Hi there
My 2 weeks in Budapest just ended. Here my report.
Last year in summer, I was in Poland (1.5w in Wroclaw and 1.5w in Krakow) and had probably the time of my life. I invested a lot but I was able to bring back multiple girls into my bedroom.
That's why my expectations for Budapest were huge.
I prepared by creating 3 different Tinder accounts (37y, 33y, 28y), so I could reach as many women as possible betw. 18-50. I booked an airbnb in the center of the center. I found 4 Ghostwriters (after 10 screenings) who all got a 15 page long manual from me and who were ready on call to take over the tinder accounts (only 1 ghostwriter at a time though), if I needed a ghostwriter.
My goal was to combine Daygame, Nightgame, and Tinder (Bumble too but I couldn't start Bumble Desktop in Budapest, so I only used Bumble for the first few days).
Didn't have too many good pictures of myself so I hired a photographer and we had a photo shoot right at the beginning of my vacation. Got super good pictures within 1h, for 60$, wow. Spent 120$ on Photofeeler to choose the best ones. By the way, my Ratings were betw. 8.5 and 10.00. However, I look quite normal, the pics were just very good (evening sun, right angle..).
On the first 2 days, I did only daygame, and as I used the app "thing counter", I now know it were 62 women I approached. For those who are interested in the details:
5-6 close: 11
5-6 no close: 24
7-8 close: 2
7-8 no close: 15
9-10 close: 0
9-10 no close: 2
age gap too big: 2
no reaction: 4
However, I was pretty disappointed with those closes as I couldn't transform them into real dates (maybe there was one? I don't even remember). So I said to myself I don't waste too much time with daygame but instead focus on Tinder.
I have a hungarian name (thought this would be a plus) but I wrote in my profile that I am just visiting my dad.
So what was the result?
I got lots of matches. I am not sure how many but after a certain days I once counted all matches of just 1 account of my 3 accounts. It were about 100 matches. I unmatched some girls before and some girls unmatched me by that time. So I'd say I had matches with about 400-600 women in those 2 weeks.
It was extremely time-consuming to keep up with the conversation. My strategy was to keep it very short, to ask for a date after just 2-5 messages.
At the beginning I was creating original openers, to make sure I get as many responses as possible. But after a few days, I came to the conclusion that this is just too time-consuming as well, so I just used the standard opener "great smile!", as most girls have at least 1 picture where they smile. And if not, other openers like "great background", "great outfits", "great hair color" etc.
Can't really say how many replied. But I'd say 50% would have been ready for a date. Some complained or told me indirectly, that I was too fast in wanting to meet them, and of course me being a tourist only, was a problem for most.
I bought some superlikes and boosts here and there but when I found out that I spent over $200 on that stuff, I was pretty surprised. I am not sure but I think I had one or another date with a superliked girl or a boost girl, but still, I probably won't buy superlikes anymore. It's not totally useless but just too pricey for me.
So how many dates did I have and how much did I enjoy them? I set up 81 dates. Here the details for those who are interested:
Dates: 33
Dates canceled by the girls: 29
Dates canceled by me: 15 (didn't have time for all)
Sex: 4
And those sex dates all happened on the last 4 days :-D. I was in a very bad mood after 11d of sex free vacation but those 4 last days, they saved my whole trip haha.
With the standard looking girls, my goal was always to have sex on the first date. So I was probably way too fast for lots of girls as I sometimes tried to escalate within 30 minutes.
It was a huge task to keep those dates organized as most girls:
a) wanted to continue chatting here and then until the date happened
b) some were late or wanted to meet at another place and/or at another time
I was constantly having 3 phones with me and always had to send messages while on the toilet when I was on a date haha.
So how much did I like the hungarian girls? I preferred the ones in Poland. And the ones in Croatia were just playing in a different league. I thought the girls in Budapest were very conservative on Tinder. Lots of them told me that they don't to meet tourists. Didn't remember that many answers like that when I was in Poland.
Budapest felt quite big. Totally different than for example Wroclaw with the cute market place in the center. I preferred Wroclaw so so much more when it came to daygame.
Would I recommend Budapest? Yes, there are those cool thermal baths (party on Saturday evening, missed it though), the girls are looking ok, most have at least basic English skills like me, the nightlife is good (Szimpla), and the food is fatty but tasty.
What was my main problem?
I often went to bed after midnight and I couldn't sleep very well as there were construction works ongoing on the building, starting at 8am. So that killed my energy a bit.
Oh but for all those who want to try a cool Gym in Budapest: Go to the 4% Gym. The music playing there is awesome. Ah and last but not last, there were so so many bars in Budapest. For those who love going to bars, you're in heaven in Budapest.
Conclusion:
I can expect that about every 3rd date will be canceled beforehand. That means I still have to make sure I set up multiple dates every day. But maybe I should focus on having first dates whenever possible just after work at around 5-6pm and 2nd dates only later in the evening, like from 9pm or so. Whatever, very theoretical, in practice it always looks very different.
Will maybe hit Belgrade next time. Won't be easier there but at least a 5 over there will look fantastic in my eyes
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Cheers.
My 2 weeks in Budapest just ended. Here my report.
Last year in summer, I was in Poland (1.5w in Wroclaw and 1.5w in Krakow) and had probably the time of my life. I invested a lot but I was able to bring back multiple girls into my bedroom.
That's why my expectations for Budapest were huge.
I prepared by creating 3 different Tinder accounts (37y, 33y, 28y), so I could reach as many women as possible betw. 18-50. I booked an airbnb in the center of the center. I found 4 Ghostwriters (after 10 screenings) who all got a 15 page long manual from me and who were ready on call to take over the tinder accounts (only 1 ghostwriter at a time though), if I needed a ghostwriter.
My goal was to combine Daygame, Nightgame, and Tinder (Bumble too but I couldn't start Bumble Desktop in Budapest, so I only used Bumble for the first few days).
Didn't have too many good pictures of myself so I hired a photographer and we had a photo shoot right at the beginning of my vacation. Got super good pictures within 1h, for 60$, wow. Spent 120$ on Photofeeler to choose the best ones. By the way, my Ratings were betw. 8.5 and 10.00. However, I look quite normal, the pics were just very good (evening sun, right angle..).
On the first 2 days, I did only daygame, and as I used the app "thing counter", I now know it were 62 women I approached. For those who are interested in the details:
5-6 close: 11
5-6 no close: 24
7-8 close: 2
7-8 no close: 15
9-10 close: 0
9-10 no close: 2
age gap too big: 2
no reaction: 4
However, I was pretty disappointed with those closes as I couldn't transform them into real dates (maybe there was one? I don't even remember). So I said to myself I don't waste too much time with daygame but instead focus on Tinder.
I have a hungarian name (thought this would be a plus) but I wrote in my profile that I am just visiting my dad.
So what was the result?
I got lots of matches. I am not sure how many but after a certain days I once counted all matches of just 1 account of my 3 accounts. It were about 100 matches. I unmatched some girls before and some girls unmatched me by that time. So I'd say I had matches with about 400-600 women in those 2 weeks.
It was extremely time-consuming to keep up with the conversation. My strategy was to keep it very short, to ask for a date after just 2-5 messages.
At the beginning I was creating original openers, to make sure I get as many responses as possible. But after a few days, I came to the conclusion that this is just too time-consuming as well, so I just used the standard opener "great smile!", as most girls have at least 1 picture where they smile. And if not, other openers like "great background", "great outfits", "great hair color" etc.
Can't really say how many replied. But I'd say 50% would have been ready for a date. Some complained or told me indirectly, that I was too fast in wanting to meet them, and of course me being a tourist only, was a problem for most.
I bought some superlikes and boosts here and there but when I found out that I spent over $200 on that stuff, I was pretty surprised. I am not sure but I think I had one or another date with a superliked girl or a boost girl, but still, I probably won't buy superlikes anymore. It's not totally useless but just too pricey for me.
So how many dates did I have and how much did I enjoy them? I set up 81 dates. Here the details for those who are interested:
Dates: 33
Dates canceled by the girls: 29
Dates canceled by me: 15 (didn't have time for all)
Sex: 4
And those sex dates all happened on the last 4 days :-D. I was in a very bad mood after 11d of sex free vacation but those 4 last days, they saved my whole trip haha.
With the standard looking girls, my goal was always to have sex on the first date. So I was probably way too fast for lots of girls as I sometimes tried to escalate within 30 minutes.
It was a huge task to keep those dates organized as most girls:
a) wanted to continue chatting here and then until the date happened
b) some were late or wanted to meet at another place and/or at another time
I was constantly having 3 phones with me and always had to send messages while on the toilet when I was on a date haha.
So how much did I like the hungarian girls? I preferred the ones in Poland. And the ones in Croatia were just playing in a different league. I thought the girls in Budapest were very conservative on Tinder. Lots of them told me that they don't to meet tourists. Didn't remember that many answers like that when I was in Poland.
Budapest felt quite big. Totally different than for example Wroclaw with the cute market place in the center. I preferred Wroclaw so so much more when it came to daygame.
Would I recommend Budapest? Yes, there are those cool thermal baths (party on Saturday evening, missed it though), the girls are looking ok, most have at least basic English skills like me, the nightlife is good (Szimpla), and the food is fatty but tasty.
What was my main problem?
I often went to bed after midnight and I couldn't sleep very well as there were construction works ongoing on the building, starting at 8am. So that killed my energy a bit.
Oh but for all those who want to try a cool Gym in Budapest: Go to the 4% Gym. The music playing there is awesome. Ah and last but not last, there were so so many bars in Budapest. For those who love going to bars, you're in heaven in Budapest.
Conclusion:
I can expect that about every 3rd date will be canceled beforehand. That means I still have to make sure I set up multiple dates every day. But maybe I should focus on having first dates whenever possible just after work at around 5-6pm and 2nd dates only later in the evening, like from 9pm or so. Whatever, very theoretical, in practice it always looks very different.
Will maybe hit Belgrade next time. Won't be easier there but at least a 5 over there will look fantastic in my eyes
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Cheers.