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04-08-2019, 07:10 PM
My wife and I took a stroll through a local university campus on their open day a couple of months ago, when there were lots of young guys and girls getting to uni for the first time. My wife, being the eternal optimist matchmaker, said excitedly "I hope many of them meet, marry and make babies!" By the time we were through to the other side of the crowd, passing the guys who skip leg days, the ones with man buns, the ones who can't grow any facial hair, the ones wearing skirts and so on, her optimism turned into "Do these young guys have soy milk with their cereals daily?"
Can't always blame the chicks for the thread's topic.
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04-08-2019, 08:14 PM
Strikeback, no offense but I doubt your wife said those things. That’s not how women talk and it sounds more like typical manosphere banter.
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04-08-2019, 09:39 PM
Let's not forget the liability on Hellywood's part.
All those movies perpetuating exaggerated romance / romantic comedy scenarios & stereotypes.
All that bullshit, juvenile Disney princess / prince charming nonsense.
Any chick who desires some sort of Hollowood romance or Disney princess charming scenario to manifest in her real life, is kidding herself.
Real life is not a movie, real life is complicated & each chick is not a proverbial 'princess' deserving of some storybook / fairytale ending.
Yes the counter is that we as men need to grab their attention some other way & grab their attention regardless of the above.
Yet their strong underlying desire for juvenile fantasy does not help matters.
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04-08-2019, 10:48 PM
I also want to see a study on condom and contraceptive sales. I wonder how this study correlates with those sales. Funny, you would think big pharma would be actively pushing sexual activity in order to make disease spread more so that they could profit more of contraceptive sales and STD medication.
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04-09-2019, 12:48 AM
An incel at my gym (no homo - in shape, decent looking) is IN LOVE with the cute girl working the counter. Never asked her out and never initiates any contact. I'm assuming he's paralyzed with fear of rejection.
I'd like to see a graph showing the same people not having sex and their number of approaches over the last month.
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04-09-2019, 03:20 AM
Video gaming:
This is a tough one for me to fully articulate, but it boils down to what are we offering these boys that would make them not want to play games?
I don't think team sports is the answer. A lot of kids are not wired to play sports. Blah blah muh hunter-gatherers blah.
Sure, if you're a natural athlete, you can be one of the top dogs on the sports team, but who wants to be the bottom of the totem pole just by virtue of not being tall, fast or strong enough? These are the guys who end up addicted to video games, porn, and drugs.
Being forever second-string at something just feels bad.
I did competitive tae kwon do all throughout middle and high school and did the national tournament circuit for a bit of time. I know what it's like to compete and I was pretty decent at it. I loved the fuck out of it. In another lifetime I might have gone further with it, but I found that video games still won out in the end.
We can wax poetic about all the beautiful lessons we learned playing sports and competing (and I'm inclined to agree), but gaming is sort of an outgrowth of that in my eyes.
For a guy with extremely high dexterity and intelligence, you could become a musician, race car driver, pilot or something, but those jobs are often out of reach for guys with the requisite genetics until they've done years and years of schooling and then take a battery of tests and even then you may not make it. Let's not even get into the politicking that comes with it.
With gaming, it's just match-making. You win the matches, you go further and if you get really good you can compete for money. The prize pots for some local tournaments are fucking awesome now.
I know I'm a massive nerd, but aside from watching Boxing, Crossfit and UFC, the only other competition that truly engages me is watching professionals play fighting games.
What I love about gaming (in its most ideal form) is it's a type of competition where anyone can be competitive. If you're not too fast with your hands but you memorize match-ups and tactics you can hold your own at the highest levels.
If you got fast hands and you like to play risky, you can still destroy people based on your reactions and unorthodox approaches.
Something about it feels more "fair" than the real world and I can see why guys opt out of life to just game all the time.
What now?
A lot of the addicted gamer kids I meet now would have been the nerds of the past. The guys who do well in school but aren't exactly popular for it. Maybe they lack some social skills or they have weird hobbies.
The thing with that type of kid is that many of them are a lot smarter than average but they get average options thrown at them. This is why I've always been skeptical of "gifted" programs in schools. The people running them aren't gifted, otherwise, they wouldn't be running a program for gifted people.
These programs are designed by mediocrities to further accelerate smart kids down the path that mediocre kids usually take. Very compelling.
I knew many guys like this when I was growing up.
I saw this go down with my youngest sibling.
He was extremely withdrawn at the time so they ran a battery of tests of on him because they thought he had a learning disability. To the school's surprise, he was well above average for his age in all subjects and even amazing at math, but he was bored as hell.
They got him some extra help with organizational skills, but the fundamental issue is that kids like that cannot be engaged by the usual means. Left to their own devices, they find something they enjoy doing. Without guidance, that "something" is usually not anything that furthers the program.
Guys like this slip through the cracks all the time.
This isn't a problem that started 10 years ago. This problem goes back way further and it's now becoming an issue since these guys should be in the workforce but they aren't.
A lot of blame is laid at the feet of video game devs for making their products too addictive, but what does society offer to these guys that would make it worth it?
Addictive distractions have always existed: whoring, alcoholism, drugs and other things used to be practically legal but they weren't hitting such vast swathes of the population like they are now.
I'm not being pessimistic, but college is mostly a lame debt scam for a lot of guys now. Why hustle all throughout high school so you can take on your serving of McDebt?
The workforce?
Who the fuck wants to shuffle papers until they die AND do it for WAY less than your grandfather did it.
Raising a family?
Many of these kids are from broken homes. They wouldn't have a clue on how to run game, much less raise a kid and train a wife.
This isn't something that you can just solve with legislation because the guys will still be the same.
Let's say Yang Bucks becomes a thing. Some guys on the edge will probably become fruitful citizens, but many guys who are in the basement will remain there.
There needs to be a huge philosophical overhaul of the way we portray manhood or this problem will escalate.
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04-09-2019, 05:26 AM
^ Funny, I actually call myself "the god-king" as a way to troll certain chicks. It goes over strangely well.
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04-09-2019, 06:43 AM
Strikeback is making all the right moves with his wife but I think a bit more humility about his luck might be in order too.
"Here go I but for the grace of God" and all that.
Personally I'm understandably hesitant to attribute a lack of woman handling skills to guys like Roosh and Aurini as an explanation for a lack of wife material in their lives.
The public will judge a man by what he lifts, but those close to him will judge him by what he carries.
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04-09-2019, 07:14 AM
Guy is 8-9 in his prime, top tier in looks department and he got list of 3 reasonable conditions; no women with kids, no loose slutty women and no golddgers
Now you go check out profile of some post wall out of shape woman and find she has 2 pages long list of conditions and demands very few man can pass
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04-09-2019, 07:27 AM
Yeah no.. one and 3 I can understand if he's trying to be edgy, some chicks dig that.
Number 2, not even 'no associating with negros' .. No THINKING about it.
The guys got issues.
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04-09-2019, 07:38 AM
^The guy is probably confused, and should just date Asian women exclusively. I most open minded Chinese I know, would just not do blacks.