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This BBC article is about young men joining traditional religion, lifting weights, and having their wives home school their kids to avoid liberal influences.

"They see it as a military, rigid, disciplinary, masculine, authoritarian religion, ... . It's almost as if the old American Puritans and their craziness is resurfacing."

It reminds me of Roosh, except for the wife and kids.

Young US men are joining Russian churches promising 'absurd levels of manliness'

I first got into game in 2010 and must say it's interesting to see how it's all panned out.

Was I successful? I guess successful enough. I got 12 lays in 1 year averaging one per month at my best. I have had multiple long term girlfriends too.
That took a lot of funnelling, going out, getting numbers, approaching, I used to think 1-2% conversion was decent if you were focusing on quality.
100 interactions (maybe 25 per week) for a lay. 

Some might say that's bad but I know guys who literally go years without anything. 

I used to know some guys who were counting 50/100+ lays. Were these guys weird? Probably, much more single-minded than me. 
Above average attractiveness, completely shameless, focused 100% on results. 
All these guys eventually settled down with long-term partners too. 

Today in 2025 not sure if game even really exists : 

Nightclubs and bars where you traditionally would meet people largely shut down
Street game is less effective and less socially tolerated than ever
Alcohol consumption down
Gym and run clubs are booming - but actually proper athletics is down
Steriod usage booming - looksmax trend is here
Festivals are doing ok but many going bankrupt
Dating apps still exist but massively degraded since 2013/14 era - described as a swamp for women and a desert for men
People glued to their phones - avg person spends 4-5 hours on their phones outside of work
Overtourism is a big problem in places like Spain, Croatia, many cities & countries
Many young people are super poor relative to 10 years ago - can't even afford rent for a room
Huge rise in male virgins - not surprising
Attention spans are fucked
Social media is mostly dead outside Tiktok


If you ask an average person how a young guy should meet women they will say "delete the apps, join clubs".

But to make a actual headway these guys would need to be doing multiple female heavy demographic clubs like :
run club, salsa, gymnastics, pilates, figure ice skating - and be able to enjoy the investment

If he joins a football club because he likes football then it doesn't work ha.


Moreover, culturally there's been a shift :

People spend more time online now but it's mostly a useless waste of time.

Back in the day you could fly into a place, post you had arrived and find people to hang out for a drink.
Sure some of them were losers but the guys who had been repped highly were mostly good, esp if repped positively by someone you had met firsthand.
You could also do this on facebook or reddit - now also deadzones.

You could find people who had good successful businesses or financial acumen and ask them for advice.
There were people who genuinely could inspire.

Hope was a thing. People believed in opportunity.

Incels were detested to say the least. It's weird to me manosphere today = murderous incel. These guys were seen as trash.
Mainstream racists were not really a thing until 2015/16. Before then they were on Stormfront.
Now you get Netflix Adolescence series and people thing this is what manosphere is about. 

Trans thing was not an issue either. 
I spent a lot of time in Thailand and never thought this would one day become something western media would obsess over. 
Booming among Gen Z and contrary to perceptions it's more girls becoming boys than vice versa and strong link with autism.

AI is obviously taking off - up until now I had no real feeling on where we were going in 2020s post-covid.
Clearly AI is going to trend hard for a long time. 
2 years ago Chat GBT was useless, 1 year ago it could do some cool things, now it's actually scary impressive and you know it only gets better from here.

Crypto getting mainstream acceptance and BTC thriving 
Alts mostly exposed & universally accepted as scams even within crypto.

Worldwide tensions pretty bad. Much more of a realist multipolar world rather than a unipolar liberal rules based order 
USA as the policeman you sometimes resented but generally appreciated - now very unpredictable.

Demographic collapse with birth rates withering away in almost all the world except Africa & Middle East

Global warming - I think really died off as an issue in the public consciousness post-covid. In 2007 this was huge.
When covid had airports shuttered and 100% cars off the road and yet barely a dip in worldwide CO2 I think many realised it's a useless/hopeless fight.

Hard to gauge any discernible pop culture icons. All these bands like Coldplay and singers like Taylor Swift were a thing pre-2010s. Yet still now they are the biggest? 
It's like mainstream culture stopped. Replaced by niche interests on spotify playlists.

Cinema mostly dying too - repeat after repeat, sequel after sequel. Tom Cruise still making bank though.

People are atomised

Personally I am doing well for myself. I have lived in many expensive cities, good salary, nice bank account, enjoy going out, not extremely wealthy but fairly wealthy.
I can most likely retire early.

I have female friends, I am socially well adjusted. I am fit and in shape.

Yet sometimes I think about how is everyone else is doing. I don't think it's as easy for the upcoming generation as it was 10 years ago.
I think dating and game are not in a great place. It's harder than ever to meet people online and then catch up with them in real life.

Hope it pans out better but let's see.

Hey, approaching girls from the side and front is easy and natural but how do I approach a girl from behind on a skinny English pavement? Cheers.

If you can make a girl have even one orgasm during sex, you skyrocket the chances of her coming back for round 2. Plus, I don’t know about you, but for me it feels deeply satisfying to watch a girl have an intense orgasm, while I’m inside of her. So, how do you do it?

The first step is lots and lots of foreplay. This is something guys often “forget” about. As a bare minimum, I recommend at least 10 minutes of foreplay, but ideally a lot more. This is the part where you kiss her neck, suck on her nipples, kiss down her body, tease her, etc. The ultimate sign that you did enough foreplay is if she’s begging you to have sex with her.

A great foreplay technique is to give her a massage. During the massage, you gently rub oil on her back as you slowly kiss her neck. Slowly, move towards her vagina and build up anticipation. I also like to rub my dick against her ass, while I’m massaging her back.

By the time you get to sex, the girl should be extremely wet and practically begging for your dick. Try different positions until you find one that makes her moan the most. A version of missionary where you put her legs on your shoulders is great for hitting her G-spot, which can give a girl a very powerful orgasm

Pro tip: get a Hitachi magic wand vibrator and put it on her clit while you fuck her. This is all but guaranteed to give a girl multiple orgasms.

To learn more, along with tips & tricks, check out the full guide below

https://www.noadsplease.com/how-to-make-...cum-guide/

This guide will show you the smoothest, wittiest, and funniest Tinder bios out there.  Writing a solid Tinder bio is way more important than most guys realize. But first, it is important to understand what the role of a bio is. A good bio will NOT get you more matches (that is the job of your pictures). Yet, a bad bio can definitely loose you matches.

That being said, what a solid bio can do is help you stand out from all the other guys she’s matched with—and that really matters. Getting the match is just the first step; if you want to actually get the date, you need to catch her attention. That’s what a well-written bio can do.

One of the biggest mistakes guys make on dating apps is writing their bio like it’s a job application. That’s the wrong move. Attraction isn’t about listing your accomplishments—it’s about vibes and emotion. You want her to feel something when she reads it. And also humor goes a long way, if you can make her laugh, you’re already doing better than most guys

What are examples of good tinder bios?

Bio #1:

"You're single, im single, you know what that means....no one loves us"

As you can see this bio is very short & sweet. That is ok though, longer isn’t always better. This bio accomplishes just one thing, which is show you have a sense of humor. That alone though is very powerful. And will result in better results than all the logical accomplishments in the world. Feel free to copy this verbatim if you’d like

Bio #2:

I got a B+ in human sexuality in college so lets just say i know my way around a

*checks poorly scribbled notes*

Cliboris

This bio is also short & sweet and relies on humor. However, it serves on additional purpose which is to mildly screen the girl through the use of sexual humor. In addition, to making you stand out a good bio can also screen girls. For example, if you are looking for something casual your bio can screen out the girls who are not into that. There are different levels of screening though and this would be a pretty mild one. Only the most uptight girls would get turned off by this bio.

Bio #3:

6'0

-Dominant
-Assertive, yet charming
-Traveler of 20+ countries
-Trilingual
-Expert cuddler
-No felonies

Weaknesses include: good sense of humor, great ass, and Intelligence

This bio hits on three big elements: humor, sexual authority, and DHVs (Display of higher value). The humor is communicated through things like “expert cuddler” and “no felonies”. The sexual authority through “dominant” and “assertive”. The DHVs are things like “veteran” and “trilingual”.

In addition, this bio also contains a moderate amount of screening. First, there is the sexual screening. A girl who is super uptight is likely to swipe left on this bio. There is also some element of physical screening, but it is done in a tongue & cheek type of way so as to avoid coming off as a douche. Feel free to repurpose this bio in whichever way suits you best

**To see more great bios, including my personal favorite, check out the full guide below**

https://www.noadsplease.com/best-tinder-bios-for-guys/

In West Europe, as a kizomba dancer (with some bachata basic toolbox), I noticed a clear change in the game in the SBK scenes and especially in the kizomba scene. This since post-covid time 2021-2025.

Men are more cautious and careful in their approaches and women seem to get empowered by a dynamic that gives them the upper hand on the paper, especially after some recent lawsuit cases among the teachers / event organizers. Even teachers have a hard time pulling consistently like before.

For the SBK dancing guys among us, 
Did you observe the same precary situation?
How do you cope with the change in dynamics in the scene?
Do you observe a drop in your results?
How do you adapt your strategy to still get consistent lays?
Did you switch to another dancing style?

(I am myself more of a kizomba dancer with some rudimentary bachata)

In this guide, i'm going to break down the 3 key rules required to succeed on dating apps in 2025 as a man. As I’m sure you know, girls are getting flooded with messages so it’s important to not make the same mistakes as most guys. This guide will help you stand out amongst the competition, text like a pro, and lead to more dates, hookups, and relationships.

Rule 1: Keep Your Opening Message Short

Most guys on Tinder go overly fancy and think they have to jump through hoops to impress the girl. So, they tend to put way too much time and energy into their Tinder opener. No matter how attractive you are, with an excessive Tinder pickup line, the girl gets turned off. Because when you put that much effort into your first text, the girl tends to think you don’t often match with girls of her caliber.

Avoid pickup lines or any over the top openers. It will look like you’re trying way too hard, which lowers your attractiveness in her eyes (she’s thinking that if you’re such a catch– why would you be trying so hard to impress her). Basically, you want to have the mindset that just because she matched with you, doesn’t mean she’s already won you over.

Rule 2: Be the Buyer, Not the Seller

As discussed in the previous point, you don’t want to make it seem like the girl has won you over from just matching with you and being attractive. Women crave at least a little bit of a challenge. This is where the buyer - seller analogy comes in. Whoever is trying to win the other person over is the seller and you dont want that to be you.

Coming across as the “buyer” shows you have options, which is attractive. One of the best ways to come across as the “buyer” is to ask qualifying questions that demonstrate you have standards beyond her looks.
Qualifying Question Examples: “Are you open minded?”, “Are you adventurous?” “What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?” “Favorite travel destination?” “Are you kinky?”

Rule 3: Text Like A Man

When it comes to online dating, a lot of men get lazy or sloppy and send texts that barely make sense. This is something that’s not talked about enough. Women get turned off by poor grammar or a bunch of childish abbreviations (ex: wyd, hbu, gtfo, etc). Misspelling a word here and there is not a big deal, but when you’re typing like a teenager, that’s a different story.

In addition, avoid the excessive use of emojis. In general, emojis have one purpose, and that is to show that what you said was a joke (because she can’t see your facial expressions over text). However, guys start adding emojis to everything because they’re so worried about offending the girl. In reality, all their doing is just killing the attention.

Full Article with examples
https://noadsplease.com/5-rules-to-succe...-as-a-guy/

In this guide, i'm going to break down the 3 key rules required to succeed on dating apps in 2025 as a man. As I’m sure you know, girls are getting flooded with messages so it’s important to not make the same mistakes as most guys. This guide will help you stand out amongst the competition, text like a pro, and lead to more dates, hookups, and relationships.

Rule 1: Keep Your Opening Message Short

Most guys on Tinder go overly fancy and think they have to jump through hoops to impress the girl. So, they tend to put way too much time and energy into their Tinder opener. No matter how attractive you are, with an excessive Tinder pickup line, the girl gets turned off. Because when you put that much effort into your first text, the girl tends to think you don’t often match with girls of her caliber.

Avoid pickup lines or any over the top openers. It will look like you’re trying way too hard, which lowers your attractiveness in her eyes (she’s thinking that if you’re such a catch– why would you be trying so hard to impress her). Basically, you want to have the mindset that just because she matched with you, doesn’t mean she’s already won you over.

Rule 2: Be the Buyer, Not the Seller

As discussed in the previous point, you don’t want to make it seem like the girl has won you over from just matching with you and being attractive. Women crave at least a little bit of a challenge. This is where the buyer - seller analogy comes in. Whoever is trying to win the other person over is the seller and you dont want that to be you.

Coming across as the “buyer” shows you have options, which is attractive. One of the best ways to come across as the “buyer” is to ask qualifying questions that demonstrate you have standards beyond her looks.
Qualifying Question Examples: “Are you open minded?”, “Are you adventurous?” “What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?” “Favorite travel destination?” “Are you kinky?”

Rule 3: Text Like A Man

When it comes to online dating, a lot of men get lazy or sloppy and send texts that barely make sense. This is something that’s not talked about enough. Women get turned off by poor grammar or a bunch of childish abbreviations (ex: wyd, hbu, gtfo, etc). Misspelling a word here and there is not a big deal, but when you’re typing like a teenager, that’s a different story.

In addition, avoid the excessive use of emojis. In general, emojis have one purpose, and that is to show that what you said was a joke (because she can’t see your facial expressions over text). However, guys start adding emojis to everything because they’re so worried about offending the girl. In reality, all their doing is just killing the attention.

Full Article with examples
https://noadsplease.com/5-rules-to-succe...-as-a-guy/

You're on the date — now what? Your mission in large part is to build sexual tension and turn her on as much as possible. This is the difference between ending the night in bed together or getting a "let’s just be friends" text the next morning.

There are two main ways to turn a girl on: physical escalation and verbal escalation. Let’s start with the physical side first:

Step 1: Light touches on the arm or hand - start easy. A quick, casual touch on her arm or hand — like when she says something funny or makes a cute comment — is the perfect way to break the touch barrier.

Step 2: Physical proximity - you could argue this should even come before touching, but either way, getting physically closer ramps up the tension fast.

Step 3: Light touches on the leg or knee - same concept, but now you’re stepping it up. Touching her knee or thigh is way more intimate. Only go for this once you’ve gotten comfortable touching her arm — don’t rush it.

Step 4: Longer touches and light rubbing  - now it’s time to extend your touches. Instead of pulling away after a second, let your hand linger. Lightly stroke her leg while keeping the conversation fun and flirty. Make it feel natural, not forced.

Step 5: Playing with her hair - this is the green light moment, usually the last move before the kiss. Run your fingers through her hair gently while locking eyes with her. If you’ve built enough sexual tension, she might even kiss you first.

There's also a lot more, including the 5 verbal escalation steps. Full guide below

https://www.noadsplease.com/how-to-make-a-girl-horny/

Look guys, we all know modern women in every country are sluts.  I'm not saying you should only fuck virgins.  But here's my rule:

I will never fuck a girl who has been fucked by another man after I have fucked her.

So let's say she cheats on me.  I will not fuck her again.

Let's say I fuck her, then I found out she had a side piece afterwards.   I will not fuck her again.

Let's say I fuck her, then we break up, she fucks another guy, then she wants to get back together with me.  I will not fuck her again.

It's simple.  I do not want my dick to touch another man's jizz.  It's disgusting and gay.  It's also demeaning to yourself.

NEVER FOLLOW A DICK.