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METRO I would like to create a website where you can sell any type of item and only accept payments through cryptocurrencies, I am still learning web development it would be something basic HTML, CSS and a little JavaScript and python and slq could someone give me some useful advice for this please?

Hey everyone,

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the importance of having a strong, supportive social circle, especially in today’s digital age where meaningful connections can sometimes feel harder to come by. It seems like so much of our time is spent online or in environments where real, deep relationships are harder to cultivate.

I’m wondering if anyone here has tips on how to surround yourself with the right people—those who align with your values and goals. How do you go about meeting people who challenge you to grow, rather than just passively agreeing with everything you say? In my experience, there are lots of “friends” out there who either only talk about surface-level things or are constantly stuck in drama and negativity.

Additionally, what are your thoughts on keeping the right balance in a social circle? How do you make sure you’re not getting pulled into the wrong types of relationships or situations? I’ve been trying to be more intentional about who I spend time with, but it’s a tough task sometimes when you're balancing a busy schedule and trying to keep your focus on personal growth.

Do you think social circles have become too transactional in today’s world, where people just connect because of what they can get out of each other, rather than genuinely building trust and connection?

Would love to hear your thoughts and any advice you can offer!

Looking forward to the discussion.


Thanks in advance for your help and support.

Martyana
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Anyone in the area for winging? Long time pua guy here.

Anyone in the area for winging? Long time pua guy here.

Hi everyone,

I lost my old account, but since I am not into Reddit, I wanted to see what the guys on here have to say.

Like many guys here I am in my late 30s and ready to settle down now. I've had some great experiences over the years trying different girls around the world, but at some point enough is enough. It's my dream to leave city life in London and go back to the countryside now, but I can't do it alone.

So, I was curious what you all think about the importance of choosing someone who is your own nationality for settling down with?
Bit of background here: I'm ethnically British, but I've seen my country change so much over the past 30 years that it feels like a dead country now and doesn't feel like a home that I recognise as being my own. Despite what the whole woke nonsense says, there *is* such a thing as looking British (in the same way every other nationality in the world looks unique - Japan, Nigeria, Poland, Spain etc.), and contrary to misconceptions, the UK and Ireland has plenty to choose from in terms of decent looking women, who have a NW European appearance.

The problem though is, 1) education and culture has gone down a lot, and 2) what is the fate of the UK in the future? Probably not great.
In other words, do you "go home" with a fellow Brit while your country sinks, or do you just accept this country is dead and find someone from a different part of Europe to settle with? 

I think the idea of finding someone just like yourself is a lovely idea, but in practice really hard to achieve. And especially in London - it's so international now. I don't know where all the "wife material" types go, to be honest, because when I go out, all I see is trash, like around 95%.

Anyway, let me know your thoughts? Maybe this topic of tribalism and settling down resonated with people. And maybe some people find it uncomfortable because Western people are made by the media to feel ashamed over having an identity, while indigenous people in other parts of the world are encouraged to continue their legacy.

Thanks for your thoughts!

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I've been seeing this lovely European woman for more than three years. Completely wifey material. Local, clever, loyal, conservative, and attractive. This is definitely wifey material, I can tell.

But in a few years, I plan to take a second wife. My intention is to wed this woman and then introduce the need to bring a second wife into the household. The problem is that she expects me to be completely faithful even though she firmly believes that males are polygamous and that about 99% of men cheat. Instead of cheating her, why not having a 2nd wife? I believe I can get a nymphoniac wife from Asia or the Middle East.

In essence, I'm looking for a fierce nymphomaniac who will suck me all day long, together with a smart, devoted woman. I'd like to have both a traditional and a modern wife.

Any suggestions. Will such a plan work ?

Summation: Stayed five days in Asunción. Had some time off of work, thought it would be a nice little trip. I was not prepared for this city. 

Where to stay: Either Downtown near the Square, or by Paseo Carmelitas (upscale nightlife hub.)



A few standouts about the city:

- It's remarkably cheap, even for South America in terms of food and drink.
- To get anywhere, you have to drive. Cars are this city's language, for better/worse.
- This is the most tattoo-less city I have ever visited.
- Women are beautiful, but conservative. 
- Mercado 9 is a big deal here, it's an outdoor local market with food, apparel, electronics, etc.

Where to Day Game: the malls if you stay by Paseo Carmelitas: Paseo Galería and delSol Shopping. Also, the Downtown Square could be something.

Where to Night Game: so I didn't do a lot of nighttime gaming. Paseo Carmelitas is where I took dates though. It's very social circle oriented here a la Southern Europe. It's not unusual to see groups of 10-12 people, and there's not a lot of loners moving about. Asunción is less open to outsiders than Lima, and Quito. I got pretty hammered on one of my dates, between us we probably had 8 or 9 drinks, and my bill was $40. And this was between two gastropubs. It was a lot of fun walking the Paseo. Buy one of those Caipirinhas on the side of the road at night -- they come in a bag, and they're really good for a stroll.

Regrets: I regret not daygaming more in Downtown, and spending more time overall in this area. I think there's some gems to be had there. Paseo Carmelitas is a bit more stuffy, and upscale. 

The Women: good-looking in general, slender frames, dressing modestly. The women were patient, and cool for the most part. One girl wanted to bring her friend on a date, I told her politely where I come from, it is rude to make dates 2-on-1 encounters. It is worth noting this girl is 23. She acquiesced and sent her friend away, the conversation was a snooze. We watched the Mike Tyson/Logan Paul fight, and called it a night. Never saw her again. For the two I managed to have something with, the Night date was as I described before. We were both gone due to booze, and had a follow-up date later. The second one was pretty much ready to rock from meeting me. She was very pretty, tall, slender, she was grinding up on me at the mall where we first met, and this was to a degree no woman ever has on a first date so quickly without booze. Naturally, she confessed she had never been with an American before. So I took this as a green light, I attempted to escalate, and she was patient with me. We went to my place, kissed, made out, but she cut me off and didn't want to make it on the first date (understandable.) We met up again, and that's where we took it further at my place. Both girls very cool, the first girl only had me spend $20 on her drinks. The second girl, I was set back an astonishing $1.50 for an iced tea. I even offered to buy her a proper drink, or something with whipped cream on it at least. She politely declined and was fine with an iced tea.

Conclusion: Out of five days, I had 4 dates, and I converted 2 out of the 4. Would I return? Probably not as there are more cities to see, and there weren't a lot of museums, or art galleries to check out when I went (although that was likely on me.) I hear the real draw to Paraguay is not the city, but the greenery. Of course, you may not find many babes in the 'sticks'. Asunción is ideal for someone looking to save cash, lay low for a little bit, and maybe deal with a challenge, as the Paraguayan culture is not really normalized to foreigners daygaming. The girls were mostly cool, and very patient with me at times (for instance, when I looked for places to go we were walking a lot aimlessly.) This place feels very off the grid in regards to tourism perception.

For me, the next South American trip must be Porto Alegre or Córdoba.

Hello everyone, a few things about me. I am from Greece, Slavic looks, 6'2 and 26 years old. A few days ago I visited Nairobi for a few days and wanted to give  some information to whoever is planning to do a trip in this relatively unpopular area of the world. My trip was only for 3 days, so I didn't have the time to explore outside of the capital, although I would love to, Kenya is an amazing destination.
A few notes about the city 
It's actually quite modern and developed for an African city, has a pleasant climate (although i was unlucky to have heavy rains pretty much every day, the locals told me before i came there was no rain for weeks). At night it gets pretty cool, you might need a jacket. The city itself feels quite safe, much safer than let's say Johannesburg, has decent options on food, some high end places especially around Westlands and moving around is very easy and cheap with Uber and boda(motorbike). You can also book a bike through uber, it's cheaper and faster though not the safest option. I was amazed on how fast you can move across the city, traffic was not too bad for a 5M city, if you've been to cities like Kampala or Dakar you know what I mean, it might take hours to just get out of the city. Then there's that Expressway(toll road), where you can transfer from the airport to basically anywhere in the city in less than 40 minutes, and avoid all the traffic. There are 2 main areas of interest, Westlands and CBD. Westlands is a high end area , expat central and has the best restaurants, nightclubs, you name it. CBD feels much more local, you barely see foreigners, it's crowded and not too safe, but definitely much cleaner and organized compared to other African cities. Besides the airport, there is also Nairobi national park, which I ended up not going, but it's supposed to be very cool and you can get a half day tour for less than 100$ and see a lot of animals. I checked Giraffe center tho, where you can feed giraffes, it costs 10$ if i remember well and it's pretty cool. It's 30 minutes away from Nairobi.
The women
Okay, let's get to the main point. I had some interesting experiences and I can give my observations. First of all, I would say Nairobi is by far the easiest place I've been so far, if you want to get laid for free and if you want to score 7's and above. I've been to all of these basic RVF destinations, Manila, Bangkok, Jakarta, Phuket, and in Africa I've also been to Johannesburg, Kampala and Dakar. I read some posts here that Kenyan women are difficult or not as easy as Ugandans for example and I was pleasantly surprised to see that the options were pretty much endless and the attention I was getting in the streets and at nightclubs was insane. Don't expect to enter a nightclub and have all the women throwing on you just because you're white tho, there are a lot of expats over there. Still it's much better than Manila or Bangkok in my experience.
Online game
I used Tinder premium and had almost 1000 likes in 3 days, and pretty much endless options as you can imagine. As everywhere in the world, quality in Tinder is pretty low, but when you get 1000 likes you will definitely have some decent options as well(i would say around 10-20%), and with a lot of them it's pretty straightforward and you can set a date almost immediately, like meet them a few hours later. Some of them will literally beg you and they keep spamming you with messages if you stop answering. I met 3 girls through Tinder and banged all of them at first date. 2 of them came straight to my room. None of them asked for money(Uganda, I look at you). I tried to videocall first, So I wouldn't get catfished. Yes, it's very easy here to bang 2 new girls every day, but after a while it gets boring and honestly i got burned out very fast.
Comparison with Manila
I would give my perspective of how these 2 cities compare to each other, as I was in Manila 2 weeks ago and used the same methods(Tinder and nightlife) and a lot of people consider Manila the easiest place in the world. Well let me say, it's nowhere as easy as Nairobi. In Nairobi i banged 5 girls in 3 days, while in Manila 4 girls in 5 days. I got around 700 tinder likes in Manila and 1000 in Nairobi. Quality is much better in Nairobi, I banged some 7 and 8, while Manila was maybe 6.5 at best. Some 5's as well. It's much much easier to set dates in Nairobi. A lot of good looking girls in Manila tinder will never respond to you or won't agree to a date that fast or will be flakey. I experienced 0 flaking in Nairobi, although I'm sure it can happen(as everywhere). At nightclubs, I got more attention in Nairobi, although i got some in Manila as well. Makati is overrun by expats, i think this brings a lot of competition and thus the bitchy attitudes. 
Comparison with Kampala
A comparison with Kampala is also very interesting, as it's a neighboring country, I was there in October also for 3 days, and a lot of people say Uganda is much easier and liberal on terms of getting laid than Kenya. I remember i got laid with 4 different girls when I was there, though 2 of them asked me for money after, which was traumatic experience and left me disgusted. The quality was much lower too. Though I didn't try that much online dating to be honest, only Badoo which doesn't work nearly as well as Tinder, but nightlife was filled with pros, literally in specific places, like Kabalagala it feels like every single woman there is working. I even visited a very local place in a different area, with 0 foreigners, I met a girl there, she came to my room, and the next morning she demanded taxi money (she told me she needs to go to Entebbe and asked around 10 euros, while when i asked her last night on the club where she's staying she told me 5 minutes away. But i really didn't want anymore trouble, so i gave her the money. But the whole experience left me deeply disappointed. Compared to Kampala, I think Nairobi nightlife has much more normal girls, with normal jobs who will not ask you for any money and they just want to have sex with you. Of course there are pros, both in night venues and Tinder, but most of them are straightforward beforehand, so you can just ignore them.
Nightlife 
There are 2 nightlife areas, as far as I know, Westlands and CBD. I went to Nairobi on a Saturday, and I decided to go out just in Saturday night, as they told me things in the weekdays are pretty much dead and there is a more chilled vibe rather than partying. Westlands is full of expats and is the only place i checked out, while CBD is much more local. I usually go for the local places and I avoid the expats spots, though in this case i read that most places in CBD are lounges with tables and bottle service which makes it very difficult for socialising, and being solo, i decided to stay in Westlands. I checked out 2 places
Alchemist: Full of expats(like 70%), doesn't feel like Africa at all, was very disappointed from the crowd, if you're looking for Kenyan women you will be disappointed, at least that was the case in my night. I got a beer and sat at the bar and a Chinese girl came to me(barely a 5) and started hitting on me. I was Very disappointed of the place and i thought the night will be a failure, and as she was making very clear her intentions i decided to give it a try and we left with her car for my apartment. After banging her, I decided to check on Brew Bistro, another famous spot around, as it was still 1AM. Well, that was so much better, expats were around 30%, some good talent (nothing too great tho), had a few locals hitting on me, and there was a dancing floor which made socialising easy. I saw one of the best looking girls in the club (maybe a 8) checking on me, so before leaving i decided to talk to her. She was very friendly and we left the club together, but she told me it's too late and she felt like going home at the moment but we can hangout the next day. I ended up banging her next day, though the sex was very very mediocre.
The dark side of Nairobi women
So far, I only talked about the positive side, making it sound like a poosy paradise. While it's true, and I think that as a white young guy it's extremely easy not only to get laid, but score high quality, there is also a lot of negative aspects about my experience with Kenyan women, which also applies to African women in general. First of all, Kenya is a very poor country and the basic salary is 100$ per month. It's much much poorer than Philippines or Thailand for example. Women are very desperate in general and I feel like one of the reasons they're falling so easily for foreigners is because they're hoping for a better future. I'm not saying that the women i went with, didn't want to actually have sex with me or expected something after it, but some of them may also tried to take advantage of the situation. I kept contact with 2 of the girls, one of my tinder dates and the model looking girl from the club. I let them know I'm coming back in Saturday for one day cause of my job (I'm a flight attendant). Both asked me to bring something from my country as a gift (like Dubai chocolate or a perfume). When i saw that, I immediately lost interest in both of them and stopped texting them. I feel like this is an African thing and not just Kenyan tho, same thing happened with the girls i banged in South Africa etc. The tinder date was just back from 2 years of working in Saudi Arabia (with decent money, she owned an iPhone 12) yet she was asking for gifts. I'm very against being the provider in a relationship, especially with someone that you just met. This will never happen in Thailand or even in the Philippines. Yes, im SEA you are expected to pay for Uber, for food etc but asking someone you just met to bring you gifts is a totally another level for me and a huge red flag. I felt like it was impossible to have a genuine connection with these girls, the dynamics in dating are vastly different compared to my standards and I didn't really have the desire to see any of these women again, which doesn't usually happen in SEA for example.
The second important point about African women is that they mostly suck at bed. Again, this is my personal experience and I really want to believe that I'm just unlucky and this can't be true. Everyone is talking about how black women are freak on beds, and when you go black you never go back , they know how to move, blah blah. I've been with around 10 African women so far from 3 different countries, and in my experience on average they're way worse than Latinas, Asians, or Europeans. A good percent of them, maybe half of them or more are unable to get on top of you and ride you. I consider this crazy as I never had any girl outside of Africa telling me I don't know how to ride you or I'm not good at top. Yet a lot of them in Kenya and Uganda simply told me I don't know how to do it, sorry or they completely refused. Some of them were very shy at bed, despite not being shy as a person. Some of them were barely moving and not doing any effort from their side, despite me doing a great effort to satisfy them. 2 of them were actually quite good(1 Ugandan and 1 Kenyan), but nothing too crazy. Again, take this much with a grain of salt, this is my very personal experience, it might be very different for someone else, but i want to give me 2 cents.
All in all, Nairobi was a pleasant experience, I really enjoyed the city and my time there. I feel like it's a lovely place, as maybe Johannesburg feels too westernised and white and somewhat boring, while Kampala is overwhelming and crowded. I would say Nairobi is somewhere on the middle, this sweet spot. It's very easy to get laid, if you want to score some hotties with minimum effort, that's the place. In the end of the day I realised African women are maybe not my thing though, but I'm still glad I experienced this crazy city and had these stories.

I have my own podcast and have done over 260 episodes. I attended a small conference in Miami over the weekend. There were several speakers that I thought would be good podcast guests. One was a female advocate for raw milk--I will just call her "Milkmaid." After Milkmaid was on a panel, I mentioned to her that I would like to have her on my show. This was on Saturday.

A friend of mine came down on Sunday with his Dutch wife. I will call him "Thor." I will call her "Dutchie." I've known them since 2018 and even visited them in the Netherlands back in 2019. Dutchie sat on a bench beside me. According to a story I just heard from Thor, Milkmaid came over to Dutchie to "warn" her that she should not sit by me.

I didn't have a cross word with Milkmaid at the conference. I left, and it was pretty much uneventful. I followed Milkmaid on Twitter and added her as a friend on Facebook.

I heard all this from Thor today and was quite fumed. Milkmaid didn't know anything about me before this event. I knew nothing about Milkmaid. Milkmiad didn't know that I had known Dutchie and Thor since 2018. I blocked Milkmaid on Facebook and Twitter, because such women are extremely dangerous.

Thor has offered to moderate the situation. He is going to talk to Milkmaid about it. I have no interest in making peace with Milkmaid. I simply want to stay the hell away from her. I won't get her on my podcast. And why would I want an unconsionable liar like Milkmaid on my show anyway? More importantly, is this going to do anything to keep Milkmaid or other women from doing shit like this in the future?