My sex game used to be gentle and tender because I (mistakenly) thought that's what women wanted. Most of my notches were one and dones. After reading this thread and doing other research on being more dominant and rougher with women in the sack I implemented a much more aggressive approach the last couple months. Of my last four notches, three of them have been eager for repeat bangs and the fourth one I wasn't interested in after the SNL anyway. Short of serious injury it's always best to err on the side of being too rough.
Edit: My new techniques have included hair pulling, ass slapping, dirty talk and after a minute or two of slow fucking just pounding the hell out of the pussy. In fact with my latest notch I was hitting her so hard from behind she started bleeding. I thought it was just her period starting but she casually remarked "no, that's not for a few days, you were just going really hard and deep. But I liked the pain!" It kind of threw me for a second but hey part of game is adapting to changing situations so if rough is what they want, rough is what they'll get!
Edit: My new techniques have included hair pulling, ass slapping, dirty talk and after a minute or two of slow fucking just pounding the hell out of the pussy. In fact with my latest notch I was hitting her so hard from behind she started bleeding. I thought it was just her period starting but she casually remarked "no, that's not for a few days, you were just going really hard and deep. But I liked the pain!" It kind of threw me for a second but hey part of game is adapting to changing situations so if rough is what they want, rough is what they'll get!