inner game and make you think you are currently not good enough.  Women sense this.  They do not want insecure men who hate their jobs.  

To a large extent, the dating market works well and matches tall, rich, attractive, and educated people with their counterparts.  Yes, it is harder to meet women if you are ugly and poor.  Roissy wrote that game is a force multiplier, giving you more success in your current condition.

The Red Pill explains the counterintuitive phenomenon where treating women poorly often works better than being a nice guy.  Seinfeld even featured Opposite Day.  The insight of The Red Pill is that women use indirect methods to screen out fakers, poseurs, and emotionally weak men.  Amy Schumer had a funny skit about men who wear pretentiously wear fedoras and call women "m'lady".  When rejected and friendzoned, these men cry and get hostile or even violent.  This is what women want to avoid!

Wikipedia even has a number of related about informational problems.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adverse_selection
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Market_for_Lemons
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Winner%27s_curse
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Screening_(economics)

Women want a man who is smarter and more sophisticated.  But these women don't have the knowledge and information to tell whether the man is smart and emotionally strong.  So women look for social proof and preselection to see whether a man is popular with friends, peers, and other women.  Women are repulsed by desperation, neediness, and insecurity.  Women figure that if a man is insecure, then there is a good reason.

In economics, sellers sometimes invest in "signals" to communicate quality.  For example, a bank might invest in an expensive marble lobby.  It doesn't make them a better bank.  But customers figure that the bank will be around for a long time if it invests so much in the lobby.  To be credible, signals must be hard to fake.  A Rolex watch is easy to fake.  Bottle service at the nightclub is hard to fake.  Muscles are hard to fake.   

Women often use "thirst traps" with sexy pictures or spicy conversational bait.  Thirsty men will jump and throw out unearned compliments.  Confident, experience, and secure men will stay cool and nonreactive.

Women will provoke men with "fitness tests" or "shit tests" to see whether these men enforce boundaries.  It is really hard for men on a cold streak to resist letting a woman get her way.  Again, men with options know their value, and will not tolerate bad behavior for hints of sex.  These men are willing to walk away, and this is what makes them attractive.

The point is that confident mature men have a strong mental frame and sense of self, and a silly woman cannot change it.  These men will not get angry or upset by a shit test.  They will simply decline to play.  The smart men realize that women often behave badly because that feel attraction; it is a good sign.

Here is another indirect example.  Say that you recently moved to the area, or came out of a relationship.  This gives you a good excuse for being single.  Women hate long-term local losers.  They will ready date separated or divorced men.

You cannot use the Red Pill at work, to make money, get fit, etc.  Those areas are totally different.  Indeed, corporations want employees who are agreeable and work as part of a team.  There might be counterintuitive ideas about investing or fitness, but they are completely different from dating.

Roosh could have been touring the world, living a luxury lifestyle with a monthly income of more than $10,000, but Google dislikes forums and hate content. So he had to take a job, like a loser.



PAG on the other hand is killing it