There are guys on here who are way better at game advice than I am, so I am just going to speak to what I know.
Being a male virgin at 20, or 22, or 25 is not as uncommon as people think. You are talking about 5-11% of the male population. And, quite frankly, I have always felt those numbers might be an under-representation. So, get it out of your mind that you are the only guy(s) in your situation.
As to the who you should lose it to, that depends on what you want. A lot of inexperienced guys just want a girlfriend. Fair enough. If that's the case, I will double-down on a previous poster that you should NOT be aiming for experienced girls. In your situation, I would take a nice, inexperienced 6 over a slutty 8. That is, if you are looking for some sort of relationship experience. Ideally, you would find a fellow virgin. I have only met a few girls in my life who like the idea of sleeping with a virgin guy (and those girls were crazy as shit). But, most virgin girls I have spoken to don't totally discount the idea of a mutual "deflowering".
But, again, no relationships with experienced girls. I assume, since you are on RVF and from what you have said, that you have some RP knowledge. I see no need to RP you in hard mode by having you get screwed over by some girl that is (for now) out of your sexual league, so to speak.
Finally, as to the guy who has the sure thing lined up - would this be a one and done? And, if so, would that be much different (to you) from, say, hiring a pro? If that's the case, I would consider your possible response to that. It isn't spoken about enough on the forum, but guys absolutely can have deep emotional responses to sex (specifically the first time). I know ... ! But, I have spoken to a lot (and I mean A LOT) of guys who felt that their first time had a lasting effect on how they approached sex. It's more important to women, to be sure. But, I don't think it should be discounted for guys.
Being a male virgin at 20, or 22, or 25 is not as uncommon as people think. You are talking about 5-11% of the male population. And, quite frankly, I have always felt those numbers might be an under-representation. So, get it out of your mind that you are the only guy(s) in your situation.
As to the who you should lose it to, that depends on what you want. A lot of inexperienced guys just want a girlfriend. Fair enough. If that's the case, I will double-down on a previous poster that you should NOT be aiming for experienced girls. In your situation, I would take a nice, inexperienced 6 over a slutty 8. That is, if you are looking for some sort of relationship experience. Ideally, you would find a fellow virgin. I have only met a few girls in my life who like the idea of sleeping with a virgin guy (and those girls were crazy as shit). But, most virgin girls I have spoken to don't totally discount the idea of a mutual "deflowering".
But, again, no relationships with experienced girls. I assume, since you are on RVF and from what you have said, that you have some RP knowledge. I see no need to RP you in hard mode by having you get screwed over by some girl that is (for now) out of your sexual league, so to speak.
Finally, as to the guy who has the sure thing lined up - would this be a one and done? And, if so, would that be much different (to you) from, say, hiring a pro? If that's the case, I would consider your possible response to that. It isn't spoken about enough on the forum, but guys absolutely can have deep emotional responses to sex (specifically the first time). I know ... ! But, I have spoken to a lot (and I mean A LOT) of guys who felt that their first time had a lasting effect on how they approached sex. It's more important to women, to be sure. But, I don't think it should be discounted for guys.
Currently out of office.