Ok so I don't consider myself a newbie but I suppose this is a newbie sort of question.
You daygame (or whatever), you get numbers, most are fake/flake but some respond.
After some back and forward banter you propose a meeting. She makes an excuse without proposing an alternative. My personal pet hate.
So a week later you either ping or make more banter and try again. She does the exact same thing - turns down the offer without offering any alternative.
So you (I) delete her number and move on.
A week later she contacts you asking how you are doing, banter ensures, you ask her out and low and behold she does the exact same thing.
What do you guys do in this situation? I mean for the girls who don't propose an alternative and keep doing this, deleting her number is the obvious answer but what about girls who keep hitting you up first at later dates?
One lead of mine in Poland contacted me no less than 3 times over the last year out of the blue but like clock work she would not offer any alternative when I proposed a meeting. If she messages me again I will tell her she has broken the record for a girl having her number deleted from my phone
In the past I used to 'steamroll' girls, just keep messaging them whether from tinder or day game until they were forced to give an answer as to whether they wanted to meet or not but I eventually stopped doing that as I found it soul-destroying and got burnt out as a result.
So I try to play the numbers game hard and only focus energy on girls who if they don't accept a meeting suggestion at least offer an alternative. Yet at the same time, how many of these other girls are you missing out on if you don't apply some kind of game to 'persuade' them to meet you even when they are giving you nothing back?
You daygame (or whatever), you get numbers, most are fake/flake but some respond.
After some back and forward banter you propose a meeting. She makes an excuse without proposing an alternative. My personal pet hate.
So a week later you either ping or make more banter and try again. She does the exact same thing - turns down the offer without offering any alternative.
So you (I) delete her number and move on.
A week later she contacts you asking how you are doing, banter ensures, you ask her out and low and behold she does the exact same thing.
What do you guys do in this situation? I mean for the girls who don't propose an alternative and keep doing this, deleting her number is the obvious answer but what about girls who keep hitting you up first at later dates?
One lead of mine in Poland contacted me no less than 3 times over the last year out of the blue but like clock work she would not offer any alternative when I proposed a meeting. If she messages me again I will tell her she has broken the record for a girl having her number deleted from my phone
In the past I used to 'steamroll' girls, just keep messaging them whether from tinder or day game until they were forced to give an answer as to whether they wanted to meet or not but I eventually stopped doing that as I found it soul-destroying and got burnt out as a result.
So I try to play the numbers game hard and only focus energy on girls who if they don't accept a meeting suggestion at least offer an alternative. Yet at the same time, how many of these other girls are you missing out on if you don't apply some kind of game to 'persuade' them to meet you even when they are giving you nothing back?